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please rate those things according to there priorities to u :
personal apperance inner beauty communication family level education level
Columbo Member # 9153
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I think very often these five are linked: the family level impacts very much on the communication skills which reverberates also the education level, and shows also the inner beauty when there's some ( which is increased by high education or high self-knowledge), which is most of the time connected to the way we look like...
I'd say for both men and women:
+inner beauty +communication +education level
-personal appearance -family level
sorsor Member # 7639
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r u sure from those ratings
Snoozin Member # 6244
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quote:Originally posted by Columbo:
I'd say for both men and women:
+inner beauty +communication +education level
-personal appearance -family level
I agree with your rankings.
Columbo Member # 9153
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quote:Originally posted by sorsor: r u sure from those ratings
100% sure :
first : inner beauty, because that's where everything comes from, people that have a good inner beauty are most of the time the best communicators, they are sure of themselves and as a consequence they really inspire having a high educational level ( or at least a great understanding of themselves which is something not everybody do have ). So 'inner beauty' enables someone not to care for his personal appearence, which makes someone with inner beauty having a beautiful external appearence: remember what is universally known: a saint body goes along with a saint spirit (if you are fit in your head, then your body is fit) Then people with inner beauty can recognize people that don't have this inner beauty and then even if their family members are very low in different life fields, they know how to take distance from it and even sometimes help to improve their family level.
Cordialy yours.
sorsor Member # 7639
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but the apperance attracts u to the person for the first time
Melati Member # 9610
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I agree with Columbos ratings. Appearance is also important, but most times people with inner beauty radiate it on the outside anyway. " healthy mind healthy body". Lots of times you could find someone attractive who is not conventionally so-its just " something about them" -which usually translates to them having an exceptional inner beauty. For example-Bob Geldolf( for me at least) Hes quite non-beautiful by conventional standards, but something inside is at work there. Then again I also fancied MR Mahathirr ( Malaysian ex president) so.....
Columbo Member # 9153
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quote:Originally posted by Melati: Lots of times you could find someone attractive who is not conventionally so-its just " something about them" -which usually translates to them having an exceptional inner beauty. For example-Bob Geldolf( for me at least) Hes quite non-beautiful by conventional standards, but something inside is at work there. Then again I also fancied MR Mahathirr ( Malaysian ex president) so.....
I need to comment this because i feel like striked. I'm not convinced that people that are not conventionnally beautiful have some exceptional inner beauty mainly for two reasons which are 1. Someone that has an exceptionnal inner beauty covers all the areas of his mind, there's nothing about himself he doesn't know, and has yet an internal BALANCE, balance that is reflected also by the external appearance 2. So an unperfect external appearance is a show of this kind of unbalance, and what may sound attractive is the fact that the person is unbalanced: for example, someone that is a hard worker, honest etc... can sound attractive for this qualities but as his appearance may show, the person may be not self confident, spontaneous, extraverted. On the contrary you can love spontaneity and self confidence but without conscientiouness to back it up, you have the different kind of unbalance. This is why "there's something about them" and there's not "THEM", it's tricky.
7ayat Member # 7043
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family education level communication inner beauty personal appearance
i really belive that a good education and communication skills give people inner beauty, thats why i put them ahead. many people are complaining because egyptians dont have akhlaq anymore, and i really believe thats due to the high illiteracy rates, and horrible educational system
sorsor Member # 7639
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i think in the opposite way 7ayat inner beauty affects ur way of communication , educational level and family
Shaken Member # 9153
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quote:Originally posted by 7ayat: family education level communication inner beauty personal appearance
i really belive that a good education and communication skills give people inner beauty, thats why i put them ahead. many people are complaining because egyptians dont have akhlaq anymore, and i really believe thats due to the high illiteracy rates, and horrible educational system
What does Akhlaq means?
Shaken Member # 9153
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quote:Originally posted by sorsor: i think in the opposite way 7ayat inner beauty affects ur way of communication , educational level and family
I think it depends wether you are a man or a woman. For a woman it's more like what's outside fills the inside while for a man it's like the personnal strength that impacts the outside.
