How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man? Do Egyptian males are going all for the same type of woman? Or is it depending only on personal preferences?
Hm, I am eager awaiting your responses, especially from the Gentlemen.
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I am asking the male Egyptian league here on ES "How do you picture your perfect woman?"
Please be more specific, what you mean by pretty and attractive? How should your "Superwoman" look like?
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Originally posted by Tigerlily:
Medo, thanks for your response.Please be more specific, what you mean by pretty and attractive? How should your "Superwoman" look like?
And more importantly, Medo what do you have to offer.
No not pat, simplistic answers everyman comes up with. Possibly knowing what you have to truly offer a possible spouse will give you a better idea of what you need.
Not some mass produced requirements list.
white
blond
blue eyes
nice full pink lips
big boobs - not pamela anderson..but big, firm and looking up to the sky..
not too thin..voluptuous
nice ass, also firm..
hairless...everyhwere..yes, everywhere and not shaven but halawa'd
nice little feet
hands and feet with nice nails, clean, with nice red colour or polsih or whatever you call it.
and then ..amusing, geisha like, entertaining.
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Originally posted by primak:
basicallywhite
blond
blue eyes
nice full pink lips
big boobs - not pamela anderson..but big, firm and looking up to the sky..
not too thin..voluptuous
nice ass, also firm..
hairless...everyhwere..yes, everywhere and not shaven but halawa'd
nice little feet
hands and feet with nice nails, clean, with nice red colour or polsih or whatever you call it.
and then ..amusing, geisha like, entertaining.
hehe this is the typical egyptian standard of beauty!
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Originally posted by 7aya:
hehe this is the typical egyptian standard of beauty!
i like them blonde,brunette,black,tanned,slim,average,athelitic,long haired,short haired,tall,short
,don't u get it,every type of woman has it's beauty as long as she knows how to show it
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Originally posted by mody:
i like them blonde,brunette,black,tanned,slim,average,athelitic,long haired,short haired,tall,short
,don't u get it,every type of woman has it's beauty as long as she knows how to show it
you should say that to primak not me!
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Originally posted by Mon_Savage:
So3ad Hosny
yes the lovely cinderalla! every man wants her, and every woman wants to be like her! you have a great taste in women mon-savage
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Originally posted by Mon_Savage:
So3ad Hosny
Speaking of her. I heard she died. I also heard it was suicide. Is this true?
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
Speaking of her. I heard she died. I also heard it was suicide. Is this true?
she did die four years ago. it was very sad you should have seen the funeral it was like all of egypt was there! she fell or (jumped) from her balcony in london, and because of that, many people believe that she commited suicide. also her circumstances at the time were very bad. she was very sick, had lost her hair, gained an incredible amount of weight. further the egyptian media were writing horrible articles about how she is begging in london, which ofcourse really hit her pride and pushed her into a depression. she was schedueled to return to egypt a few weeks after her death. so her passing away shocked many. soad hosny had said before her death that she will write her biography which probably scared many people because during the 60s the egyptian (mukhabrat) often used actresses to sleep with politicians to get information. i do not mean to imply that she was one of those, but its just a romor that this could have been a motive for murder. anyway we all miss her, i hope inshallah she is in a better place.
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Originally posted by primak:
basicallywhite
blond
blue eyes
nice full pink lips
big boobs - not pamela anderson..but big, firm and looking up to the sky..
not too thin..voluptuous
nice ass, also firm..
hairless...everyhwere..yes, everywhere and not shaven but halawa'd
nice little feet
hands and feet with nice nails, clean, with nice red colour or polsih or whatever you call it.
and then ..amusing, geisha like, entertaining.
But after two weeks, would it be fun to live with her day to day?
No beauty with noting else wears thin.
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Originally posted by 7aya:
yes the lovely cinderalla! every man wants her, and every woman wants to be like her! you have a great taste in women mon-savage
I would love to find someone like her even to look at her without anything else, but i think she was one of a kind.
How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man?
Here is my story. It was 1978 when presidents Sadat & Carter were meeting in Cairo for their peace talks. I was then 7 years old, but my parents have been telling me about politics. I was so in love with Sadat because he was bringing peace to the world. He was my hero that I would have loved to meet.
