i have had read much topic since the last 2 days i have just joined this lovely web site.
but i would like to ask, As We are Egyptian, and middle eastern..what are the criteria to choice the gurl, the single is going to marry...
will we have to marry in tradiational way "Salonayt Y3nee", or wait the time to feel in Real Love end by marrying, mesh el love elly bally balak
another thing, whats yr thinking about the guy who marries a woman/gurl much elder or just elder than him...
last thing, as some egyptian men, here are looking to marry a forigen gurls, and they know the forigen gurls has no limitation for their realation with their bf, why they do not marry egyptian gurl who had a love in be with her ex-bf, under certain circumstances, without leading to make that cheaty Operation...
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Mmmmm, as a foreign girl, I have "no limitation for my relation with my boyfriend"... Could you explain me what you exactly mean??
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I mean forigen gurls, are easily broken with bf, and have someone new, and have sex with him, as if he is her husband
quote:Originally posted by RaniaMe: Mmmmm, as a foreign girl, I have "no limitation for my relation with my boyfriend"... Could you explain me what you exactly mean??
quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: I mean forigen gurls, are easily broken with bf, and have someone new, and have sex with him, as if he is her husband
Mmmm, I think you're offending foreign girls dear...But coming from you, strangely, it doesn't bother me that much...
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quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: Hi, All ppl here
i have had read much topic since the last 2 days i have just joined this lovely web site.
but i would like to ask, As We are Egyptian, and middle eastern..what are the criteria to choice the gurl, the single is going to marry...
will we have to marry in tradiational way "Salonayt Y3nee", or wait the time to feel in Real Love end by marrying, mesh el love elly bally balak
another thing, whats yr thinking about the guy who marries a woman/gurl much elder or just elder than him...
last thing, as some egyptian men, here are looking to marry a forigen gurls, and they know the forigen gurls has no limitation for their realation with their bf, why they do not marry egyptian gurl who had a love in be with her ex-bf, under certain circumstances, without leading to make that cheaty Operation...
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I believe since you are Egyptian the traditions and customs of your own country regulate the way to find, choose and marry your woman one day.
Lastly since you seem to be a very romantic person don't rush into anything and anyone, your feelings could take over your senses........ test your both commitment for some time and then become spouses.
In my opinion I also think that the "virgin thing" is too much valued in the Islam f. e. Sorry if I offend anyone with this. Seriously I respect what you believe in. But I believe the most important thing is that you find a person who will be there for you in good and bad times, will be a partner to enjoy life with, a person to laugh and cry with, someone to share thoughts and feelings to the fullest, who will be honest, committed, faithful and respectful to you forever and most importantly loves you for the person you are.
If you find that all - then consider yourself a lucky man!
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Thanks for your Reply. but you missunderstand something in egypt we do have the right to chocie the gurl we are going to marry, and even gurls have the right to choice the man, and agree or disagree about hims...
but the family role become restricted to if they believe and sure he is qualifed for their daughter. yea, maybe in past, and maybe some homes in egypt still anti-this way "it is not antivirus "...
beside i wanna give u a hint, abt why The Virginty is so serious topic in islam, cuz the diseases we do have nowdays in our modern life like IDZ, is due to the gurl may broke up with a man, and then have sex with other one which u dont know wheter the kid, if she got pergnant is belong to whom of these men.
The man in islam marries a divorced woman or widowed, and she is not virgin, but there is a periode she have to waite to marry with one else, do u know why this periode, the scientfic found it is the periode, will make the cum of the ex-husband dry inside her, and has no place inside her anymore, so when she does marry other man no mix of generation
I REALLY HOPE TO Marry a gurl who Qualified my feelings, and emoition and be real doesnt wear a mask,
just pary for me
quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: I believe since you are Egyptian the traditions and customs of your own country regulate the way to find, choose and marry your woman one day.
Lastly since you seem to be a very romantic person don't rush into anything and anyone, your feelings could take over your senses........ test your both commitment for some time and then become spouses.
In my opinion I also think that the "virgin thing" is too much valued in the Islam f. e. Sorry if I offend anyone with this. Seriously I respect what you believe in. But I believe the most important thing is that you find a person who will be there for you in good and bad times, will be a partner to enjoy life with, a person to laugh and cry with, someone to share thoughts and feelings to the fullest, who will be honest, committed, faithful and respectful to you forever and most importantly loves you for the person you are.
If you find that all - then consider yourself a lucky man!
quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: I mean forigen gurls, are easily broken with bf, and have someone new, and have sex with him, as if he is her husband
Wallahi! Educate yourself before making such statements!
quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: cuz the diseases we do have nowdays in our modern life like IDZ, is due to the gurl may broke up with a man, and then have sex with other one which u dont know wheter the kid, if she got pergnant is belong to whom of these men.
