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Audrey Hepburn
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My trip is looming (2nd Sept to Alex) and I believe it is Ramadan. Is there anything I need to know, e.g. what not to do - so that I do not offend any locals? Have read some bits but appreciate ES advice. [Smile]
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1- dont hang around in the street during iftar time [Wink]
2- dont drink, smoke or chew gum before iftar time

but if you are a foreigner i dont think they would really care

good luck

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Ramadan isn't until Sept. 23 inshallah.

LS gave some good advice [Smile]

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I don't think you need to worry about being polite about the fast if you are out in public. Perhaps if you are meeting with people in a personal way, it is polite not to drink water/smoke/eat. There are many people in Egypt who don't fast because they are not muslim, sick, or some other reason. I don't know why one can't hang out in the street at iftar time, loving spirit - unless one is worried about getting run over by a taxi hurrying to get home.
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pink camel if a person would do so, they would look at you with despise, not mentionning cursing you..(among themselves). and if near a village god forbid...still you are going to be cursed. [Smile] why not being nice and just keep a low key,, some are fanatics over there...also, non moslem are minority there and even them they do suffer because of that
again good luck to our friend

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Yeah it's just polite to not eat in front of ppl who are fasting. Even here my friends and co-workers will apologize for eating while I'm fasting. It doesn't bother me but it may bother others.
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Hi,all.I'm new here,from sunny Puerto Rico.
I will be for one week in Cairo from 8-15 October 2006,and just read here that Ramadan will be in September.
From when until when does it lasts?

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It is polite when at someones house or in an office maybe -but one can't expect a tourist not to eat/drink all day or try to sneak around to do it. Especially since they are living in a hotel usually with no kitchen. No one is going to care if a tourist eats in a restaurant that is open anyway. We are talking about a fairly large city here (Alexandria), not a village. No fanatics are going to be upset. People might wonder why someone is eating if they think they are Muslim but that is about it. I wouldn't stand there eating while talking with someone I know is fasting if I am not, but I wouldn't expect someone not fasting to not eat either!
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It will last from approx. Sept. 23-Oct. 23...give or take a day or two.
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You will be there during the 3rd week of Ramadan Sashyra. It will last either 29 or 30 days depending on the sighting of the moon.
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i dig you pinky [Wink]

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Thanks for the information.

I really like this forum.WeŽll keep reading around.

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quote:
Originally posted by lovingspirit:
pink camel if a person would do so, they would look at you with despise, not mentionning cursing you..(among themselves).

I've often been on the street during iftar time and I've never been stared at disapprovingly. And although the streets are fairly empty during that hour there are always some people going somewhere.

I've been dragged into a restaurant and been urged to eat with complete strangers though, which I thought was very nice.

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ok.. heres a stupid question: What is iftar time?? (is that from sun down to sunrise??)
Ill be in egypt on my birthday the 30th of october.. does that colaps with Ramadan?? Furthermore, what is custom to eat and drink durin ramadan (in the timeperiod where its allowed to eat and drink)

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Thanks for the help folks.
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Iftar means "breakfast", so iftar time is the time when the sun is going down and people are breaking their daily fast.
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thank you dalia. and what does people eat??
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the end of ramadan is on 24 oct. After the sun sets, the fast is broken with iftar (usually fruits). Iftar usually begins with dates and sweet drinks
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I have just found a link which gave a bit of basic information. Aimed at school kids but gave me an insight.

http://www.thomasvillecentral.com/NN4.htm

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great site!!!!
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Not interested exactly into a religious question here,but what are muslims banned from doing during Ramadan?And do those restrictions end at night each day,or do they last until the end of Ramadan?It just sparked some interest in me here.
I`m very respectful of all religions,just wanted to know more.

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tjek the link above.. it certainly helped me understand a little more :-)
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quote:
Originally posted by Sashyra88:
Not interested exactly into a religious question here,but what are muslims banned from doing during Ramadan?And do those restrictions end at night each day,or do they last until the end of Ramadan?It just sparked some interest in me here.
I`m very respectful of all religions,just wanted to know more.

It's no eating, drinking, or sexual relations between sun up and sun down. You're also not supposed to say anything bad about anyone...

But once the Maghrib (sunset) prayer time arrives, you can do all of the above again right through until the Fajr (dawn) prayers the next morning. [Big Grin]

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In fact after Maghrib, once Muslims have broken their fast they should spend a lot of time in worship, for example praying, going to the mosque, and reading the Qur'an.

It is generally a month that Muslims should try to get a spiritual overhaul, and so they try to get involved in giving in charity, spending time with their relatives, and trying to be as good as they can be.

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is it appropriate to say "happy ramadan"?
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Yes, doodle, it would be appropriate. Also you can say "Ramadan Kareem" or "Ramadan Mubarak" and on Eid you can say "Eid Mubarak" or as many say in Egypt "Kolsana wenti tayeba" (to a woman) or "Kolsana wenta tayeb" (for a man) both mean "every year and you are good".
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If you follow sunnah, typical iftar would include tamr (dates). It's typical to eat tamr, shourba (soup of some kind), samboosa (dough filled with spiced ground meat that is fried), etc. It's a lighter meal before dinner.
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I think of Ramadan as a spiritual 'boot camp' that helps me to rid myself of the negative habits I have accumulated through the year. It really makes one examine themselves for these errors and hopefully overcome them. There is a saying that the shaitain (devils) are in chains during this month- meaning that any whisper of tempatation to do bad that you succumb to, comes from your own desires and not the whisper of the shaitain. That way you can correct the things that come from yourself, your own ego, your own desires- and you won't be so weak when the shaitain whisper to you.
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quote:
Originally posted by ThePinkCamel:
I think of Ramadan as a spiritual 'boot camp' that helps me to rid myself of the negative habits I have accumulated through the year. It really makes one examine themselves for these errors and hopefully overcome them. There is a saying that the shaitain (devils) are in chains during this month- meaning that any whisper of tempatation to do bad that you succumb to, comes from your own desires and not the whisper of the shaitain. That way you can correct the things that come from yourself, your own ego, your own desires- and you won't be so weak when the shaitain whisper to you.

I like that, it's actually taking responsibility for your own actions and not just blaming weaknesses on the devil, which is what I hear so often.
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