A representative of the presidential office came to our school to ask if they could get a boy & a girl to be flower bearers & would present them to the two presidents. They chose me because I was the best of the school, spoke fluent English and knew a lot for my age. I put my mother through hell to get me a little white dress for the occasion. I couldn't sleep the night before I was scheduled to go. The next day I went to school with my white dress on, went to the principal's room, and just as I was at the door, I saw a blonde girl with a white dress on, standing there with a self-assured smile, and I overheard two teachers talking to each other: "We'll take her, she's so beautiful, much nicer looking than the other dark girl".... They were shocked to see me there, but I managed to hold my tears.. until now..
Gotta go & eat koshary
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tigerlily:
[B]After reading here through one of the topics I ask myself the following question:How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man?
Here is my story. It was 1978 when presidents Sadat & Carter were meeting in Cairo for their peace talks. I was then 7 years old, but my parents have been telling me about politics. I was so on love with Sadat because he was bringing peace to the world. He was my hero that I would have loved to meet.
A representative of the presidential office came to our school to ask if they could get a boy & a girl to be flower bearers & would present them to the two presidents. They chose me because I was the best of the school, spoke fluent English and knew a lot for my age. I put my mother through hell to get me a little white dress for the occasion. I couldn't sleep the night before I was scheduled to go. The next day I went to school with my white dress on, went to the principal's room, and just as I was at the door, I saw a blonde girl with a white dress on, standing there with a self-assured smile, and I overheard two teachers talking to each other: "We'll take her, she's so beautiful, much nicer looking than the other dark girl".... They were shocked to see me there, but I managed to hold my tears.. until now..Gotta go & eat koshary
Oh boy, if I was in your position my first reaction would be to bite someone's shins.
I'd go for that woman who rejected you because you are dark. Yup, I can hear her scream now!
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Originally posted by primak:
basicallywhite
blond
blue eyes
nice full pink lips
big boobs - not pamela anderson..but big, firm and looking up to the sky..
not too thin..voluptuous
nice ass, also firm..
hairless...everyhwere..yes, everywhere and not shaven but halawa'd
nice little feet
hands and feet with nice nails, clean, with nice red colour or polsih or whatever you call it.
and then ..amusing, geisha like, entertaining.
100% correct!
specially about hairless!
i ve been talking to my bf about differences between egy and foreign girls,so all those things were mentioned!
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tigerlily:
[B]After reading here through one of the topics I ask myself the following question:How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man?
Here is my story. It was 1978 when presidents Sadat & Carter were meeting in Cairo for their peace talks. I was then 7 years old, but my parents have been telling me about politics. I was so on love with Sadat because he was bringing peace to the world. He was my hero that I would have loved to meet.
A representative of the presidential office came to our school to ask if they could get a boy & a girl to be flower bearers & would present them to the two presidents. They chose me because I was the best of the school, spoke fluent English and knew a lot for my age. I put my mother through hell to get me a little white dress for the occasion. I couldn't sleep the night before I was scheduled to go. The next day I went to school with my white dress on, went to the principal's room, and just as I was at the door, I saw a blonde girl with a white dress on, standing there with a self-assured smile, and I overheard two teachers talking to each other: "We'll take her, she's so beautiful, much nicer looking than the other dark girl".... They were shocked to see me there, but I managed to hold my tears.. until now..Gotta go & eat koshary
God that breaks my heart.
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Originally posted by Mon_Savage:
So3ad Hosny
A blend of Nadia Lotfy and Nabila Ebeid ( young ) for me , please.
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Originally posted by smiley:
wow Promak seems you have a recipe there ...now wouldnt it be grand if that person came in a a packet and you could whip her up in a flash.. just like a cake....I asked my Husband what hs recipe was IF he were looking lol.. he said a nice a@@... what he calls nice i have no idea.... and I wont ask him further lol...beauty for sure is the thing that attracts... but surely men would get tired if that beauty if she were emty headed.. or is that ok too guys... then maybe again they prefer emptyheaded.. who knows really??
he just told me she has to be able to cook too... TYPICAL lol
Empty headed is fine with me but , if she can also cook that would be wonderful as she could certainly be of some use when I would get bored with her..
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Originally posted by sonomod:
But after two weeks, would it be fun to live with her day to day?No beauty with noting else wears thin.
You can always park her somewhere, make her a kid or two and marry another one..and so on..
