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Would you tell him you will have a baby, even if you don't want one and are too old to have one?
Would you pay to have your tubes untied in a desperate attempt to satisfy his needs of having a child.
Would you send him money when he tells you he needs it even if you really need the money to feed your family?
How far would you go to convince yourself that your man will stay with you when he comes to the US?
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hell no to all of the above!!! if he wants somethin from me sorry sucks to be u!!! find a dumb ass that cares!!!
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How far would you go to stalk someone? Would you join an egyptian website even though you have nothing to do with Egypt for the sole purpose of trying to piss off someone that you don't even know?
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agree with Tina, none of the above, dump him, keep some self respect! Any man you do any of that for will go eventually.
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quote:Originally posted by Ayisha: agree with Tina, none of the above, dump him, keep some self respect! Any man you do any of that for will go eventually.
You are a wise woman.
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quote:Originally posted by doodlebug: How far would you go to stalk someone? Would you join an egyptian website even though you have nothing to do with Egypt for the sole purpose of trying to piss off someone that you don't even know?
always so defensive. Why do you think everyone is always talking about you? I never even said I was referring to anyone, just a scenario. It's not always about you you you.
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If these are the reasons that keep him with you he will not stay with you when he can get these things somewhere else. If he does it will be for the wrong reason.
I guess you could put him under lock and key like that guy did to his daughter in Austria. That might keep him for a while.
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quote:Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: No No No Go, if you want~
Very smart, it's so nice to see what I'm not the only one who thinks that scenario is just cruisin' for a bruisin'.
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How far would I go.. I would go as far as the kitchen and if he hadn't changed his mind i'd open the wine and let him go!
I would never so much as bat an eyelid never mind have tubes untied lol. Surely the basis of a relation is mutal trust, respect and love and not lies, deception and bribary.
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quote:Originally posted by of_gold: If these are the reasons that keep him with you he will not stay with you when he can get these things somewhere else. If he does it will be for the wrong reason.
I guess you could put him under lock and key like that guy did to his daughter in Austria. That might keep him for a while.
I agree 100% with you. He will not last long.
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Seeing as this is just a scenario so I cannot possibly offend anybody lol.... I reckon if a woman oozes that much desperation for a guy is it any wonder he is running for the door!!!
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quote:Originally posted by cheekyferret: How far would I go.. I would go as far as the kitchen and if he hadn't changed his mind i'd open the wine and let him go!
I would never so much as bat an eyelid never mind have tubes untied lol. Surely the basis of a relation is mutal trust, respect and love and not lies, deception and bribary.
Especially bribing someone with a child!
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Anybody who could think that the best reason to have a child is so she could keep a man who clearly doesn't want her needs therapy!
Amazes me how the lack of self esteem and self worth could actually lead to such selfishness!
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quote:Originally posted by doodlebug: How far would you go to stalk someone? Would you join an egyptian website even though you have nothing to do with Egypt for the sole purpose of trying to piss off someone that you don't even know?
always so defensive. Why do you think everyone is always talking about you? I never even said I was referring to anyone, just a scenario. It's not always about you you you.
cocoa, i spent many hours of my life added up fighting with the people here...every topic one posts always ends up having some party crasher in it then it ends in a big brawl. just keep going about ur topic and ignore them and they willl eventually go away.
not all the people on this site are 'all there'... its best to just leave them alone as they cant help it. kinda like a pack of wild dogs, keep feeding them and they will return. so anyway...
those things u mentioned are quick fixes to keeping a man, but in the future, they will most likely blow up back in ur face and cause more troubl. its best to just get a man that you are compatible with. love doesnt mean having to change urself or the other person.
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If you have to try to convince yourself of anything it indicates that there is something wrong.
And pothead is right, love means you shouldn't have to change yourself or your partner.
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I have no clue what a floater is. And part me thinks I should cling to my innocence in this.
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i think she means that disgusting stuff that smells like bleach, but is good for the skin EJACULATE !!
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What if, you have spent your whole life taking care of other people, and have accepted that you won't end your life with a partner and try to find satisfaction in the lives of your children and your work. Then a breath of something new blows across your face, and you turn to look and suddenly its a direction you never imagined you would look, or take, and you say to yourself. "What is this?". And then you make the biggest choice .. you walk in that same direction until you find out where that hot wind was blowing from. And there you find something you certainly didn't plan, and never in your life expected. Because you have spent your life caring for others, to care for this new situation unconditionally doesn't feel foreign, to extend yourself like a bridge feels somehow right, because that is who you are, and what you have trained yorself to be. AND THEN it gets even more complicated because it starts to feel like more than generosity, you start to recieve something in return.. FEELINGS. The places you had long ago bricked up start to peel and crack, and you find suddenly that your body remembers how to blush, and your heart knows how to race, and all of that is RECIPROCATED.
And there you are, with a situation soaking in potential, and a body that has been made alive as a woman again, and not just a caregiver. And you look at yourself, and you look at the wind and you feel deep in your bones that you want to be alive again, and you want to carry a life again. You aren't being generous, you are being the most delicious form of selfish possible, you are doing the thing you trained yourself not to do, you are loving yourself and dreaming of tomorrow.
