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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dalia: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by MohdAnwar: [qb] Dear Dalia I don't want to annoy u but as i feel it normal thing in any home that someone must be a leader. matters can't be loose. in (ISLAM) god give the man this leadership with all its responsiablities and its problems and he will be asked what he did with it.and i think also in christainity. mohamed [/qb][/QUOTE]I don't buy this thing about leadership. If I look around me the best and longest-lasting relationships are those where both partners treat each other with respect and none claims to be the "leader". If I look at the Qur'an I see that men and women are "garments for each other", that they should treat each other with love and respect – a husband "disciplining" his wife (what a horrible expression, btw!) or the concept of leadership is a contradiction to that. [i]O mankind! Be conscious of your Sustainer, who has created you out of one living entity (nafs) ... (4:1) ... go in to your wives; they are a garment for you and you are a garment for them ... (2:187) And among his wonders is this: He creates for you mates out of your own kind, so that you might incline towards them, and [b]He engenders love and tenderness between you: in this, behold there are messages indeed for people who think.[/b] (30:21) And do not covet that whereby God has exalted some of you above others; for men is a share of what they earn, and for women is a share of what they earn; and ask God of His bounty; God surely knows everything. (4:32) [/i] [/QB][/QUOTE]
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