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Originally posted by Mon_Savage:
So3ad Hosny
Had to look up the dream of possibly many Egyptian men.
Here we go:
http://dwc.hct.ac.ae/lrc/publications/arab%20women/Soad_Hosny.htm
Hey, I look somehow like her. Now she was only 1,57 m tall which is petite - that ain't me at all!
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Originally posted by primak:
You can always park her somewhere, make her a kid or two and marry another one..and so on..
Primak, you are so so so naughty!!!!!!!!
Now I have specific question. What about the blonde hair? Is it really a turn-on for Egy men? And it doesn't matter if its even fake? I know that you guys like women with long dark hair, fair skin, big or almondshaped eyes and some figure, correct?
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Originally posted by Tigerlily:
Primak, you are so so so naughty!!!!!!!!
Now I have specific question. What about the blonde hair? Is it really a turn-on for Egy men? And it doesn't matter if its even fake? I know that you guys like women with long dark hair, fair skin, big or almondshaped eyes and some figure, correct?[This message has been edited by Tigerlily (edited 22 July 2005).]
yes fo me,i like that discription,dark hair,white skin,big dark eyes,just the typical vampire discription
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Tigerlily:
[B]After reading here through one of the topics I ask myself the following question:How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man?
Here is my story. It was 1978 when presidents Sadat & Carter were meeting in Cairo for their peace talks. I was then 7 years old, but my parents have been telling me about politics. I was so in love with Sadat because he was bringing peace to the world. He was my hero that I would have loved to meet.
A representative of the presidential office came to our school to ask if they could get a boy & a girl to be flower bearers & would present them to the two presidents. They chose me because I was the best of the school, spoke fluent English and knew a lot for my age. I put my mother through hell to get me a little white dress for the occasion. I couldn't sleep the night before I was scheduled to go. The next day I went to school with my white dress on, went to the principal's room, and just as I was at the door, I saw a blonde girl with a white dress on, standing there with a self-assured smile, and I overheard two teachers talking to each other: "We'll take her, she's so beautiful, much nicer looking than the other dark girl".... They were shocked to see me there, but I managed to hold my tears.. until now..Gotta go & eat koshary
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honestly this story has made me so ANGRY.
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Originally posted by 7aya:
honestly this story has made me so ANGRY.
Yes exactly ,i'm sorry. Look, most of man like blond hair women.It's typical, but for me the more attracive women is with dark hair, eyes , and skin. This is women, not some blond one! In Poland u can see everywhere blond girls, everywhere! it's little boring. And u know what, we have in Poland even jokes abaut blond hairs girls, yes. Because the stereotyp of blond women is that they are little stupid. Maybe it's sounds strange, but it's europinian suggestion. But by the way, i don't have nothing to blonds, i like them!
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Originally posted by jasminka:
Yes exactly ,i'm sorry. Look, most of man like blond hair women.It's typical, but for me the more attracive women is with dark hair, eyes , and skin. This is women, not some blond one! In Poland u can see everywhere blond girls, everywhere! it's little boring. And u know what, we have in Poland even jokes abaut blond hairs girls, yes. Because the stereotyp of blond women is that they are little stupid. Maybe it's sounds strange, but it's europinian suggestion. But by the way, i don't have nothing to blonds, i like them!
that is not true in america
men here like both
we pretty much love all women equally
(generally)
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Originally posted by 1mangang:
that is not true in america
men here like both
we pretty much love all women equally
(generally)
That is a good thing about America. I think we've gotten away from *one* perfect female standard of beauty.
And perhaps we just find attractive what is more rare in our own society? When I was in Egypt, I thought the women with darker skin and darker hair were more attractive. When I saw Egyptian women on TV who had died their hair blonde (these were movies from 60s and 70s) they didn't look as attractive as I knew they could be.
I know the original question here was asking for male opinions, but I just have to say I think most people in general are attractive. Period. And makeup and stuff is cool for women if it *enhances* our natural looks, not *changes* them.
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Originally posted by Mon_Savage:
I would love to find someone like her even to look at her without anything else, but i think she was one of a kind.
Ya Mon savage.... You don't need to look for another woman.... you have one of the best in the world already at home... just thank God daily for this woman!!!
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
Speaking of her. I heard she died. I also heard it was suicide. Is this true?
