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If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
why cant he sit in front of you with his penis erect and u naked ..
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
No. Dead men can't cheat. Posts: 8794 | From: 01-20-09 The End of an Error | Registered: Dec 2004
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He is a definite pervert. Sure he is a cheater and have you check if he maybe sleeps also with prostitutes... If internet strangers are ok, then why regular prostitutes would not be ok?
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Yes.....I would and I would leave him. I have a friend thats going through a divorce because of cyber and phone sex:(
-------------------- Often Times the Greatest statements are made in silence...listen with your Heart. Posts: 334 | From: kentucky | Registered: Jun 2006
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I wonder how he'll do it if he has a caring wife. It's a bit confusing.. Why doesnt he play with his wife?
Posts: 1007 | From: http://www.sultan.org | Registered: Mar 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Posts: 836 | From: UK | Registered: Jun 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
No, I would think that's just his preferred manner of communicating with his friends.
I would have thrown the guy out 3alatool, without giving him time to get dressed! Posts: 3587 | Registered: Mar 2006
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Look, if you do something that you wouldn't normally do or say with your husband or wife sitting next to you, then it is CHEATING. What is wrong with some people??? No need to make it so difficult. Posts: 13440 | Registered: Feb 2006
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Assume that your son or daughter made a mistake. what will be the parents situation??
Divorce is something awful.. It's permissible but it's awful..
I myself if my wife made such a mistake, I will forgive her after I advise her.. I want to continue life....and she is my daughter... I will be firm and forgiving with her but not cruel.
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quote:Originally posted by sultan.org: no blame of only female
The man is an A$$hole actually
I blame both
and how is the wife in any manner responsible for her husband committing adultry through cybersex?
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good islamic man no have cyber. he treat woman like queen of nile and ishow it shud be Posts: 7 | From: Egypt | Registered: Aug 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
very easy to answer: YES
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Yes it is cheating. Next time he comes home be naked in front of your computer with a naked man on the cam and see if he thinks that is cheating.
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I used to have a boss who told me one day she caught her husband having cyber sex with god knows who, so she went the next day while he was at work and bought a few male nudie magazines. She took out the male nudes and taped them ALL OVER THE BEDROOM WALLS, in the bathroom, EVERYWHERE. When he came home he found her lying in bed admiring her room and smiling. Naturally he was pissed and she said, 'oh I just want to do as you do'. Luckily they didn't have kids, that might have been difficult.
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Cybersex, is like flirting, not really cheating. Only when you kiss someone or have sex with them behind your spouse's back is it cheating. Still, cybersex is wrong if you're married. Being naked in front of your computer and showing another woman or man your body is wrong if you're married. Although it is not cheating, you are not actually being intimate with cybersex or flirting, you are breaking a commitment to your spouse by doing those because it is a form of dishonoring your marriage.
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Naked on a webcam is a little to risque though! That's more than flirting, surely?
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
No. Dead men can't cheat.
HA- I agree- Dead men can't Cheat Posts: 2068 | Registered: May 2005
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whatever! Lots of men gets bored of the same woman. They like change.
so, women must be intelligent and try to renew the relation n dont make the husband think to look for another woman
Posts: 2728 | From: جمهورية مصر العربية | Registered: Sep 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: whatever! Lots of men gets bored of the same woman. They like change.
so, women must be intelligent and try to renew the relation n dont make the husband think to look for another woman
So the husband has *no* responsibility in keeping himself monogamous? Posts: 8794 | From: 01-20-09 The End of an Error | Registered: Dec 2004
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: whatever! Lots of men gets bored of the same woman. They like change.
so, women must be intelligent and try to renew the relation n dont make the husband think to look for another woman
So the husband has *no* responsibility in keeping himself monogamous?
lOTS OF MEN LIKE CHANGE. iN THIS AGE, OF INTERNET AND SATELLITE, MEN HAVE LOTS OF TEMPTATIONS. THEY NEED CARE MORE THAN BEFORE
Posts: 2728 | From: جمهورية مصر العربية | Registered: Sep 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: lOTS OF MEN LIKE CHANGE. iN THIS AGE, OF INTERNET AND SATELLITE, MEN HAVE LOTS OF TEMPTATIONS.
