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Visiting Egypt and living here is different. I miss being able to go out by myself! Why does he always have to go??????????????? F*** OFF!
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Visiting Egypt and living here is different. I miss being able to go out by myself! Why does he always have to go??????????????? F*** OFF!
you've only been there 5 days!! how can you compare it to 'living there' Posts: 15090 | From: http://www.egyptalk.com/forum/ | Registered: Jul 2004
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Perhaps he won't let you go out alone because he has heard you like guys called Mohamed especially ones who have a cute ass who you pick up at airports Posts: 1244 | From: we come in peace | Registered: Nov 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Visiting Egypt and living here is different. I miss being able to go out by myself! Why does he always have to go??????????????? F*** OFF!
Girls, we are going to have the sob story now - someone pass me the tissues or better still, Ayisha pass me the sick bucket Posts: 1244 | From: we come in peace | Registered: Nov 2006
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I am not happy! and he just thinks everything is grand! Gosh! I thought he could read me better than that! I am not happyyyyyyy
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you couldn't wait to go now you are complaining? god what is with you ? i wish i was there to be with my husband. you are very lucky. maybe he just wants to protect you thats why he doesn't want you to go out alone
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quote:Originally posted by micky azzam: you couldn't wait to go now you are complaining? god what is with you ? i wish i was there to be with my husband. you are very lucky. maybe he just wants to protect you thats why he doesn't want you to go out alone
Yes Micky I am happy to be here with him and I wish that you could be here with your husband too. But my fiance won't let me do little things like walk down to the store by myself etc, just to maybe grab a pack of gum! He'll say I'll get it, or I'll go with you etc! I just want a little me time without him hovering over my damn shoulder! I mean damn, am I a baby?
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: I just want a little me time without him hovering over my damn shoulder! I mean damn, am I a baby?
If your fiance won't give you me time and is constantly looking over your shoulder how are you managing to write these postings? Posts: 1244 | From: we come in peace | Registered: Nov 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Yes Micky I am happy to be here with him ....But my fiance won't let me do little things like walk down to the store by myself etc, just to maybe grab a pack of gum! He'll say I'll get it, or I'll go with you etc! I just want a little me time without him hovering over my damn shoulder! I mean damn, am I a baby?
quote:Originally posted by Josette: permission???????? You really must be a deluded ***** wacko.
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Not that I have to explain anything to you, but I mean me time out alone!!! Hell I have me time at home,wow Look at me! I stay at home all day while he's at work! Whoopee! See how great Egypt is, I get to stand on my balcony all damn day and watch the cars go by! Wow! This is someeeeee life I dreamed about! Not to mention I said I could not sleep, so obviously he's asleep! DUHHH
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Living in Cairo I see that cooking is for losers. We order in.Everyone around here orders in , I mean the delivery men are constantly going around on the mopeds. Everything gets delivered in Cairo, are you crazy? And why would I be cooking at damn near 1 am?
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: but I mean me time out alone!!! Hell I have me time at home,wow Look at me! I stay at home all day while he's at work! Whoopee! See how great Egypt is, I get to stand on my balcony all damn day and watch the cars go by! Wow! This is someeeeee life I dreamed about!
So I guess that ball and chain he has keeping you attached to the balcony all day must be starting to chafe a little now then Posts: 4576 | From: Cairo | Registered: Jun 2002
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so he's asleep. did he manage 7 times before he dropped off??
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A good Egyptian wife can never discuss her sexual details with a stranger! Astafigurallah!
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: I am not happy! and he just thinks everything is grand! Gosh! I thought he could read me better than that! I am not happyyyyyyy
well, kosette you are a spoiled rotten kid Posts: 3128 | From: Not Your Heaven | Registered: Sep 2006
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ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm dont know for sure isnt she the one who went off with the cute ass and told us all before he does it 7 times or more or is this a different person we are talking about?
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quote:Originally posted by micky azzam: ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm dont know for sure isnt she the one who went off with the cute ass and told us all before he does it 7 times or more or is this a different person we are talking about?
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hey chimps where were you today we were having a blast on here and needed some help on massage in Cairo. it was so hilarious vb was the best. check it out when you get a chance Posts: 9443 | From: USA...... | Registered: Jun 2006
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hahahahahahah i got you all going its not me i aint got a clue who this is just having a joke with you ,,how easy it is for you to bleive me when i say IT WAS ME lol im in stitchies here ..i dont know who that is but it hink shes the one who had sex 50times anight ,isint it ,,ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh me laughing ITS NOT ME LOL LOL ..