Whatever you bitches might think about another persons situation, I think it takes alot of internet balls to slag her off for wanting to be alive again. Life hands us so much pain without you needing to fan the smoke, you would rather women never even reach for happiness? With great risk comes great reward. HATERS
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err excuse me? were in my post did i slag off cocoa's question? don't you DARE call me a hater you absolute BITCH Posts: 3945 | From: ' Res Contr ' Amor non es guirens, lai on sos poders s'atura | Registered: Dec 2007
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i accept your apology cosmo, and that's mistress to you DEAR Posts: 3945 | From: ' Res Contr ' Amor non es guirens, lai on sos poders s'atura | Registered: Dec 2007
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quote:Originally posted by Cosmogirl: What if, you have spent your whole life taking care of other people, and have accepted that you won't end your life with a partner and try to find satisfaction in the lives of your children and your work. Then a breath of something new blows across your face, and you turn to look and suddenly its a direction you never imagined you would look, or take, and you say to yourself. "What is this?". And then you make the biggest choice .. you walk in that same direction until you find out where that hot wind was blowing from. And there you find something you certainly didn't plan, and never in your life expected. Because you have spent your life caring for others, to care for this new situation unconditionally doesn't feel foreign, to extend yourself like a bridge feels somehow right, because that is who you are, and what you have trained yorself to be. AND THEN it gets even more complicated because it starts to feel like more than generosity, you start to recieve something in return.. FEELINGS. The places you had long ago bricked up start to peel and crack, and you find suddenly that your body remembers how to blush, and your heart knows how to race, and all of that is RECIPROCATED.
And there you are, with a situation soaking in potential, and a body that has been made alive as a woman again, and not just a caregiver. And you look at yourself, and you look at the wind and you feel deep in your bones that you want to be alive again, and you want to carry a life again. You aren't being generous, you are being the most delicious form of selfish possible, you are doing the thing you trained yourself not to do, you are loving yourself and dreaming of tomorrow.
Whatever you bitches might think about another persons situation, I think it takes alot of internet balls to slag her off for wanting to be alive again. Life hands us so much pain without you needing to fan the smoke, you would rather women never even reach for happiness? With great risk comes great reward. HATERS
Come again?
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quote:Originally posted by Cosmogirl: What if, you have spent your whole life taking care of other people, and have accepted that you won't end your life with a partner and try to find satisfaction in the lives of your children and your work. Then a breath of something new blows across your face, and you turn to look and suddenly its a direction you never imagined you would look, or take, and you say to yourself. "What is this?". And then you make the biggest choice .. you walk in that same direction until you find out where that hot wind was blowing from. And there you find something you certainly didn't plan, and never in your life expected. Because you have spent your life caring for others, to care for this new situation unconditionally doesn't feel foreign, to extend yourself like a bridge feels somehow right, because that is who you are, and what you have trained yorself to be. AND THEN it gets even more complicated because it starts to feel like more than generosity, you start to recieve something in return.. FEELINGS. The places you had long ago bricked up start to peel and crack, and you find suddenly that your body remembers how to blush, and your heart knows how to race, and all of that is RECIPROCATED.
And there you are, with a situation soaking in potential, and a body that has been made alive as a woman again, and not just a caregiver. And you look at yourself, and you look at the wind and you feel deep in your bones that you want to be alive again, and you want to carry a life again. You aren't being generous, you are being the most delicious form of selfish possible, you are doing the thing you trained yourself not to do, you are loving yourself and dreaming of tomorrow.
Whatever you bitches might think about another persons situation, I think it takes alot of internet balls to slag her off for wanting to be alive again. Life hands us so much pain without you needing to fan the smoke, you would rather women never even reach for happiness? With great risk comes great reward. HATERS
Come again?
Can I please ask what in the hell does this have to do with the thread? I thought it was about keeping another loved one from leaving? Posts: 409 | From: Iowa, United States | Registered: Apr 2008
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This was cocoa taking a cheap blind potshot at Doodle, who has GENEROUSLY opened up her personal situation for examination. I don't claim to be anyones defender, but acting shitty just for the sake of bolstering her own position makes little "cocoa" an ignorant feces throwing monkey in my book.
I am unimpressed by her efforts to be mean and to recruit others in this campaign of bad will.
Sitting behind a keyboard, snarking for no reason on a woman who's life DOES NOT IMPACT YOURS, makes you look like a petty jealous BITCH.
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Yeah, actually, it kind of does, now that I come to think about it. Almost really sad, too. BTW, notice that most people that are like that all live in PA?.....hummmm.... Posts: 409 | From: Iowa, United States | Registered: Apr 2008
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who said ejackulators??? i wanna see i am always left out the loop!!!
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Actually I didn't open up all of my info. Some of it was opened up in a private forum and then embelished for dramatic effect.
Did I untie my tubes? YES Do I want a baby? MOST DEFINITELY I CANNOT WAIT TO FEEL LIFE INSIDE ME AGAIN AND SNUGGLE A LITTLE ONE TO SLEEP!!!! Did I need to do this to keep my husband? OH HELL NO!!! LOL Was I happy and content BEFORE meeting him and would I be so if he ever left? ABSOLUTELY, THOUGH I'D BE SAD AND MOURN, I DON'T *NEED* A MAN IN MY LIFE PROVEN BY THE FACT THAT I WAS ALONE FOR 10 YEARS AFTER MY DIVORCE.
Is cocoa stalking me and others on the net and stooped to measures below which I thought any human possible? SURE!
Thanks have a nice sunny day in Cali Sarah!
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