I agree with all of that. However, a man has to be a strong and mature and *ethical* adult, who lives by his values and beliefs. Only weak men succumb to temptation like that.
What would you say about women and their temptations? Shouldn't the husband take care of his body, think up new and interesting ways to keep his wife interested in *him* sexually, so *she* doesn't stray either? Is it the husband's fault if the wife cheats?
No double standards.
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: selfish, and what do you say about egyptian woman? المرأة المصرية الي بتهرب من أصلها و بتشتم المصريين بالنجليزي قدام الخواجات
The minimim duty for a husband and all his efforts to his home and his wife is to respect him and to take care of him and his children
as men give they should take زي ما بأخد لازم أدي it's not difficult for a woman to take care of her husband
مش صعب الست تخلي بالها من جزها
مش عشان احنا فلاحين و اغبياء زي ما انتي فاكرة يبقا احنا مش بنحترم الست لا أحنا بنحترم الست و بنقدرها كويس أوي
زي ما قلتلك قبل كده دوري علي أصلك و زي ما بيقلوا ع الاصل دور
batman... u dont know me ya baba... ana 3arfa sasly kowaies... asly msh mn el fala7in.... ana ba7eb el fala7in bass ana msh menhom ya Bartaman
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: selfish, and what do you say about egyptian woman? المرأة المصرية الي بتهرب من أصلها و بتشتم المصريين بالنجليزي قدام الخواجات
The minimim duty for a husband and all his efforts to his home and his wife is to respect him and to take care of him and his children
as men give they should take زي ما بأخد لازم أدي it's not difficult for a woman to take care of her husband
مش صعب الست تخلي بالها من جزها
مش عشان احنا فلاحين و اغبياء زي ما انتي فاكرة يبقا احنا مش بنحترم الست لا أحنا بنحترم الست و بنقدرها كويس أوي
زي ما قلتلك قبل كده دوري علي أصلك و زي ما بيقلوا ع الاصل دور
Batman... u dont know me ya baba... ana 3arfa asly kowaies... asly msh mn el fala7in.... ana ba7eb el fala7in bass ana msh menhom ya Bartaman. Ana asasn men Europe ya 7ag w 3andy passport tany msh masry... bas ana kaman masreya
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quote:Originally posted by concernedforwomen: Cybersex, is like flirting, not really cheating. Only when you kiss someone or have sex with them behind your spouse's back is it cheating. Still, cybersex is wrong if you're married. Being naked in front of your computer and showing another woman or man your body is wrong if you're married. Although it is not cheating, you are not actually being intimate with cybersex or flirting, you are breaking a commitment to your spouse by doing those because it is a form of dishonoring your marriage.
Do you have a webcam , Concerned? Posts: 1539 | Registered: Apr 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: selfish, and what do you say about egyptian woman? المرأة المصرية الي بتهرب من أصلها و بتشتم المصريين بالنجليزي قدام الخواجات
The minimim duty for a husband and all his efforts to his home and his wife is to respect him and to take care of him and his children
as men give they should take زي ما بأخد لازم أدي it's not difficult for a woman to take care of her husband
مش صعب الست تخلي بالها من جزها
مش عشان احنا فلاحين و اغبياء زي ما انتي فاكرة يبقا احنا مش بنحترم الست لا أحنا بنحترم الست و بنقدرها كويس أوي
زي ما قلتلك قبل كده دوري علي أصلك و زي ما بيقلوا ع الاصل دور
Batman... u dont know me ya baba... ana 3arfa asly kowaies... asly msh mn el fala7in.... ana ba7eb el fala7in bass ana msh menhom ya Bartaman. Ana asasn men Europe ya 7ag w 3andy passport tany msh masry... bas ana kaman masreya
دنا لو من أوربا هقول يا حيطة داريني مش هقعد اتنطط زيك كده
if i were from Europe, I'll keep saying "Oh, Walls, hide me". I will never ever keep jumping like u.
