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I was going through some online ovulation calendars and after going thru about 20 of them, they all point to around the same dates and stuff. Do you women think they are believable or not or maybe this kind of stuff is better left for nature to decide? (im not good with this stuff)
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well this is what the online calendar i used (well one of them) says:
1/12 was the first day of my last P and I was with Jalal unprotected (like a dumbass) on friday the 23rd. and it wasnt just a one timer that night, he dumped gallons. (sorry hope i dont make you guys feel uneasy saying that but ah what the hell its girl talk)I guess I will see in 2 weeks when i do a test.
He talks about babies a lot and wasnt an ounce afraid about not using a rubber. i mean i known him a long time (my ex used to work for him and his bro) and so disease wise, im not scared...he asked me last weekend though, 'you think we should start using condoms?' and i was like, 'ya we dont want a baby right now.' he told me, 'no im not scared of that but do u trust me? i never been with woman b4 with no protection so u dont have to worry, but im just asking how you feel?'
I kinda hope that I am. I am almost 30 and my biological clock is sounding off alarms right now. The charts also say that if I did conceive this time, its gonna be a girl, lol
Your Most Likely Date of Ovulation is January 24, 2009
The following is a "best guess" overview of your approximate fertile cycle:
January 12, 2009You told us this was the 1st day of your last period January 21, 2009This is the very beginning of your fertile period. Although your egg has not yet been released, it is possible that sperm could survive until your egg is released. January 22, 2009It is now 2 days before ovulation; it is likely that you could conceive on this date. January 23, 2009It is 1 day before ovulation. You are very fertile on this date. January 24, 2009Ovulation. Based on the 1st day of your last period, this is the date that your egg is released. You are most fertile on this date. January 25, 2009On the day after ovulation, conception is still very possible. January 26, 20092 days after ovulation, your fertility is decreasing. The egg survives for about 24 hours, and, if not fertilized, it will disintegrate. January 31, 2009If your egg was successfully fertilized, this is the approximate date when it implants itself in the uterus. February 1, 2009A blood pregnancy test may be accurate now from this date forward. February 3, 2009Some early pregnancy home tests may be accurate now – but be aware of the possibility of a false negative result. February 7, 2009If you are NOT pregnant, this is the date you will probably get your next period. If you ARE pregnant, you can expect accurate results from a pregnancy test. October 19, 2009This is your most likely due
my mind is racing...i dont really havesigns of pregnancy its too early i think, but i cant stop thinking about it. if i am, i just have to keep it a secret until we marry cuz i dont want Aleya to know I did this before marriage.
The only weird things I been feeling since like 2 days ago, I been really open to smells, like super nose, and i keep waking up at like 3am and not going back to sleep. Lower back cramps, and loss of appetite too. I been more tired and even have been cleaning everything in sight. I know that kinda comes with pregnancy but late ron i thought. Who knows, maybe its in my head.
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That is a slightly off overview. Your best guess is that ovulation was two weeks after the start of your last af. That would be the 26th. While you can still get pregnant from sex on the 23rd, it's slightly disadvantaged. Also, male sperm tend to swim faster and die off faster. That means the father away from ovulation you have sex, theoretically the more girl sperm you will have than boy sperm. It's not only the sperm that determines gender, but also the PH of a woman's vagina- if it's more acidic or alkaline. Depending on the status of the woman, it could aid or kill certain sperms.
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well see, thru the research i did and asking my ob/gyn when i was prego with aleya, sperm live 5 days inside the vagina and they actually prefer you try to do sex starting 72 hours BEFORE the day u ovulate because the egg only lives a few hours. the day after u ovulate the egg is about to disintegrate, if it hasnt done so already.
oh well, we will see in a few days when i do the test. i bought a first response test that can detect the early form of HCG 5 days sooner and i bought a buy 3 get one free pack.
well see.
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i was just sitting here working, minding my own business and i got that feeling in my tummy out of nowhere, then the mouth began to water and i ran to the bathroom and BLAAAAACHCKKHK!!
ew ew ew fucking ew!
