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Hello Everybody! I'm reading and reading all your reposts...There is one, anyway, ironical question: Why all those women who wanted to see the beauty of Egypt ( culture, history) suddenly come back to their country with the broken heart? They met a men more important than buildings they have seen and they want to see only? ( ironica, again) Why so many women follow those man if in their country they would never do it? Why there are so many European girls? Does our culture has got crisis if we talk about woman - man relationship? What's going on?
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Alright, one short opinion from my side. Women AND Men falling in love (or what they consider as it) just ANYWHERE in this world.
Egypt and its culture and traditions was and is still very special to me. I don't think there is anything special about the men, special can be only the person you are in love with, in the best case your sharing your life with. This forum is only about Egypt (and I believe its kind of unique in the Internet).
What it comes down to is two people need to connect, a bond has to form between them and it doesn't matter where they are coming from. I think these discussions about Egytian men and sex-hungry foreign women is getting overated here. Again look at the percentage of how many women coming to Egypt and how many actually have a sexual relationship with an Egyptian men. And don't forget: it takes two to tango (mentioned earlier on another thread). I can't give you any statistics - no one can - but believe me most of the women don't come for this ONE thing some males here are trying to point out.
Egypt is not the center of the world and not only all tourists coming to this country ....
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You are totaly right. I will never forgive myself I had T- shirt or a normal dress on myself in Egypt. My God... Why shuld I complain? I asked for it... I hope you now I'm joking...
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How can you doubt that I'm a woman? I'm just laughing at myself. Just try to get distance if there is nothing more...
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I've been wondering also and I think for us the respectful, gentle and generous treatment we receive from Egyptian men is too much to handle emotionionally during that short vacation. In our countries after an evening out a man asks bluntly: are you coming up with me? (which stands indirectly for: do you want to make love with me? the answer is either yes, or no.) and that's it.
Egyptian men are masters with romantic, flattering words, they do cherish women and treat women in a very different way then europeans are used to. Now add the excitement of a 2weeks holiday and the romantic, exotic, beautiful setting of the red sea, the water, the beach, the sun, the wind, the desert... Everybody is more relaxed, feels the problems of the office and home faaaar away and then we want to believe that this is really our dream coming true to find that special person at this time.
I believe tourists everywhere are more vulnerable in their emotions at all the beautiful tourist resorts, and those feelings are being abused everywhere, mostly by men, who are working there. Does anyone of you know of a woman working at such a resort having one tourist lover after the other?
I guess it is not fair to blame the girls and women as much as the local men, and esp. Egyptian men who have so high standards of how they treat their women have a higher responsibility in this. And so much more, if they are Muslims, they should know better.
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Tigerlily, First, thanks for Your answer very much. You know, now when I overcome my problem I’m just wondering why so many woman feel that they have got broken heart while I have never ever read about it – in such a scale – in European forum. It’s a pitty I can’t participate here so often, but I do appreciate ur answers. I also think that Egyptian culture is extremely valuable, so I’m here and want to know why I …felt so hurt after all. I’m not German. I don’t like fulfill profiles…
Karinfarid I think You are also totally right. Well, I didn’t received a gentle behaviour from all men there, but I fell in love with the men who.. protects me against them… Yes, I wanted to take rest, be relaxed and I never ever wanted to meet any man, any love affairs. Just see this country. And You are right that we have to make division between those men who got values and those who hasn’t. Well, this topic is really overrated. I hope we stop it soon and – maybe- meet each other better instead of complaining? I’m also happy that I have met so wonderful person as Vito, who seems to be an example of a person with values and open to make the conclusions and do sth valuable. I would like to know sth more about u, people. Thanks a lot again You give me a lot of support. Take care!!!