Actually we believe that the egyptian intelligence who killed her
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Originally posted by primak:
A blend of Nadia Lotfy and Nabila Ebeid ( young ) for me , please.
It's HOT already here eek!
So for me... I have a good Egyptian man and I dont look like Barbie, and Im perfectly happy on both counts.
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What makes someone attractive is if they are kind, self confident and have a great sense of humor ...Looks are only skin deep, what matters is what is in someone's heart.
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Originally posted by crazylobo:
Looks are only skin deep, what matters is what is in someone's heart.
Sure we know that. But tell this to most guys.....
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Originally posted by catlover:
What does hawala mean? All I can find on Google is about 'money laundering' so I guess it doesn't mean that!
It's "halawa" and it refers to a paste made of sugar and lemon juice that is traditionally used in the Middle East to remove unwanted body hair.
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Originally posted by Dalia:
It's "halawa" and it refers to a paste made of sugar and lemon juice that is traditionally used in the Middle East to remove unwanted body hair.
I guess she means hawala, that's money transfer. I guess.
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Originally posted by Samia:
OK guys..... I'm blonde, long flowing hair, bakazz kabeera, long legs.. right up to my ass... Tiny waist.... big blue eyes....completely brainless and will say yes to anything....
My ideal guy.....Young, tall, handsome, good athletic body, rich, single, kind, generous,willing to spend the rest of his life and all of his money on me...if you fit this description....
YOU'RE DECIEVING YOURSELF AS MUCH AS I AM!!!!![This message has been edited by Samia (edited 23 July 2005).]
you are too picky
I have been reading this for a while, and i can give u only one advice, if you really want to know what Egyptian men wants, just have come down to Sharm for a weekend, and see the sad reality...its the Barbie stile...and they really have red nails and are coming in duo packs (guess its cheaper), fresh imported from mother Russia...god bless them!
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Originally posted by Fauwzeia:
To all of you,I have been reading this for a while, and i can give u only one advice, if you really want to know what Egyptian men wants, just have come down to Sharm for a weekend, and see the sad reality...its the Barbie stile...and they really have red nails and are coming in duo packs (guess its cheaper), fresh imported from mother Russia...god bless them!
ya3
10. Give big long emotional exhortations about how the rest of the world can see how bad things are for some people.
9. Tell him how much you love Egypt and always dreamed of going there.
8. Tell him that you always wanted to have a housefull of kids.
7. You are a new Muslim and you learned about Islam online in Yahoo Islam Chat.
6. You dont speak arabic yet but you are trying to learn.( Arabic 101 - Inshallah a) God Willing b)Whatever ( most frequent meaning))
5. Tell him all about the history you have of men using you and being left the victim.
4. Start downloading lots of arabic music and looking for hijabs and things in ebay so you can show him how "arabic" you are becoming. ( hello, if he wanted and egyptian woman he wouldnt be talking to you)
3. Change your belief system and really begin to consider throwing it all away for someone you never met.
2. Sit online and wait for him for hours, he will really appreciate it, and mail him lots of things too like shirts and nike shoes.
1. Be Female and from anywhere but the continent of Africa.
Best of Luck,
Fajr
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Originally posted by Tigerlily:
After reading here through one of the topics I ask myself the following question:How does a woman look the most attractive to an Egyptian man? Do Egyptian males are going all for the same type of woman? Or is it depending only on personal preferences?
Hm, I am eager awaiting your responses, especially from the Gentlemen.
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Originally posted by catlover:
No wonder I couldn't find it - I had spelt it wrong! Do egyptian women put that stuff on their bikini area? Do egyptian men expect to see no hair or like a brazilian or what (just curious!)or does it vary?
To our agony yes we use it on the bikini area, actually on the hole carpet
if you like. Yes Egyptian men want their women to have a Brazililian, while they can run around with their stinky pubic rainforests untroubled.
Don't worry, you get used to it. After about 500 uses the pain becomes bearable.
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
To our agony yes we use it on the bikini area, actually on the hole carpet
if you like. Yes Egyptian men want their women to have a Brazililian, while they can run around with their stinky pubic rainforests untroubled.
Don't worry, you get used to it. After about 500 uses the pain becomes bearable.
My, you just made me laugh sooooooo much, you have a wonderful sense of humor!
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Originally posted by Fajr:5. Tell him all about the history you have of men using you and being left the victim.
