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[QUOTE]Originally posted by doodlebug: [QB] ouch. Well I guess differing opinions is what makes the world go around. My children have a father and no matter how wrong he may have been he is still their dad and they see him every other weekend and every Wednesday night. I in no way want them to dread seeing him or dread being with her. What kind of life is that for a child? To grow up thinking their dad and stepmom is scum? One of the first things one must do here in Massachusetts before getting a legal divorce is to take a class on parenting in this situation and the main thing drilled into us is not to drag the children into our drama. They did not ask to be brought into this situation and they should live as much of a normal life as possible. They are half their father, after all, and if they grow up thinking that their dad is a bad guy then they will think that of themselves to some extent. I'm not just spouting off my own theory here, this is what a few counselors have told me. Obviously I don't congratulate his behavior or hers. Not like I call him up everyday saying, "hey you know when you were having sex with your wife while I was up at night doing the feedings? Good job honey!!!". My children know what happened now, though when they were little they were too young to comprehend it obviously at one and two years of age. They also know that mommy forgives daddy and his wife and that makes it easier for them to love them, as they should. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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