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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Adoula: [QB] Dear Monica, As U know, the community see that losing virginity is a big deal for a lot of reasons. First, most relegions does not allow to have sex outside of marriage. Second, sex is a risk, no matter how careful the girl was (pregnancy, diseases....etc.) It's also a matter of morals and personality. Girls virginity is something special. When they have sex for the first time, it is gone forever (U remeber Yousef Wahby quote). In the Arab world, any sexual indiscretion committed by a female (if discovered) causes dishonour to her father's family, and more specifically to her father himself and to her brothers. This applies as much when the girl has left the family home and is married as it does when she is single. Needless to say, this is a broad generalization of Arab male attitudes, and does not apply to all - especially educated and widely travelled - Middle Eastern men. Monica, as U said, am very open mind in this area, and consider it as a very personal decesion for the girl. If she decide to loose it now, or if she made her decision that she only want to loose her virginity when she is married, that is her choice! For me, there are two things that are vital for a relationship to work: Respect, and open, honest, bi-directional communication. So yes Monica, I have no problem with any girl if she will be honest with me. Virginity may be lost in an instant, by choice or by force, through calculation or through bad judgment. It is, in my opinion, incredibly naive to think that a non-virgin is any less worthy of love than a virgin. Sometimes I also wonder if we make too big of a deal about sex. I think... [/QB][/QUOTE]
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