Best of Luck,
Fajr
Hi, Fajr, welcome to ES. Thanks for publishing the guidelines here of how to catch a great Egyptian guy.
But Point 5 I sincerely need to correct:
The best thing is not to mention anything about other men. Confess to maximal one relationship as a woman since you don't want to come around as "easy", so mention hardly experience with the male species.
Thats always the best way and don't forget deep inside every Egyptian man wants to have a "virgin" to make his wife.
And if you still are - thats even better!!!!
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Originally posted by catlover:
No wonder I couldn't find it - I had spelt it wrong! Do egyptian women put that stuff on their bikini area? Do egyptian men expect to see no hair or like a brazilian or what (just curious!)or does it vary?
Oh good God don't you know?
Hmm, okay why hasn't anyone bothered to explain this to her?
I mean honey, you every wonder why the men scratch down there so much? I mean it isn't just heat rash.
And from what I understand its required.
I still can't force myself to remove it all every 40 days. Oww.
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Originally posted by sonomod:
Oh boy, if I was in your position my first reaction would be to bite someone's shins.I'd go for that woman who rejected you because you are dark. Yup, I can hear her scream now!
:
We laughed about this all on a thread before and came to the conclusion that there was not a man alive that was man enough for this waxing as yes for sure they have to remove all hair in the pubic area as well. I think the men either shave or use creams to remove the hair.
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Originally posted by odiab84:
:
Elbet beida bieda bieda..elbet bieda wana a3mel eih??
which means 'the girls is white..white..white.......the girl is white and what can I do'
No comment
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Originally posted by sonomod:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by odiab84:
[b] :
[/B][/QUOTE]
It was supposed to be a sad face.....but something wrong had happened!!
Plz get me out of your head..thanx
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Originally posted by odiab84:
It was supposed to be a sad face.....but something wrong had happened!!Plz get me out of your head..thanx
oh the boyhood wonder needs a lesson in BBC code.
No now that you've made that remark I'll be thinking about all those stupid boys I used to beat up as a girl.
Oh fond memories of beating up boys. Yumm!
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Originally posted by sonomod:
oh the boyhood wonder needs a lesson in BBC code.No now that you've made that remark I'll be thinking about all those stupid boys I used to beat up as a girl.
Oh fond memories of beating up boys. Yumm!
Elsabr ya rab !!!!
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Originally posted by odiab84:
Elsabr ya rab !!!!
ma m7aba illa ba3d 3adawa, you should feel flattered
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Originally posted by Troubles101:
ma m7aba illa ba3d 3adawa, you should feel flattered
flattered?? loool.. if this is her way of falttering .. it really doesn't work with me
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Originally posted by odiab84:
flattered?? loool.. if this is her way of falttering .. it really doesn't work with me
Its not flaterry, I am a man hater. And remembering the blissful days when I could empty my agression out on a guy is a blissful memory. Has nothing to do with him. Sheesh!
WTF, are you that dense?
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Originally posted by sonomod:
Its not flaterry, I am a man hater. And remembering the blissful days when I could empty my agression out on a guy is a blissful memory. Has nothing to do with him. Sheesh!WTF, are you that dense?
Ofcourse I can see you are a man hater...It's very obvious...but me and Troubles were trying to turn it into a joke intead of turning it into a fight.
PEACE
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Originally posted by odiab84:
Ofcourse I can see you are a man hater...It's very obvious...but me and Troubles were trying to turn it into a joke intead of turning it into a fight.PEACE
yeah and sneaking in misri-arabi under a khawagaas nose isn't exactly peace keeping.
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Originally posted by odiab84:
flattered?? loool.. if this is her way of falttering .. it really doesn't work with me
Boss ya man, I had this friend who hated a girl and she hated him to death. They made jokes of each other and said all kind of bad words. Today they are married with young little boy.
Give it a chance, you never know what the future hides for you both
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Originally posted by sonomod:
yeah and sneaking in misri-arabi under a khawagaas nose isn't exactly peace keeping.
