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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Demiana: [QB] Mariya, When you both are that young, of course you have to be carefull, we all should, but there is nothing in this mails of your's that is troublesome or it should be the lack of understanding each other and looking at each other with stereotyped views. If you want a relationship you should get to know each other and talk about you're feelings and you're insecurities. But most of all spent time together and see if you can be friends and lovers. Can you go for a swim together, will he keep on alowing it to you even when you should get married? Will he accept you having you're own religion. Can you be friends even when married. What sort of live are the both of you looking for? Can you make plans together? Can you go along with his family? Will they accept you? Of course there is always this unequality, where you come from a more wealthy country, don't ignore it, but there is more to life than that. And the orfi cases and you 'testing'. Just don't do that! A relationship should be build in trust. Just don't get trapped. Take a long engagement, as long as you like. Egyptian man can be engaged you know. They can understand where you come from if you tell them that you both need time to decide whether you should proceed. Don't rush in to things and you will see what will come of this. Don't assume things about Egyptian men, just see how he is, how his family is and his friends. Like you would do with men from you're own country. I believe it is a very good idea to work in Egypt for a while. You can even study there if you can make some money. Don't invest to much financially in him, try to remain independent as long as you can. You have to define this relation together and try not to be ruled by stereotypes or to jump to conclusions. I don't know what it is with some people nowadays. I know women married to arab men that live 'normal' lives and are married for 30 years or more! And don't have to dance to whatever stereotype or convert or strict religions or have to suffer demands from families other than they both are wanting to commit too! We should stop this nonsens! Two worlds are coming together here and that can be beautifull if it is the two of you that can build a common life. Be you're own woman and don't act out insecurities, it won't work. Don't compromise on what you want! If he is a fraud you will find out soon enough. He probably is just a young boy in love, very young boy in love with dreams of a special and happy and wealthy life together with you. To me that would be very attractive! Well, but then I am already married for over 10 years. Demiana [/QB][/QUOTE]
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