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quote:Originally posted by chimps ..: hahahahahahah i got you all going its not me i aint got a clue who this is just having a joke with you ,,how easy it is for you to bleive me when i say IT WAS ME lol im in stitchies here ..i dont know who that is but it hink shes the one who had sex 50times anight ,isint it ,,ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh me laughing ITS NOT ME LOL LOL ..
I know its not you chimps Posts: 15090 | From: http://www.egyptalk.com/forum/ | Registered: Jul 2004
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Living in Cairo I see that cooking is for losers. We order in.Everyone around here orders in , I mean the delivery men are constantly going around on the mopeds. Everything gets delivered in Cairo, are you crazy? And why would I be cooking at damn near 1 am?
I thought your fiance bought you an apt. in Alex?? And now your talking about living in Cairo?? I think you are lost.
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I have met two of my fiance's friends and they were both really nice. When I was visiting last time, he went down to the cafe and they watched a soccer match. You could hear those dummies screaming on the balcony Since both of his friends are married, I don't expect him to be hanging out with them alot and I doubt it will ever be an issue for me because my fiance knows what side his bread is buttered on posted by Josette in the past few days
So the story changed in a short space of time ummmm
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Visiting Egypt and living here is different. I miss being able to go out by myself! Why does he always have to go??????????????? F*** OFF!
I'm going to assume for a moment that you are legit and really feel you have made a mistake with this man, etc. Ok. You probably have only been there a week or so, which isn't long, and being in a strange place with a lack of independence compared to what you had before is difficult to get used to, I know. Just know he goes everywhere with you because he probably feels you are his responsibility and there are things about Egypt and some men here you can't know yet or understand so just trust him for now. Instead of expecting him to 'read you' why not have a conversation with him about how you feel? In the same breath, you aren't exactly reading him very well if you cant even understand why he feels the need to be with his new wife in a strange country, strange language, strange people, strange culture, etc. Talk to him, maybe there can be a compromise.
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I'm wondering why Josie sits on the balcony all day when she could be entertained (or entertaining) right here. Or is she?
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she shouldnt be complaning that hes gone all day. in that time she could entertain her little cute ass... ahh to live a double life eh josette? isnt life grand?? where did that vommit bucket go?
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We are waiting to go to Alexandria. We are staying in Cairo for now because this is where his family is and where he is working now. The flat was bought in Alex because I instantly fell in love with it when we visited,but most of his contacts are here. Anyway, I think it would be better once I got there because atleast I could have something nice to look at all day! and I could meet Laura for lunch when I was bored.
Right Laura? Posts: 833 | From: Egypt | Registered: Dec 2006
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quote:Originally posted by Josette: Visiting Egypt and living here is different. I miss being able to go out by myself! Why does he always have to go??????????????? F*** OFF!
I'm going to assume for a moment that you are legit and really feel you have made a mistake with this man, etc. Ok. You probably have only been there a week or so, which isn't long, and being in a strange place with a lack of independence compared to what you had before is difficult to get used to, I know. Just know he goes everywhere with you because he probably feels you are his responsibility and there are things about Egypt and some men here you can't know yet or understand so just trust him for now. Instead of expecting him to 'read you' why not have a conversation with him about how you feel? In the same breath, you aren't exactly reading him very well if you cant even understand why he feels the need to be with his new wife in a strange country, strange language, strange people, strange culture, etc. Talk to him, maybe there can be a compromise.
Thanks Smuckers
I have thought about talking to him about it. I don't know why I haven't. I guess things seem to be going pretty well(so he thinks) and don't want to start complaining so soon. I don't want him to think that I don't appreciate the concern,but hey, I am not some delicate, naive Egyptian woman. I will kick any man's ass that gets fresh with me. I know how to handle myself and he needs to understand that. His wife is no shrinking violet!
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I would GLADLY spend all day at home by myself if it meant being able to see my husband each night. I'd give my right arm for that possibility right now. Posts: 1808 | From: USA | Registered: Aug 2006
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Yeah I said the same thing doodle,but it is different when you are here! I do love him, don't get me wrong and I enjoy being with him,but it's just not all what I thought.
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Josette, if you are for real I do feel sorry for you, there are lots of cultural differences for you to learn, you really need to understand these before going further into this relationship. When I lived in Alex and when visiting Egypy my husband accompanies me everywhere, talk to your partner try and understand where he is coming from. You need to have a good understanding of each other to have a good relationship - gd luck.
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