NourHayati Member # 5507
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In my humble opinion a person, either male or female, is considered according to the following:
1.Personal appearance = because this is the first thing that makes you want to meet someone 2.Inner beauty = because this is the first thing that makes you want to stay with a person 3.Education level = it affects social behaviour, way of thinking, way of life, character, personal skills, etc. 4.Family = sometimes family is reflected on the person, sometimes it is not. But it is as important as education, as it develops characters and a way of life much broader than school does. 5.Communication = communication skills depend on education and family. They help relationships work or ruin them for good.
sorsor Member # 7639
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what if he/she perfect but he/she dosen't have personal apperance would u go 4 if ???
Karah_Mia Member # 4668
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looks inner looks language skills schooling folks
Gibraltar Member # 7492
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quote:Originally posted by sorsor: please rate those things according to there priorities to u :
personal apperance inner beauty communication family level education level
I agree with snoozin's rating quoted from columbo, but it depends, why you are asking and what for? then rating could be different.
QueenBee Member # 9378
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inner beauty communication education personal appearance family level
An interesting mind, a patient way, a style of dealing with things that compliments your own, are all more important to me than the family stuff or the outward appearance. There is nothing more frustrating to me than a long, conversation-less dinner with a perfect looking, wealthy man. Oh, and forget a long drive with someone who can't make you laugh. Ahhhhh.... I place inner beauty first. But where is faith or iman on your list? I put iman with inner beauty.
sorsor Member # 7639
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what if he/she perfect but he/she dosen't have personal apperance would u go 4 if ??? --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Asooma Member # 8611
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quote:Originally posted by sorsor: please rate those things according to there priorities to u :
personal apperance inner beauty communication family level education level
Inner Beauty Education personal apperence family level and communication
river_0f_l0ve Member # 8638
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Sorsor, u have been commented the people here, but you havent written yours??????
jarvis Member # 9832
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personal apperance 25% inner beauty 51% communication 19% family level 3% education level 2%
sorsor Member # 7639
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ACTUALLY I WAS SEARCHING FOR ONE OF MY OWN BUT I COULDN'T FIND, SO I WAS JUST VIEWING THE MAJORITIES POINT OF VIEW'S.
river_0f_l0ve Member # 8638
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You have to have one of your own since you have opened this thread, which mean you have idea and not sure about, or have it but wanna share it..
sorsor Member # 7639
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actually i belive that th first thing that attracts u to the person is the apperance but after the apperance if u didnt find a good personality u will ignore this person.
and if the person infront of u didn't have a good apperance you will not go to the other step which is his personality . the issue is so difficult to judge.
jarvis Member # 9832
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beauty is skin deep, ugly is to the bone.
Sadeeqy Member # 9759
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quote:and if the person infront of u didn't have a good apperance you will not go to the other step which is his personality
//// Not on ES...Did you see Tiger's picture? And i took the next step....
river_0f_l0ve Member # 8638
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quote:Originally posted by sorsor: actually i belive that th first thing that attracts u to the person is the apperance but after the apperance if u didnt find a good personality u will ignore this person.
and if the person infront of u didn't have a good apperance you will not go to the other step which is his personality . the issue is so difficult to judge.
I do agree with you Sorsor, whatever we know well that the looking is not everything, but when we be in real, we first choice the one who is attracted looking and it happened here on ES.
A guy who posted a link which refer to his web page, and girls and women got stunning, and others say oooh and stuff like, but they did not got inside the person. It was not a deep look, and maybe if you became in love with this person and his out pretty which take your attention after a so long time, you will found out you were mistaken, and blame yourself..
Tigerman Member # 9196
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quote:Originally posted by Sadeeqy:
quote:and if the person infront of u didn't have a good apperance you will not go to the other step which is his personality
//// Not on ES...Did you see Tiger's picture? And i took the next step....
Really .. .you did ...it must be the club soda ...cuz ..I remmember nadda ...How many corcks you said?
Sadeeqy Member # 9759
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quote:...cuz ..I remmember nadda ...
///// Men...
Tigerman Member # 9196
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quote:Originally posted by Sadeeqy:
quote:...cuz ..I remmember nadda ...
///// Men...
LLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLL....so?
Sadeeqy Member # 9759
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Hmmm, you said you were sober.....and i must count the corks?
Tigerman Member # 9196
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quote:Originally posted by Sadeeqy: Hmmm, you said you were sober.....and i must count the corks?
do not forget that the few we throw away at the squerells ...
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...cuz ..I remmember nadda ...How many corcks you said?