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the title did say chicks only. when you are out in public, do you also go into the bathroom marked ladies as well?
its all coming together.
cough cough GAY cough cough
looool
aaanyway, I texted Jalal, 'i got sick, i need a hug.' so he just called me back and was like, what happened?' I told him I was just sitting here and had to get sick. He then says, 'your pregnant man, huh?' He has no clue yet that I think I may be. So I say, 'naaah'. Then he sounded kinda disppointed as he asked, 'why not?'
liek I said, well see.
have good weekend yawl! =)
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quote:Originally posted by Momma_Dukes: the title did say chicks only. when you are out in public, do you also go into the bathroom marked ladies as well?
its all coming together.
Except you don't make any rules around here.
This isn't your public bathroom mate, although you seem to think it is. Posts: 6335 | From: Straight to my heart. | Registered: Sep 2007
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quote:I was with Jalal unprotected (like a dumbass) on friday the 23rd. and it wasnt just a one timer that night, he dumped gallons
ROFLMFAO
(after wiping tears from my eyes from laughing too hard)
Hmmm...looking at the calendar....yea...you very well may have been in 'the danger zone" that night. The 23rd was last friday, so If you did get pregnant, the zygote would have implanted itself probably today sometime, ( 1 wk) and the placenta would start to produce HGC hormone. So you could probably take a test by next week to get a 'preliminary' feel.
As far as puking goes, hmm..maybe just nerves.
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quote:Originally posted by Momma_Dukes: update: i just puked my guts up.
i was just sitting here working, minding my own business and i got that feeling in my tummy out of nowhere, then the mouth began to water and i ran to the bathroom and BLAAAAACHCKKHK!!
ew ew ew fucking ew!
Maybe you just had something really bad for lunch??!!
Well let's see how your tests turn out in the days to come.
Are you prepared for possible motherhood? How long do you know that fella btw??
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quote:Originally posted by slewth: BTW: I got MY . today!
Oh and I am most fertile today and tomorrow.... but I don't think so! I got enough on my plate already!! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Trying to work out when you ovulate is pointless online. You might have sex just days before period due and end up with a bun in the oven. Everyone ovulates at different times, the Internet sites just give an average, however most women (even those with the perfect 28 day cycle) do not ovulate in the middle. But sperm does live for about 5 days, so even if you don't ovulate until 5 days after you had sex, you can still end up pregnant. However, I think it would be a bit too early for morning sickness, that is rarely the first symptom. First symptoms are usually like what you would get when expecting period (sensitive breasts and cramps)... but then, everyone and every pregnancy is different. However, considering every other week you are with a new guy, exclaiming "Oh I've known him for ages, we are already talking children, future, etc"... do you really think you are ready for another child??
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quote:Originally posted by Momma_Dukes: the title did say chicks only. when you are out in public, do you also go into the bathroom marked ladies as well?
its all coming together.
Except you don't make any rules around here.
This isn't your public bathroom mate, although you seem to think it is.
no i dont need to make rules on a forum to make myself feel like i have some kind of say in this world thanks. and really i dont know who told you that you were anyone special around here..maybe amr's flunkie, his little ass kisser tattle tale brown noser maybe but thats about it. and just like flunkies do, you will probably go and cry to him about this thread and he will hero in and delete it.
please dude, BE A MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!!!!
like go to a man forum or something you fag. like really you are such an annoying little sh*t! like an egyptian steve urkel. like really, wtf does this thread have to do with you? you chime into every thread and lay your stupid ass lame dorky damn comments like people really give a crap what some little boy thinks about a world in which he obviously way to immature to handle yet. little boy you havent even started friggin living yet.
grow up and live a few more years and experience LIFE first before you think you have a say on anything that us adults and women go through. people should be able to go to a website without having some little kid ankle biter follow them around.