Yeah, you're right, diseases are transmitted by girls ONLY, and all girls only think of one thing, going from a man to another... By the way, I have to go now, one is waiting for me outside...not my husband of course...
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: ... In my opinion I also think that the "virgin thing" is too much valued in the Islam f. e. Sorry if I offend anyone with this.
Please don't confuse between Islam and the culture here
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Hey, I ofcourse dont mean that the diseaes just transmitted with gurls, but i just mentioned the Gurls here, cuz he/she does talk abt the Virginty of Gurl
So calm down i dont mean any insult for gurls..
quote:Originally posted by RaniaMe: Yeah, you're right, diseases are transmitted by girls ONLY, and all girls only think of one thing, going from a man to another... By the way, I have to go now, one is waiting for me outside...not my husband of course...
quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: but you beside i wanna give u a hint, abt why The Virginty is so serious topic in islam, cuz the diseases we do have nowdays in our modern life like IDZ, is due to the gurl may broke up with a man, and then have sex with other one which u dont know wheter the kid, if she got pergnant is belong to whom of these men.
The man in islam marries a divorced woman or widowed, and she is not virgin, but there is a periode she have to waite to marry with one else, do u know why this periode, the scientfic found it is the periode, will make the cum of the ex-husband dry inside her, and has no place inside her anymore, so when she does marry other man no mix of generation
River of Love, I think you mean well, but you might not realize that some of what you say is offensive to women. Sexually transmitted diseases are the fault of *both* men and women. Not only that, but it is very critical that you realize both men and women can get sexually transmitted diseases while still technically remaining a virgin. These diseases can be spread by intimate contact, even if you do not have intercourse. Please keep that in mind.
And as far as the waiting period before remarriage, I thought that was to ensure a woman was not unknowingly pregnant with her ex-husband's child. The *semen* you talk about is gone in a couple of days...
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quote:Originally posted by river_0f_l0ve: Hey, I ofcourse dont mean that the diseaes just transmitted with gurls, but i just mentioned the Gurls here, cuz he/she does talk abt the Virginty of Gurl
So calm down i dont mean any insult for gurls..
This forum is a place where you have to make yourself clear unless you wanna be bitten by spirits watching us
The man in islam marries a divorced woman or widowed, and she is not virgin, but there is a periode she have to waite to marry with one else, do u know why this periode, the scientfic found it is the periode, will make the cum of the ex-husband dry inside her, and has no place inside her anymore, so when she does marry other man no mix of generation
You mean a scientist from the Stone Age? What a nonsense! That's too funny of an explanation.
You know that male sperms surviving in a vagina maximal seven days?
Thats very short of a period. Not even in the West they do get married that quickly again.
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Could plz read my Reply on Rania me, i said
"Hey, I ofcourse dont mean that the diseaes just transmitted with gurls, but i just mentioned the Gurls here, cuz Tigerlily does talk abt the Virginty of Gurl in slam, so i liked to show here up why it is important in islam
So calm down i dont mean any insult for gurls.."
quote:Originally posted by Snoozin: River of Love, I think you mean well, but you might not realize that some of what you say is offensive to women. Sexually transmitted diseases are the fault of *both* men and women. Not only that, but it is very critical that you realize both men and women can get sexually transmitted diseases while still technically remaining a virgin. These diseases can be spread by intimate contact, even if you do not have intercourse. Please keep that in mind.
And as far as the waiting period before remarriage, I thought that was to ensure a woman was not unknowingly pregnant with her ex-husband's child. The *semen* you talk about is gone in a couple of days...
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We should be glad to get into this argument right now. Because it is amazing how much ignorant we can be and how much we can learn in a simple conversation. I don't know if river of love is the case, but as a foreigner in Egypt I got astonished by the fact that "Men here know everything, and everything bad is because of women"
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quote:Originally posted by Tigerlily: I guess your own guys seem to be confused.
My own guys? I didn't "produce" here anything yet
I will make it more clear for ya, had virginity was a big deal, Prophet Muhammad pbuh would have chosen all his wives virgin, aight? yes they all were either divorced or widowed except one. this is where you get Islam from if you're serious!
quote:Originally posted by eaasalam: We should be glad to get into this argument right now. Because it is amazing how much ignorant we can be and how much we can learn in a simple conversation. I don't know if river of love is the case, but as a foreigner in Egypt I got astonished by the fact that "Men here know everything, and everything bad is because of women"
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The Virginity is not a deal it is a true, we are living in our community.
quote:Originally posted by Troubles101: My own guys? I didn't "produce" here anything yet
I will make it more clear for ya, had virginity was a big deal, Prophet Muhammad pbuh would have chosen all his wives virgin, aight? yes they all were either divorced or widowed except one. this is where you get Islam from if you're serious!
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