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[QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Wanderer: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [qb] [QUOTE] SMUCKERS "and MOM has to sit back and take it and smile and act like this is all normal and she condones what daddy did" no, mum doesn't have to sit back and smile, but moving on and accepting that its not all about her and him is something she can do. people that make a bad moral decision in one area of life eg. relationships, does not mean that they are morally wrong in all areas. [/QUOTE]True, it isn't about HER it's about her children. Of course the other womans moral mistakes can be viewed as an OOPS bad moral decision, but it is the actions of the husband/father that make it inexcuseable. I'm not suggesting to keep the children from seeing their father, that is their right. My issue is solely with the other woman that is to become their step mother....repulsive IMO. [/qb][/QUOTE]Of course it isn't nice, but once a mum and dad split up, the ex wife is in no position to control who the man shacks up with, that is his life and his responsibility as a father, as women we cannot control that. If you do try to control who he is with by restricting access to his kids then all the kids will learn is that YOU have a problem with HIM. They will not thank you for it. of course you have to restrict access when it comes to dangers, i.e drugs or abuse, but making bad moral judgements in one instance regarding their father is not emotional abuse or neglect, where would you draw the line? [/qb][/QUOTE]I draw the line at the woman who broke up our family and tore my childrens lives in half. But, we can agree to disagree. :) I am used to not having many who agree with me in this issue, it's a difficult and sensitive subject, I know. :) Salaam. :) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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