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[QUOTE]Originally posted by newcomer: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [qb] You work through it, you get past it, it's called commitment. :( [/qb][/QUOTE]This is sadly a word that is lacking in a lot of marriages these days, both in the West and also in the East. In the West it's common because people want to be "happy" and if their partner doesn't fulfil them and give them what they want/need, then it's off to find the next one who can. In the East, it happens very often with women who don't have families that will put pressure on the man to fulfil his commitment to the woman or with those woman who don't tie them down with a large deferred mahr (dowry) that will make them think twice about leaving when the first test comes to their marriage. It's an easy come, easy go attitude that is sadly very common. Ok, if you get a good one, then these things won't make any difference, they will find a way to work out the problems in the marriage and will stick at it and work hard at it. But if you get one that turns out to be average or less after the initial "honeymoon" period has passed, then these things can make the man try a bit harder to work out a solution, and may even make a man out of some of them. There are some that should be let go anyway, but with a bit of encouragement some men can turn out to be decent if they are made to take more responsibility. Don't forget that most Egyptian men have been pampered by their mothers (and sometimes their sisters too) and when they get married it may be the first time that they have ever had to take any real responsibility for anyone, including themselves. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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