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[QUOTE]Originally posted by claire_1237: [QB] Don't feel downhearted. There certainly are some horror stories but there are also those that DO work out although they are probably in the minority. Every situation is different. My personal advice to you, similar to another post is come to Luxor because YOU want to and come because you feel that YOU will get something positive out of the experience whether or not the relationship works out or not. Some of these women have been duped by excellent conmen but there are also a proportion that have been ripped off because of there own stupidity, parting with large sums of money and falling for the sob stories of my mum needs an operation or she will die scenarios. Play it safe and you will lose nothing. I would view this seperation/no divorce situation as suspicious. My advice would be do not marry this guy, Orfi or otherwise, part with money or have any kind of sexual relationship with this man until he has divorced his wife. If he loves you as much as he says he will find a way to get hold of the money to finish this marriage.It sounds to me like an excuse to have two women on the go. This may not be the case, but be cautious. Don't just give him your trust - make him earn it. You mentioned in one of your previous posts that you would like to build a property in Luxor, this is achievable but can be full of problems. Buying land for example is a nightmare and you would need a trustworthy Egyptian to help you find the land and negotiate on price as well as ensuring that the you can legally build on the land and that it is indeed owned by the 'Seller'.No doubt you would use this gentleman to help. This could give him the chance to act as if he is helping you but making a profit behind you back. I would advise you to rent an apartment until you are confident that you wish to remain here and also to give you time to mix in the community and ascertain what direction this relationship is going in. This is definately a situation where you need to follow your head not your heart. This man may be genuine but do not give him the benefit of the doubt yet. Don't rush into things. You mention that you marriage is on the rocks so I guess you are not yet divorced. Give yourself time to get over this, get used to being on you own and confident and happy with it before committing again. So far you have only been with him on holiday. Living here is not like being on holiday and it takes a lot of adjustment. You may see this whole relationship differently when you are living here. As said before COME HERE FOR YOU. Change your life for a few months, witness first hand a completely different culture, enjoy the history and the sunshine, make new friends, let this be your primary concern and let the chap take a back seat to this. I really wish you the best of luck. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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