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well he came oer this weekend, i made him big dinner with shrimps and scallops and mediterranean style fish and he loved it! then we grabebd the bottle of merlot and went upstairs. aleyas dad wanted to take her out this weekend so i had the house to myself. well he didnt want to use a condom again so I told him, 'you know what? if i get pregnant, i dont wanna hear you bitchin'!' he laughed and said oh ya? and dove in. i was just testing him to see what his reaction would be in case soon i had to spring some news on him. he left yesterday morning only to call me up later to take my out to eat. he missed me awwww=)
i got a glimpse of another sign...when wew did it, it really hurt like everything up in there was being poked with a cane like super sensitive. i had cramps yesterday, and i dont really cramp and they are kinda gone today. i been craving damn pancakes since thursday and gave into it last night at 12am when i got outta bed and had to make me one. today when i was doing my hair, i felt that pukey feeling and now as i sit here, i feel my mouth very watery and that upside down quesy yet painless feeling in my tummy followed with some light lower back pain. ima take a test tomorrow.
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oh god, no way....yall remember mohamed the taxi dood...he been texting me all weekend and he just sent me a text cobngratulating PA on our superbowl win, now he wants to know if im at work....OMG WTF!!!!!! i havent heard from him in like FOREVER and now he is scratching at my door again..ya well buster too late!
i told him to go away.
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thread bookmarked. keep us updated on your life. please explain details of the bedroom action. k thanks
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ok and make sure you tell that all the other women here who post stories about cheating men in detail, baby woes, man issues and even to women who write about others lives as well? another one who obviously missed the CHICKS ONLY part.
k...thanks. my god, you people act so stone aged somtimes...cant talk about anything cuz some hermit might get smart ass.
anyway, took a test last night, the line was light (im still kinda early) but was defintely there.
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Pregnant: - Period stops. - Vomit everything when eating. - Only want to eat vegetables and fruits, especially sour fruits. - Cannot stand with the smell of rice and husband. - Consume mint bonbons everytime. - Easy to collapse when standing long time Posts: 756 | From: ...be solution... | Registered: Jul 2007
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quote:Originally posted by Momma_Dukes: anyway, took a test last night, the line was light (im still kinda early) but was defintely there.
What kind of test did you use? Some require an additional line or even a plus so read the instructions carefully.
I think you should wait at least another week or even more to get a proper result. Good luck.
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quote:Originally posted by weirdkitty: Trying to work out when you ovulate is pointless online. You might have sex just days before period due and end up with a bun in the oven.
Not entirely true because you wouldn't be ovulating while you had your period. If you had sex 2 days before your period and your period lasted 3 days the sperm would be long gone by the time you ovulated because its usually around 14 days after your period started (not 3 or 5). (the hormones that increase to prompt your period are different to those that trigger ovulation)
When people find themselves pregnant in the circumstances you describe, usually means the conception took place in the previous cycle, and was close to the time of the next period (so perhaps a shorter cycle. The period in that case would not be a 'real' one but just a small bleed.
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anyway, took a test last night, the line was light (im still kinda early) but was defintely there. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Well if there was any kind of line there then you should go to the doctors to have it confirmed. You wouldn't have any of the hormone it is detecting for in your body UNLESS you were pregnant. It is normal for it to be in small amounts and then gradually increase in the first 3 months. That hormone is what causes your morning sickness later on.
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quote:Originally posted by Culture Club: Pregnant: - Only want to eat vegetables and fruits, especially sour fruits. - Cannot stand with the smell of rice and husband. - Consume mint bonbons everytime. - Easy to collapse when standing long time
Maybe this is all very personal??? Only want to eat vegetables and fruits?? I just wanted to eat Mac Donalds . (Don't worry, my kid was healthy .)
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quote: Not entirely true because you wouldn't be ovulating while you had your period. If you had sex 2 days before your period and your period lasted 3 days the sperm would be long gone by the time you ovulated because its usually around 14 days after your period started (not 3 or 5). (the hormones that increase to prompt your period are different to those that trigger ovulation)
Some women really do ovulate that late. The norm is in the middle, but it is no guarantee, which is why people tracking their ovulation take tests, instead of using online calcs.
quote: When people find themselves pregnant in the circumstances you describe, usually means the conception took place in the previous cycle, and was close to the time of the next period (so perhaps a shorter cycle. The period in that case would not be a 'real' one but just a small bleed.
