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well its up to the mentalty if i know she will understand then will share it all if not better to keep in your self
but why cheating for the start i mean for god sake do you think that if person cheated then told you he is honest person? lol amr
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Limited honesty.. At least it means he has a conscience, or he is afraid that she would find out anyway... I don`t think there is one universal rule in this. First we have to know the definition of cheating. Whats cheating?
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Since the question was cheating, to tell or not...the answer is to not tell as far as I'm concerned. Unless of course, you want to end your current relationship. If it was a "stupid" thing and it's over, you have to live with it, why hurt the one you do care about. Start to build a new relationship. Bringing a third party into your lives will never work. And I don't think anyone wants to know the truth, no matter what they say. Chalk it up as bad judgement and work on what you do have and make it better.
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Meaning #1: not faithful to a spouse or lover Synonyms: adulterous, two-timing
Meaning #2: violating accepted standards or rules Synonyms: dirty, foul, unsporting, unsportsmanlike
Cheating is defined as an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others[1]. Cheating implies the breaking of rules. The term "cheating" is less applicable to the breaking of laws, as illegal activities are referred to by specific legal terminology such as fraud or corruption. Cheating is a primordial economic act: getting more for less, often used when referring to marital infidelity.
Posts: 76 | From: "The Dessert" | Registered: Sep 2007
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Yes, Smuckers, it depends on the one beside you! Whats acceptable for one, doesnt have to be acceptable to another. So, what I should be decribe as cheating, possibly might be not cheating to another, to my partner, to my neighbour, to my friend etc. Flirting on the internet might be cheating to me, maybe my neighbour has a different opinion about it, because there is no real contact... Its all a personal opinion, and the most important is, that both partners are having the same thoughts about it. So, nobody can advice in this question. Its about the partners personal opinion...
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Yes, that's why you shouldn't marry (or partner)with anyone who is a bad mismatch to you. Don't want to marry one who only considers cheating if fluid is involved (sorry to be descriptive) while you could think Cheating begins so much as flirting. If you partner with one who has the same views on cheating as close to your own you shouldn't have a problem knowing what is and what is NOT cheating both in your eyes and in theirs. BTW, never put yourself in a position to have it suspected you could be cheating, and avoid the issue altogether. A marriage is in large part about feeling secure and respected in the partnership, having your partner know they don't have to worry about where you are/who you're with/what you're doing is a given.
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cheat ??? any way ....some guys .. (esecially egyptions ) get to know when u cheat on him ...so any way if u cheated that means ur relation is cracked, coz cheating is the worst in a relation ,,,I would prefere kill my self on cheating on my GF love or wife....
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As Hitman said, it would be known sooner or later, you can't hide this for long, people would see you and tell. There are no chances to hide this.
Should you tell? What's the point? To ask for forgiveness, to brake up, to save whatever is left, to brake his heart, to hurt again, to get it off your chest, to make yourself feeling better, perhaps less guilty? What's do you want out of this?
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Confess or not confess? For all the muslim ladies here, the grand mufti - well known for making wierd fatwa - has issued one about cheating wives. He says cheating wives should NEVER confess in order to protect themselves and their houses and children. If the cheating is discovered it means divorce, no home, maybe loose children, or not be able to feed them well, so to protect other innocents she should keep silent about the cheating. It is between her and God. So, what applies to muslim ladies should apply to other ladies who are married to muslim man.
What you think girls? Good get out clause? or licence for on going cheating?
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Whatever people outside of the relationship might think about it, its a matter between husband and wife. And no partner shall be happy when he/she has been cheated. Confessing IMO can work out, but the consequences are there to accept. Some can work it out, for some it is a immediatly end, and some are having major problems for years. Maybe its good to realise that the conse quences usually are not only for the two partners. There are families behind these two, and they also will expierence the effects. And thats sad...
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Abolutely right ?????. I think this is one of the muftis more sensible fatwa as long as it is not exploited and used in genuine circumstances - i.e a mistake made, genuine regret, must protect family from the consequences of such a stupid mistake.
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