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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Serendipity: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Kamal211: [b] Really? I dont know if I should reply and defend polgamy marriage as Diana might get disgusted with my double standard. Whateva Islam allows is one of my standards, and what I want is another standard, so I guess I do have double standard! But I would let my own standard to overcome Islamic ruling. Seren, I wanted to ask you, are you serious you would rather let yout husband divorce you rather than look after you, support you financailly also, and take on another wife? Especially if you were trapped oin your bed? Diana, I completely respect your opinion that you find it "disgusting" and polgamy is not up your street. I am only outlining to you that islamic polgamy does not need to be always seen in a negative light. I doubt very much any ES user are in polgamy marriage, I would be also interested in knowing what ES women say about it. Ofcourse there are problems with it, as with any "monogous"? marriage. [This message has been edited by Kamal211 (edited 30 August 2005).][/b][/QUOTE] yes I am serious about it. I dont want my husband to suffer for me. and I would rather divorce than letting him take care of me. Il hamdilla my family is big and I know if i couldnt take care of myself I have a family who will. I wouldnt like to be still married to him, because it would effect me mentally if not worsen my health. And I know me being trapped to the bed and him has to take care of me will sure effect his new marriage and himself too. So I would rather save this whole mess and get divorced. And to be honest with you, i was raised in a family where both of my parents sacrificed a lot for eachother and were close to die for each other. I would want my relationship with my husband to be like that. to sacrifice for eachother. I would stick with my husband no matter what may happen. may it be that he gets a dying sickness or get stuck to the bed. and I hope he will be doing the same. Sacrifice is not about to give up the silly things as what to wear or what to do on saturday night. the real test of sacrifice is in these things. so inshallah we will see if me and my "imaginary" husband will manage to sacrifice for eachother all the way through life <IMG SRC="http://www.egyptsearch.com/forums/smile.gif"> [/QB][/QUOTE]
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