1-Elsabr ya rab = Oh god, give me patience
2-La ma7aba ela ba3d 3adawa = is an egypian proverb and it means "love always comes after hatred'
the second one is trouble's words not mine.
hope you feel better know
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Originally posted by Troubles101:
Boss ya man, I had this friend who hated a girl and she hated him to death. They made jokes of each other and said all kind of bad words. Today they are married with young little boy.Give it a chance, you never know what the future hides for you both
me and sonomod get married?? you're talking now about certain death. no troubles, I don't want to be murdered by my wife while I am sleeping . I really don't want to end my life that way. thanx for the try. waiting for sonomod's comment.
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Originally posted by odiab84:
me and sonomod get married?? you're talking now about certain death. no troubles, I don't want to be murdered by my wife while I am sleeping . I really don't want to end my life that way. thanx for the try. waiting for sonomod's comment.
Wallahy mish asde gawaz, enta 3ayez twadeny fe dahya wala eh! I would never suggest marriage but sometimes some hated relations turn different way, be that marriage or friendship or even adoption, only God knows.
But really, Sono is not that lethal, she talks much but look she didn't claw her husband..............until now
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Originally posted by odiab84:
1-Elsabr ya rab = Oh god, give me patience2-La ma7aba ela ba3d 3adawa = is an egypian proverb and it means "love always comes after hatred'
the second one is trouble's words not mine.
hope you feel better know
Hey don't do that again! how can we torture her now?
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Originally posted by Troubles101:
Hey don't do that again! how can we torture her now?
Hey troubles .. I always like to be transparent .. it's my nature .. plus..she could've asked anyone about the meaning .. khaleeha teegy meny a7san plus u r the one who talked about marriage and a little boy....how scary!!
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Originally posted by Troubles101:
But really, Sono is not that lethal, she talks much but look she didn't claw her husband..............until now
Now physical consequences are not effective on me neither him. I have found other ways of making him miserable, only after watching the effects of his efforts to make my life hell.
And diab is still a child, at least a decade younger than me. If I can't handle watching a man my age grow up, what makes it possible for me to endure the unnatural act of a boy diabs age facing the 'facts of life'?
I really don't have the patience anymore.
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Originally posted by Penny:
Chatting to my beautician the other day she told me she was going on an advanced waxing course. Naturally I asked what was advanced waxing, well it was to learn how to do Brazillian and Hollywood waxing as there is so much demand for it now. Poor girl has got to go with another friend so they can learn on each other. I understand the Brazillian does not removed everything but the Hollywood does.
Catlover if your man is a Muslim then it will be the Hollywood that you need.We laughed about this all on a thread before and came to the conclusion that there was not a man alive that was man enough for this waxing as yes for sure they have to remove all hair in the pubic area as well. I think the men either shave or use creams to remove the hair.
Oh do the men remove all theirs too?
Is this a religious thing removing all hair?
My man is a virgin and if all porn is 'western' how will he know what to expect and what will he know about women?
I read somewhere there's no sex education in Egypt - how does one raise the subject of 'the wrong time of the month' - is there a correct way to do it? How do Egyptians refer to it?
About Brazilian bikini wax removes everything from the belly button, all the way to the small of your back, and takes a couple hours.
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Originally posted by catlover:
Oh do the men remove all theirs too?
Is this a religious thing removing all hair?****Yes to both if he is Muslim, but for a man not the arms, legs, or chest hair ******
I read somewhere there's no sex education in Egypt - how does one raise the subject of 'the wrong time of the month' - is there a correct way to do it? How do Egyptians refer to it?
***** he will have learnt about this from his religion as he is not allowed to have sex when the woman is having her period, it is considered unclean******
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Originally posted by catlover:
Oh do the men remove all theirs too?
Is this a religious thing removing all hair?My man is a virgin and if all porn is 'western' how will he know what to expect and what will he know about women?
I read somewhere there's no sex education in Egypt - how does one raise the subject of 'the wrong time of the month' - is there a correct way to do it? How do Egyptians refer to it?
Hi catlover!
Just to add to what the others said, yes, it is a “religious thing” to remove hair. All Muslim women and men should cut their nails, remove the hair from their pubic region and under arm at least every forty days and man should also shave their moustaches (as growing a beard and moustache is a religious thing too).
It is also a religious thing to remain a virgin until after marriage, as it is also not to be alone in private or touch with any one of the opposite sex who you are not closely related to by blood or marriage. Muslim men are generally well aware about the menstrual cycle as they know that it is forbidden for them to have intercourse with their wives at that time and that Muslim women don’t pray then, so it is referred to as “being on holiday” i.e. from prayer, but many men would be shy to discuss the details due to cultural reasons. The men prepare themselves for marriage by asking other men a lot of questions and the rest happens by instinct, as it has done since the beginning of time. The human race managed to procreate long before western porn!
