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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Luxorlover: [QB] Of course some relaionships can work - BUT in seven years here I HAVE NOT SEEN ONE THAT HAS. (Small age gaps where children are a possibility are outside this field). Please please please don't quote all the new relationships at me (anything under ten years). Give them time. It is business. That's what the men call it and they laugh about it between themselves. Many actually say that they have to get drunk to make love to their wives. (Honestly - and no I am not a fat ugly old woman who is jealous and afraid to look in the mirror - but I do accept that bikinis are for young women) Also, the men themselves have many problems with their family, neighbours and friends etc., because everyone knows that they have married for money and have sold themselves. As they walk down the street, comments are thrown. "Jedda" is something that crops up regularly. Grandmother. Does PRChick live here? I thought from an earlier posting that she lived in the States - which is an entirely different proposition. I have never visited the States and would not give advice on what is acceptable there. Patience here is lengthy and when it comes to money it is almost infinite. I am not saying this because my relationship went wrong. It did not go wrong. He is still hovering in the background and would move in tomorrow if I would let him. He rings several times each day to tell me how much he loves me. He denies that he ever took a penny from me or that he has ever been 'unfaithful'. Of course, he is an "honest and honourable man". As all the men that marry older women are. I could choose to believe him. I could continue the dream. All I did was wake up and try applying some damage limitation. If Gege and others apply the damage limitation early then they will be OK. If not then they suffer for their foolishness. Not the foolishness in falling in love - that is out of their hands - but in believing their own fairy tales. Because it really is total illusion and they will find themselves a mirage in their own lives. BUT IF YOU KNOW THAT AND ACCEPT IT THEN GET ON WITH THE RELATIONSHIP AND ENJOY ITS PLEASURES WHILE THEY ARE ON OFFER. Let's face it, none of us would have had the same chance to grab at youth again in Europe. (Again please don't tell me about all the offers - I have them too - but only a few are from men twenty plus years my junior whereas here the offers flood in from all areas). Just the observations of someone who lives here and has heard tales of woe from hundreds of different women who lived in Never Never Land until their wings got burned. Never Never land is a nice place though even though it contains second and third wives (which the women do accept regardless of how much they swear that they will not). You pays your money and your takes you choice. But, you will pay the money. Edited for this bit: If age does not matter, why is everyone horrified at 40 plus year age gaps? (Or even a fifty plus age gap that I know of), [This message has been edited by Luxorlover (edited 25 August 2004).] [/QB][/QUOTE]
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