There is a great difference between implantation bleeding, or normal pregnancy spotting, to an actual period (usually anyway). Women’s bodies are all different. That is why some women do indeed get pregnant whilst on their period. It is rare, but it happens. You can get pregnant at any time during your cycle, because you can ovulate at anytime… I also think it can change each month too, I’m not sure by how much, and if it can be a drastic change though, but wouldn’t surprise me.
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I wasn't talking about implantation bleeding or spotting, I was talking about the kind of bleeding that occurs if you conceive right before your next period.
Sometimes a woman can bleed a lot during pregnancy, even more than a normal period, and this is not spotting either.
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quote:Originally posted by desertgirl: Lol @ Makbeta! What were you thinking of??
Rice & husband... Mmmmm
In normal condition there is nothing bad with the smell of hot rice and husband. But in unbalanced hormone inside body, the smell sense in very sensitive and will make my head dizzy.
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quote:Originally posted by Culture Club: Pregnant: - Only want to eat vegetables and fruits, especially sour fruits. - Cannot stand with the smell of rice and husband. - Consume mint bonbons everytime. - Easy to collapse when standing long time
Maybe this is all very personal??? Only want to eat vegetables and fruits?? I just wanted to eat Mac Donalds . (Don't worry, my kid was healthy .)
Lol @ Makbeta! What were you thinking of??
Yes, I consume fruits especially el tufah a lot , for vegetables I like cooking gemüsesuppe and salad, 2-3 boiled eggs mixed with salty soya ketchup and fishes vvvv little. But milk is number 1 hehehehe... kuluuu
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quote:Originally posted by Culture Club: gemüsesuppe
Ah I must tell you you are soooooo German! For the English readers on here - she means 'vegetable soup'.
Hey, CC, double congratulations again to you and don't worry - you are eating great and the thing of not being able to stand the smell of rice and hubby should lessen soon. All the best. Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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quote: I wasn't talking about implantation bleeding or spotting, I was talking about the kind of bleeding that occurs if you conceive right before your next period.
Sometimes a woman can bleed a lot during pregnancy, even more than a normal period, and this is not spotting either.
Yes, and my point was that online ovulation calendars are extremely inaccurate because you can ovulate at any time, hence why some people get pregnant even on their period (though rare). As for blood, I would have thought heavy blooding, especially that of what surpasses a period, is cause of major concern and immediate hospital trip. Admittedly it doesn’t always mean miscarriage, but should be treated seriously, and not considered normal.
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I always heard any second line even a faint one meant pregnancy. I also heard there is no false postive only a false negitive
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quote:Originally posted by 976Sexy: I always heard any second line even a faint one meant pregnancy. I also heard there is no false postive only a false negitive
Duhhh??? I can't comprehend what you have said. Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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Lol, TL They are talking about pregnancy tests. (and lines showing or not showing)
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Why was that hard to comprehend???? When I was prgenant and took my test and wasn't sure friends told me that many times a test comes back negitive and the woman really is pregnane but no test every sas pregnant and is wrong. And many times people look for a strong second line and blow of a faint one
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quote:Originally posted by 976Sexy: I always heard any second line even a faint one meant pregnancy. I also heard there is no false postive only a false negitive
Duhhh??? I can't comprehend what you have said.
could it be chimps Posts: 9443 | From: USA...... | Registered: Jun 2006
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quote:Originally posted by 976Sexy: Why was that hard to comprehend???? When I was prgenant and took my test and wasn't sure friends told me that many times a test comes back negitive and the woman really is pregnane but no test every sas pregnant and is wrong. And many times people look for a strong second line and blow of a faint one
Well it's all about reading properly the instructions for the pregnancy test and doing it accordingly IMHO. Each test is different.
Anyway Tami come on and give us an update. Are you pregnant or not?? Please give us something to celebrate here on this forum.
Oh and if you intend to marry the guy please wait until July as I will be vacationing on the East Coast!! Posts: 30135 | From: The owner of this website killed ES....... | Registered: Feb 2004
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So, in the end, a u pregnant or not? U gave so much details of your screwing, pardon my French. And - u pregnant or not? Whore or saint?
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quote:Originally posted by NotSpringChicken: Whore or saint?
I don't think she's expecting as she never came back with a response.
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