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After being here for quite a long time now. And as I have read a lot of topics here. I cant stop asking myself all the time. Why does it always seem that the biggest problem of all, is Love. I have seen ppl here some complaining about love, about feeling lonely and in want of love. love ads and love,love and love. why is that? I dont have anything against love.. its a great feeling. But why does it seem as if ppl are too obsessed with love. Not in the person but IN LOVE its self.
I am not attacking anyone or anybody...(so dont misunderstand me here) just wondering about it and want to see what you guys think.
I just think next to topics involving Egypt's touristic scene relationships with Egyptian men are very dominant on here. And I believe its great, you can share informations and also ask for advise. It can be an eye-opener for many on here. I still think that ES is a wonderful site and very unique at the same time.
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quote:Originally posted by Serendipity: After being here for quite a long time now. And as I have read a lot of topics here. I cant stop asking myself all the time. Why does it always seem that the biggest problem of all, is Love. I have seen ppl here some complaining about love, about feeling lonely and in want of love. love ads and love,love and love. why is that? I dont have anything against love.. its a great feeling. But why does it seem as if ppl are too obsessed with love. Not in the person but IN LOVE its self.
I am not attacking anyone or anybody...(so dont misunderstand me here) just wondering about it and want to see what you guys think.
I dunno, Seren. Personally, I obsessed about love my entire life, because I never had it. My family are good people, but they are really messed up. So I think I kept going after what I never had. Maybe some people here feel the same. I don't know.
I wish everyone the best, that they find, inshallah, love all around them.
Salaam.
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May be because all kind of relation based on Love , between you and Allah , you and your family, friends, etc...
i am one of ppl who complained of loneliness, yes,but it was just because of bad circusmtances, loosing one of my family, loosing friends, as it was Test of God, ya Allah, it was so difficut and still but not like before , and i am sure it will change soon.
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I think a big problem is that so many people are searching for love. In that thought and act, the one of searching, we tend to look in the wrong places. We want and we need love so we force it apon ourselves, cancelling out many of the points that would make you understand that this person is not for you. We want people to hold us to kiss us to laugh with us to hug us to understand us.
If we just waited calmly for people to pass through our lives, love will be there, in our faces. One day you meet a man or a women and you will know you love this person.
So many people stay in relationships for years waiting to see if they love the person or they love them because they need them and cant feel strong without this person by their side. Do you want this kind of person loving you?
I really want to see people in good loving relatioships i have spent so much time banging my head against a wall to help my friends but everybody is blind to human weakness.
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