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Originally posted by Mimmi:
Dear CAtlover,
I am just curious to hear how your Cairo trip went and what about cheffie?

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Hi Mimmi,
Thank you for asking - it was a very good trip for a number of reasons.

I don't want to say too much (she says and then types an essay) but Cheffie's friend made a lot of trouble for us, because Cheffie thought he was his best friend and trusted him to translate honestly. Cheffie thought I didn't want to see him (his friend had given him messages 'from me' which I had supposedly left in the hotel he had been working in telling him this (all a pack of lies - I told him I hadn't left any messages because I knew M was a crazy man).

By the time Cheffie understood this, it was the last day of my short visit and he tried to race up from the Red Sea on an overnight bus to see me, but it broke down for 12 hours at Suez and I couldn't change my flight. At least now we have talked on the phone (with all the inherent communication difficulties), he no longer is friends with that person (which has caused him further personal difficulties), and we will see each other again when I go back again.

However, it will be 'just friends' now, we both know the communications difficulties are just too much, and now he doesn't know anyone who is able to translate english better so he has to find someone. Also, I am beginning to know him better - only 6 months now - seems like forever! - and while I love him to pieces, he is one of the sweetest, most gentle people I have ever met, he is someone that life happens to - he goes from one drama to another - and I don't think I could really cope with it - I am more of a 'go getter' 'master of my own destiny' type person! I think I am better being his sister than his girlfriend or wife. I'm very sad about it really but I think he would drive me pots if I married him (not that he's asked - about the only egyptian man I've talked to for more than an hour that hasn't )
 

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Posted by oneatatime (Member # 8951) on :
 

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Originally posted by catlover:

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Originally posted by Mimmi:
Dear CAtlover,
I am just curious to hear how your Cairo trip went and what about cheffie?

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Hi Mimmi,
Thank you for asking - it was a very good trip for a number of reasons.

I don't want to say too much (she says and then types an essay) ... Also, I am beginning to know him better - only 6 months now - seems like forever! - and while I love him to pieces, he is one of the sweetest, most gentle people I have ever met, he is someone that life happens to - he goes from one drama to another - and I don't think I could really cope with it - I am more of a 'go getter' 'master of my own destiny' type person! I think I am better being his sister than his girlfriend or wife. I'm very sad about it really but I think he would drive me pots if I married him (not that he's asked - about the only egyptian man I've talked to for more than an hour that hasn't )

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Awww. I've followed your story Cat, and its bittersweet. Cheffie sounds like a really genuine and lovely guy, but sometimes these things aren't meant to be. What a b**d his 'friend' has been (I saw your posts about the bunny boiler and control freak) and its such a shame. I do hope you can stay friends, it might be difficult for an egyptian man to have friends of the opposite sex, but maybe the fact that you are abroad makes it easier.
 

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Posted by Mimmi (Member # 3606) on :
 
Thanks Cat for reply.
You see there aremore than just me who want to hear about you and cheffie.
Your story is so sweet so pls. keep us posted.
 

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Posted by AndreAhmed (Member # 9277) on :
 
Hey Cat , there are programs like WorldTV (google for it ) that can allow u view the Two Egyptian Channels .
Hope that helps
Ahmed
 

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Posted by catlover (Member # 7982) on :
 

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Originally posted by AndreAhmed:
Hey Cat , there are programs like WorldTV (google for it ) that can allow u view the Two Egyptian Channels .
Hope that helps
Ahmed

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