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Originally posted by Corvinous:
I like her roasted and crunchy..... no kidding
How would you know? Arent you still a virgin?
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Originally posted by sonomod:
How would you know? Arent you still a virgin?
Virgin ? did I say anything sexual at all ? and yes I am still a virgin, is that against some law or something or does it mean I don't have organs ? LOL
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Originally posted by sonomod:
How would you know? Arent you still a virgin?
I was speaking from my view as one of the most taste-refined cannibales in my home town...
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Originally posted by newcomer:
Hi catlover!Just to add to what the others said, yes, it is a “religious thing” to remove hair. All Muslim women and men should cut their nails, remove the hair from their pubic region and under arm at least every forty days and man should also shave their moustaches (as growing a beard and moustache is a religious thing too).
It is also a religious thing to remain a virgin until after marriage, as it is also not to be alone in private or touch with any one of the opposite sex who you are not closely related to by blood or marriage. Muslim men are generally well aware about the menstrual cycle as they know that it is forbidden for them to have intercourse with their wives at that time and that Muslim women don’t pray then, so it is referred to as “being on holiday” i.e. from prayer, but many men would be shy to discuss the details due to cultural reasons. The men prepare themselves for marriage by asking other men a lot of questions and the rest happens by instinct, as it has done since the beginning of time. The human race managed to procreate long before western porn!
no i don't think so. yes a woman should be hairless, but no one specified the pubic area except if you are going to do a umra or hajj. as for the men i never ever heard of anything that says that pubic hair should be removed.
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Originally posted by newcomer:
Assalamu alaykum 7aya,
I just checked out a couple of fatwa sites for you to let you see the ruling on this:
http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=browse&QR=2602&dgn=4 http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=browse&QR=5123&dgn=4 http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=browse&QR=451&dgn=4 http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite ?cid=1119503543336&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaEAskTheScholar
we alekum el salam newcomer, i got my information from a book called "al mufsil feeh a7kam el mr2a wa el beit el muslim." thanks for the websites
best
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Originally posted by 7aya:
no i don't think so. yes a woman should be hairless, but no one specified the pubic area except if you are going to do a umra or hajj. as for the men i never ever heard of anything that says that pubic hair should be removed.
OK ladies - I did it - what about the terrible zits that result? Do we have a magic and quick solution for those? My sister used to do this for a pervy boyfriend apparently - she says they go if you keep doing it.
God willing I don't get run over by a bus in the next couple of weeks.... I hope my mother never sees me like this
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Originally posted by catlover:
OK ladies - I did it - what about the terrible zits that result?
ROFL...
It's not fair that no one warned you in advance!
It helps to wipe the area with alcohol before & after use, then wash it quickly with running cold water.
Indeed, you have to do it several times before they cease to appear..
Sorry I was laughing..
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Originally posted by catlover:
OK ladies - I did it - what about the terrible zits that result? Do we have a magic and quick solution for those? My sister used to do this for a pervy boyfriend apparently - she says they go if you keep doing it.
God willing I don't get run over by a bus in the next couple of weeks.... I hope my mother never sees me like this
LOL LOL Welcome to the club catlover!! I know it is strange at first but I bet after a while you will never want to go back the other way.
It's a bit like the Egyptian toilets, you know the ones with the jet washes! once you get used to them you never want to use paper again. I am seriously thinking of trying to get my UK one's changed. So does anyone in the UK know where you can get one??
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Originally posted by Penny:
I am seriously thinking of trying to get my UK one's changed. So does anyone in the UK know where you can get one??
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Originally posted by Penny:
It's a bit like the Egyptian toilets, you know the ones with the jet washes! once you get used to them you never want to use paper again. I am seriously thinking of trying to get my UK one's changed. So does anyone in the UK know where you can get one??
My sister lives in California & managed to find herself an Egyptian plumber to do the "jet wash" for her.. "jet wash", sounds so chic haha!
In the UK there is something called the "muslim directory" it is availible in most mosques and islamic book shop.
Then check in the "classified" section, there are many companies that will install it for you.