Posts: 2728 | From: جمهورية مصر العربية | Registered: Sep 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: ]lOTS OF MEN LIKE CHANGE. iN THIS AGE, OF INTERNET AND SATELLITE, MEN HAVE LOTS OF TEMPTATIONS. THEY NEED CARE MORE THAN BEFORE
Women like change too. And the same temptations are out there for them as well. So do the men need to take better care of the women than before? And if a woman cheats on her husband is it his fault because he didn't "take care" of her? Posts: 3587 | Registered: Mar 2006
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Cheating on the other person you are involved with (you don't have to necessarily be married to each other) is not justifiable whether it is performed by a man or a woman.
If you can't find fulfillment in a relationship you work on it; if it's still unsatisfying then you either accept it if you can do so or you leave the relationship completely but cheating is not an option. It shows how low the moral values of the person are. And people always should keep in mind not to do something what they don't want to be done to themselves.
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I agree with Tigerlily. Work on your relationship or leave. Cheats make themselves and others miserable.
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quote:Originally posted by Egyptian_batman: ]lOTS OF MEN LIKE CHANGE. iN THIS AGE, OF INTERNET AND SATELLITE, MEN HAVE LOTS OF TEMPTATIONS. THEY NEED CARE MORE THAN BEFORE
Women like change too. And the same temptations are out there for them as well. So do the men need to take better care of the women than before? And if a woman cheats on her husband is it his fault because he didn't "take care" of her?
yes it's his mistake المفروض الراجل يدلع مراته و يهنينها man must amuse the wife and yehanenha
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If you masturbated thinking of anyone eles but your husband is that cheating as well?? What if you ask your spouse if you could cheat and they reply "I don't care what you do" would that be concidered cheating? (assuming you find someone eles) Posts: 108 | From: USA | Registered: Jul 2006
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quote:Batman... u dont know me ya baba... ana 3arfa asly kowaies... asly msh mn el fala7in.... ana ba7eb el fala7in bass ana msh menhom ya Bartaman. Ana asasn men Europe ya 7ag w 3andy passport tany msh masry... bas ana kaman masreya
Oh! I knew I should have learned more Arabic..... is cinematic telling Batman off?? lol
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quote:Originally posted by Shewholoves: If you walked into a room and saw you husband naked and erect in front of a cam with a naked woman on the other cam, talking sexy with her, would you consider that cheating?
Wow, look at all of these very heavy black and white responses. Come on. Why are you doing this to yourselves? :-) It is the man's repsonsibilty to continue to be attractive to you. If he fails to improve himself and become more than what he is, he will cease to be attractive to you. At the same time, if you gain weight or do not make it a point to be attractive to him as a response to his ability, it is your fault he is "cheating" in whatever way. I don't think it is cheating to do "phone-sex". However, I think men do this because they feel they have no other options and probably are either too scared or do not have the ability to generate attraction to women. Thus, it is an ego boost--to be someone THEY want to be but are not really.
In any case, to divorce or scream at a man who does this is not feminine at all. It is masculine and the man will loathe you. A relationship should grow, both of you becoming more than what you are. Take up hobbies...they are required in order to make yourself more interesting--pick one you can do together and one you can do apart. -Jones
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I'll tell you what masculine is, it's being a real man enough to have principals and morals and not get off from a flat screen looking at pictures of (more than likely) disturbed women in very bad places of their lives. Sorry, it isn't a womans' "JOB" to be feminine for you all of the time, sometimes we just like to be ourselves the same as a men and if that comes off as not so 'girlie girlie' well then get over it and get some real confidence as man to know you aren't an animal and don't have to satisify your beastly desires 100% of the time even if it compromises the promises you've made.
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