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Hi to all i was really follen love once so hard and so deep that even all bad and wrong things i was rady to forget and forgive! I was rady to drop all for this person- but as i see he was not! Anybody here can bealive to people ufter unsucsess relationships!? I still cant even i try to... 4 mouths ago i was the most happy lady in the world but now i dont see my futer... I dont ask you to feel sad of me and i dont ask support! Just asking what helps you to pass it))) With love ALISA
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Hi, Alisa, great to have finally a Russian woman on board again! It's been such a long time.
So I assume you fell hard for an Egyptian guy, correct?
Well, four months ago is pretty in a beginning of a relationship and if it doesn't work out between you and him it's probably better that way.
How to get over a broken heart? Oh, that's such a difficult question. It took me a much longer time than I was together with my ex. But try to take your mind of it by doing many activities with your close friends, catch up with a hobby or find a new one. And if you need to cry, do it, let it all out.
Have you been visiting Egypt, Alisa? If so what kind of experiences did you make? Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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try to occupy yourself with other activities, take one day at a time, treat yourself to something - whether its a day out, a weekend away, a spa day with facial and massages, a new outfit, anything.....
allow yourself a couple of 'duvet days' - where you dont want to go anywhere, stay in bed with a good book ................ then go out for a long walk and let the wind blow the cobwebs away .......
eat the most gorgeous looking choc cheesecake ever, washed down with whatever you feel like!!
remind yourself, that its his loss, not yours, and there is nothing wrong with YOU.
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The best thing to forget a man is to know another man , so what are you waiting for , you are lucky as the Russian mania is now erupting especially here in Egypt ….
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Thx my friends for your words and support! Tigerlily- i was in Egypt 3 times i work in travel agency and travel alof most time for work trip not vocations))) I will tell you from the beginnig how i get "ill"))) by MASR (EGYPT) The person who broke my heart was not first Egyption one. I have before him some relatioship with 1 arabic guy- i feel flirt and maybe follen love. But its nothing that i feel with last one. I meet him 2 times in my life but between this time we connect always web cams, chat, sms, emails... But sure we have fight and so on... he dissepered and back, alot we have... But all this time i feel something! True words that womens have sence...))) At sure he cheat me i dont want to tell alot details.... Anyway all is over now!))) The most what i hate what lable another people give to europinian girls! Most of Russian, Ukrainian, Moldova.... Why why all of us must be responsible for them! I am not slut i am high aducated and i like meet new people!
I pass alot but still sure have smth on me what still herts)))
-------------------- WITH LOVE ALICE alicealisa_1985@yahoo.com alice_1985_@hotmail.com alice.veselova@gmail.com alice_1985_@mail.ru icq. 239-536-893 Posts: 4 | From: Russia/Moscow | Registered: Feb 2007
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quote:Originally posted by ALISA: Hi to all i was really follen love once so hard and so deep that even all bad and wrong things i was rady to forget and forgive! I was rady to drop all for this person- but as i see he was not! Anybody here can bealive to people ufter unsucsess relationships!? I still cant even i try to... 4 mouths ago i was the most happy lady in the world but now i dont see my futer... I dont ask you to feel sad of me and i dont ask support! Just asking what helps you to pass it))) With love ALISA
Alisa, the guy that you where involved with wasn't called Mohammed Ali Labib Zarif was he, otherwise known on this forum as Lombardo47 (Ali)? Sorry, just curious
Apart from that I am sorry for your hurt Alisa and as DawnBev says time is a great healer. Go and have "me" time and with the support of your friends you will get over this episode in your life. I wish you all the best and hope that you will find happiness again.
Anyway I am now off to go and follow DawnBevs advice, especially the large amounts of chocolate cheesecake that need to be consumed
Amanda x x
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quote:Originally posted by DawnBev: its a cliche I know, but 'time' does heal.
try to occupy yourself with other activities, take one day at a time, treat yourself to something - whether its a day out, a weekend away, a spa day with facial and massages, a new outfit, anything.....
allow yourself a couple of 'duvet days' - where you dont want to go anywhere, stay in bed with a good book ................ then go out for a long walk and let the wind blow the cobwebs away .......
eat the most gorgeous looking choc cheesecake ever, washed down with whatever you feel like!!
remind yourself, that its his loss, not yours, and there is nothing wrong with YOU.
DawnBev, you are in the wrong job! You need to go and open a rehab/ therapy centre. I am sure that you would have many clients and I suspect a few would be from here at es, including me as well
Great tips and I am going to take your advice on consuming large amounts of chocolate cheesecake and for once not feel guilty about it Posts: 1244 | From: we come in peace | Registered: Nov 2006
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Miss Sharm, I don't know how many posts I have read of your's that you stated you were DROPPING this whole Ali thing.
Why do you feel the need to continually bait him with your replies to others?
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Spasm: sometimes a 'rebound man' can have a disastrous effects - (speaking from experience) - !
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quote:Originally posted by Laura: Miss Sharm, I don't know how many posts I have read of your's that you stated you were DROPPING this whole Ali thing.
Why do you feel the need to continually bait him with your replies to others?
Sorry Laura, just having a really bad day and well we all do and say things we shouldn't, so sorry everyone at es the episode is now dropped.
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Miss Sharm hehe la-a-a its not Mohammed Ali Labib Zarif its Tarek El Riashy comp eng born in ALex and now about 3 years work and live in Hurghada )))
Girls the most interesting ((( that i dont like europenian guys its not my tipe smth like that((( Inshalla i will fined some one really deserve me! Keep in touch to all alice_1985_@hotmail.com
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thanks for the compliment Miss Sharm - I'd love to have my own therapy centre - dishing out the feel good factor all day long - that would be rewarding wouldnt it
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ALISA.... the best thing you can do..... DON'T fall in love with another Egyptian.....Especially in Hurghada!! They have absolutely no respect for Russian girls.... I know this from when I worked in Hurghada.
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You can ask yourself few questions Alisa, 1. If I got a new car, and it was disastrous, this does not mean I will never drive a car again. I will just be wiser next time and choose a different car based on different criteria. 2. Try to recall every single good experience in your life with any persons starting from childhood. Those who were good to you are human beings as well. And you will have a partner like them one day. 3. one year after a painful love experience u usually remember it and smile. I promise. 4. nothing to do more than living your normal life. Anything you do to pass this on purpose will keep reminding you with the pain called you to do it. Best of Luck
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and well we all do and say things we shouldn't, so sorry everyone at es the episode is now dropped.
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