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Originally posted by Penny:
I am seriously thinking of trying to get my UK one's changed. So does anyone in the UK know where you can get one??
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Originally posted by MyKingdomForATaba2Koshari:
My sister lives in California & managed to find herself an Egyptian plumber to do the "jet wash" for her.. "jet wash", sounds so chic haha!
i have to say that the subject of "jet washes" is becoming very dear to me, now that i'm moving to australia
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Originally posted by sonomod:
Now physical consequences are not effective on me neither him. I have found other ways of making him miserable, only after watching the effects of his efforts to make my life hell.And diab is still a child, at least a decade younger than me. If I can't handle watching a man my age grow up, what makes it possible for me to endure the unnatural act of a boy diabs age facing the 'facts of life'?
I really don't have the patience anymore.
from where did u know my age, and do u mean facts of life..or facts of marriage?? because I think that I've faced more facts in life than you did...but if you're talking about facts of marriage..then you win
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Originally posted by odiab84:
from where did u know my age, and do u mean facts of life..or facts of marriage?? because I think that I've faced more facts in life than you did...but if you're talking about facts of marriage..then you win
I know I have you beat hands down on 'facts of life' as well. I can guarantee it.
Adversity is something I understand will be there untill I reach a certain amount of professional and financial success.
I don't want to get into specifics but I know you haven't face the turmoil and difficulties that I have. Most of it when I was younger, born out of choices I didn't have the right to make.
So don't go there, I know you won't be able to match my list of denegrating circumstances, most people can't.
And most of it is humiliating and unusual.
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Originally posted by odiab84:
from where did u know my age, and do u mean facts of life..or facts of marriage?? because I think that I've faced more facts in life than you did...but if you're talking about facts of marriage..then you win
And what you don't understand is the adversity I endured was carefully sorted and arranged. Meant to keep the family's reputation intact while devouring mine. A permenant mark on you that everyone from your socail class can see and avoid like lepracy.
It takes a special kind of parent, community and arrogance to create such a tactic/crutch. Its meant to keep the others inline and continue the status quo.
Techniques so no one can take responsibility for and a senstive person with unique pinchent for 'right and wrong' will cave into. It takes talent to be a WASP, the kind of wicked evil tendancy to emaciate, crush and strangle whatever life is in a youth.
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Originally posted by odiab84:
from where did u know my age, and do u mean facts of life..or facts of marriage?? because I think that I've faced more facts in life than you did...but if you're talking about facts of marriage..then you win
And besides you are a student in Cairo, meaning you are younger than 24. And no student in Egypt is allowed to work, let alone live in a place of their own.
Survival skills, how many people in Cairo who are your age, a college student, with daily access to a computer really knows what struggle means?
I am not so naive in this respect. I have read sociological/anthropological reports on the current state of poverty in Cairo. And you have never experienced it.
Probably never will.
But in your eyes, like many other young men in Egypt, a westerner like myself has to have every advantage and opportunity that you yourself would not.
I can't tell you how wrong you are in your fatalism.
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Originally posted by sorsor:
mabdaeian el ragel ele yeoul awel 7agah telfeit entebaheih fee el bent sha7'seietha kazzzzab , the first thing that attracts any man is the shape
2nd thing is her personality 3ashan lw kan shaklaha 7elw we sha7'seietha we7shah de mosebah soudah
3rd thing lazem tekoun lazeeza we damaha 7'afeif aslaha lw 7elwah we sha7'seitha 7elwa bas damaha te2eil 7attege la7zah el ragel 7aiekraha
4th lazeem tekoun motagadedah y3ne mosh toul 7aiatha be nafs el style we el shakl lazeem koll fatrah t3'air fee lebsaha , loun sha3raha , alwan el makeup ,,,,etc she has to be creative.
she has to be so smart 3ashan lw fakar yel3ab be daeilouh tel7aouh .
she has to be flexible el seit el 3aneidah moshkelah 7ate7'reb betha we 7aiatha
wow all that...well he maybe likes that women..BUT she may reject him..muahahaha
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And no student in Egypt is allowed to work, let alone live in a place of their own.[This message has been edited by sonomod (edited 21 August 2005).]
who said that? actually the majority of students in egypt can't afford to get through university withouth working at least part time. further, many come from other governorate and so rent or share apartments with other students.