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Posted by Isis84 (Member # 14716) on :
 
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]
 
Posted by lovingmylife (Member # 13695) on :
 
What's easier? [Smile]
 
Posted by didi_elsayed (Member # 4763) on :
 
LoL Isis you make me to laugh.Btw wellcome to ES,glad to see one cheerful lady around!:DI wanted to answer the posts last night to wellcome you but i was just too sleepy.
So..on your Dilemma...trust me honey you are not the only one with this problem,loll [Big Grin]
I would go on a diet..and sure if its possible for him..he could buy to you some more diamonds,lol
 
Posted by Almaz. (Member # 14025) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]

both [Wink]
 
Posted by Isis84 (Member # 14716) on :
 
Mashi, I will negotiate the number of small diamonds for the number of kilos I lose [Smile]

The only problem is - I actually like Egyptian sweets much more than diamonds ... [Smile] They taste much much better and they last too (sometimes forever) - you can feel them all over your body [Smile]
 
Posted by Almaz. (Member # 14025) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Mashi, I will negotiate the number of small diamonds for the number of kilos I lose [Smile]

The only problem is - I actually like Egyptian sweets much more than diamonds ... [Smile] They taste much much better and they last too (sometimes forever) - you can feel them all over your body [Smile]

So what are your favorite Egyptian sweets?

Baklawa
Konafa
Konafa with Eshta - hot from the oven
Konafa with Pistashios ( fosdo2)
Bassboossa
Om Ali
Bala7 el Sham
Mehalabeya
Roz Bel laban
Lookoom - Malban

Feel free to add some [Wink]
 
Posted by Isis84 (Member # 14716) on :
 
All of the above, but I like bassboossa and Om Ali the most [Smile]

Sahlab is grat to in this cold weather here [Smile]
 
Posted by Exiled (Member # 14410) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]

I will be upfront with you and share with you how some men think. Before I continue – I just hope that I won’t be bashed for what I type because food and women is a very sensitive issue. If you are getting out of the weight range and frame size that your husband first saw you, then you need to cut down on the sweets.

Some Egyptian men could care less one bit and this should be reassuring to you. Some do and if you are demanding in what his appearance, then consider his feelings also. I have a personal question for you – do you discuss this matter with your husband?

Most if not all aspects of marriage are based on mutuality. If it is not a problem then why burden yourself and if it is then talk about it with him?

Ask him what he thinks. I know some women will be like: well who cares what the man thinks and it is the women's right to eat sweets or not. Hey all i am saying is when husbands and wives first meet - then that should be the standard to remain in.
 
Posted by tina kamal (Member # 13845) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Exiled:
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]

I will be upfront with you and share with you how some men think. Before I continue – I just hope that I won’t be bashed for what I type because food and women is a very sensitive issue. If you are getting out of the weight range and frame size that your husband first saw you, then you need to cut down on the sweets.

Some Egyptian men could care less one bit and this should be reassuring to you. Some do and if you are demanding in what his appearance, then consider his feelings also. I have a personal question for you – do you discuss this matter with your husband?

Most if not all aspects of marriage are based on mutuality. If it is not a problem then why burden yourself and if it is then talk about it with him?

Ask him what he thinks. I know some women will be like: well who cares what the man thinks and it is the women's right to eat sweets or not. Hey all i am saying is when husbands and wives first meet - then that should be the standard to remain in.

thats funny i wish men could get pregant
cas there are alot of issues with this weight thing!!
if a man loves the women no matter what if she gets fat then why should he change?
u dont see alot of women leavin the men cas they get older and fat!!its mostly men!
now if they got togeather and he said hey if u ever get fat im gone then its her choice to remain in that situation!
walid doesnt care that im fat!!
cas hes fat too!
lol
i love him just the way he is!!!!!

oooooooo and i aint bashing u for yr reply!!!
no need for bashing cas everyone has thier own thoughts!!!
 
Posted by Isis84 (Member # 14716) on :
 
Oh, it's not a serious problem, it's been just 2 kilo in last 3 months [Smile]

And he says he loves all of me [Smile]
 
Posted by MICKY A (Member # 11209) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Exiled:
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]

I will be upfront with you and share with you how some men think. Before I continue – I just hope that I won’t be bashed for what I type because food and women is a very sensitive issue. If you are getting out of the weight range and frame size that your husband first saw you, then you need to cut down on the sweets.

Some Egyptian men could care less one bit and this should be reassuring to you. Some do and if you are demanding in what his appearance, then consider his feelings also. I have a personal question for you – do you discuss this matter with your husband?

Most if not all aspects of marriage are based on mutuality. If it is not a problem then why burden yourself and if it is then talk about it with him?

Ask him what he thinks. I know some women will be like: well who cares what the man thinks and it is the women's right to eat sweets or not. Hey all i am saying is when husbands and wives first meet - then that should be the standard to remain in.

i agree [Wink]
 
Posted by Exiled (Member # 14410) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by tina kamal:
quote:
Originally posted by Exiled:
quote:
Originally posted by Isis84:
Not really an intellectual one - but I seem to like Egyptian food a lot, especially sweets [Smile] and my wedding ring is getting tight on my finger ... So the question is: should I go on a diet or ask my husband to buy me some more diamonds? [Big Grin]

I will be upfront with you and share with you how some men think. Before I continue – I just hope that I won’t be bashed for what I type because food and women is a very sensitive issue. If you are getting out of the weight range and frame size that your husband first saw you, then you need to cut down on the sweets.

Some Egyptian men could care less one bit and this should be reassuring to you. Some do and if you are demanding in what his appearance, then consider his feelings also. I have a personal question for you – do you discuss this matter with your husband?

Most if not all aspects of marriage are based on mutuality. If it is not a problem then why burden yourself and if it is then talk about it with him?

Ask him what he thinks. I know some women will be like: well who cares what the man thinks and it is the women's right to eat sweets or not. Hey all i am saying is when husbands and wives first meet - then that should be the standard to remain in.

thats funny i wish men could get pregant
cas there are alot of issues with this weight thing!!
if a man loves the women no matter what if she gets fat then why should he change?
u dont see alot of women leavin the men cas they get older and fat!!its mostly men!
now if they got togeather and he said hey if u ever get fat im gone then its her choice to remain in that situation!
walid doesnt care that im fat!!
cas hes fat too!
lol
i love him just the way he is!!!!!

oooooooo and i aint bashing u for yr reply!!!
no need for bashing cas everyone has thier own thoughts!!!

Tina you are officially funny. [Smile]

And you are absolutely right, I completely dismissed the weight gain attributed to pregnancy. This is actually problematic if say X amount of weight remains and is compounded with each additional child.
 
Posted by Reality_Meanie (Member # 14540) on :
 
What's whack is when I lost about 15lbs in our 3rd year of marriage (just busy, and was out of the house alot) he asked me if I was "unhappy". As if lossing weight meant I was unhappy.

Yet is a sign that a man is happily married when he gains a hefty about of weight. Hence our marriage was a success in certian ways [Roll Eyes] :eyerolling: .
 
Posted by Habeeby (Member # 14429) on :
 
RM you speak the truth.... But Egyptian men confuse me so much, they insist on feeding you... Then if you gain weight other than pregnancy they are not happy... and if you lose weight they are not happy... I have lost so much weight, i am down to 43kilos and my Habeeby says exactly that - are you unhappy? No i am just busy... [Confused]
 
Posted by bokragirl (Member # 14684) on :
 
whatever you are comfortable with! can you get your ring sized?
 


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