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Can someone pls help me. Its like this. Im maried with a egyptien sens 1 and a half year ago. We will have a baby 2 months later. And he will go to army about 1 or 2 months later. IS it really nothing we can do so he cant go to army. I now before that they did not have to do it if they was maried with someone from another contry, but they change that now. I really dont now how i can be without him for 2 years. Not be able to call him or anything. IS it really nothing i or my huseband can do so he dont need to go to army. Someone Plase.
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It has already been discussed here many times, here is the link of our last discussion (last week): http://www.egyptsearch.com/forums/Forum1/HTML/002758.html Please use the search button, type "army", and you will find many pages about this problem. Good luck!
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But is it not like this in egypt, that the man have ekonomi rigths to his wife and child. That he need to work and pye for his wife and childrens. How can he do that if he have to do the army? And how will his child and wife survive when he is in the army hope u understnad what i mean. Posts: 56 | From: sweden | Registered: Sep 2005
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you are really in a twisted situation, high pregnant and your husband will go off to service in the Army shortly.
Where are you located right now? Do you live in Egypt? If he's not able to provide while he's absent from you and the child then you need to move in with his family.
Did you think about to move back to your home country so your family would be able to help you out in the meantime? Or would they be able to financially support you for some time if you'd stay in Egypt with the baby?
I know these worries must kill you right now, please try to concentrate on your pregnancy and look forward to deliver a beautiful baby. Do you have all the supplies to welcome your little one?
I can't give you any advise on how your husband could avoid Army duty, I heard of couple of cases were people were able to buy themselves out through connections and money.
But don't count on it. If you would like to talk further please post you e-mail address. By the way I will be having another baby in about 13 weeks.
Please take good care of yourself.
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hi tigerlily. yes im home now in my contry(sweden. Yes i think i have everything fot the baby, The goverment hade to help me with the ekonomi, because its not possible for me to be in egypt if he have to do te army. NO its not easy, specilly when i now that i will not be ably to call him or send sms to him everyday like i do now. And that he will miss 2 years of his doters life =/ I really really hope with all my heart that we can do something so he dont need to go to army.
Åhh god lucke with the new baby =) Ymmmi@spray.se is my e-mail adress.
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i was also hearing about pople that gave the army money for not to go to army, but i wonder how mutch that is. And if we really an truste the man that they give money to, Its egypt after all. And how we can finde a man that can help us. Posts: 56 | From: sweden | Registered: Sep 2005
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Hi Ymmmi! But why are you the one dealing with all this? I mean, your husband is the one who speaks arabic, who knows the culture, who has contacts there, who know what is and what isn't possible. And how come he didn't react before? I mean, you're pregnant, and he knows he's going to be sent to the army in a couple months. How come he left this huge problem unsolved until the last minute? It's something I can't understand. And again, you're the one who's pregnant, you should have a quiet environment, instead of this, you will have to deal with loneliness, and strong financial problems...He's the one who has to provide you with everything, and care about everything. There's something wrong I think. Take care of yourself, and may Allah help you.
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yes i now, and he is trying in egypt also to finde some whys so he dont need to go the army. He new it before, and he was talking to one man about help, and he told him that he need to wait intil he news if he have to do the army or not, after that he can try to help him. i juste wondering if its nothing more that we can do. Maybee someone here nows anything that can help. Ofcourse my huseband looks in to it if he can do something more, I just whant to help out, not juste siting and waiting. Thats why i ask u pople for help. Posts: 56 | From: sweden | Registered: Sep 2005
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Wish you the best then. Take good care of yourself. Your husband will find a solution inshaallah.
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