12 yrs ago i was married to a mexican juan well he abused me and my kids siverly so after 2 yrs i left and hated him for manu many yrs! well juan has been in mexico for a few months visiting his family i am still good friends with his brother and this mornin he woke me up at 8 am he said juan is dead. well it appears that sat juan and his 2 brothers were in the plaza eatting and listining to his stero in his truck. well a man the knew asked him to move his truck be juan said he couldnt cas the battery was dead. then they guy and juan exchanged words and that guy took out a gun and shot juan in the stomach. that was sat he fell into acoma he died monday! my problem i dont feel sad or nothin towards him i dont know if its cas the way he treated us! i dont hate him no more i just dont wanna shed no more tears for him! i feel like im heartless cas i feel i do not care at all!!
Posted by Vader (Member # 14189) on :
lol
Posted by walkingathinline (Member # 11504) on :
hey Tina... Karma is usually right on target... save yourself the trouble and just know that the universe is working just fine!
you aren't heartless, but you stopped having feelings - any feelings - for this person...so why would you care? right?
take care, OM!
Posted by doodlebug (Member # 11649) on :
I'm very sorry.
I'm trying to be politically correct here but.................................I have to know.....does this mean you don't owe back child support anymore?
Posted by tina kamal (Member # 13845) on :
no he wasnt the father of my kids just an ex i dont wanna feel heartless but dang i just got off the phone with his family in mexico and they are all sad and i cant feel the same way!!! i feel sorry for his 6 kids but not for him!
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
Oh, tina, so you were only married to him 2 years and not 12 - in your other post I must have misunderstood.
I think things must have been very difficult between the both of you - you don't have to get into details to explain - that you feel nothing about his death. Oh well maybe it will come a little later.
There must be a lot of crime in Mexico I hear this a lot. He left six kids and a wife behind? That's very very sad.... Posted by With a name like Smuckers (Member # 10289) on :
Did something bad happen? I couldn't get past the first 4 lines of that thread. It's so difficult to read your posts Tina. Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
tina its normal how you feel. If I ever hear the bastard that abused me is dead I would dance on his grave! No way would I feel sad, I would be thinking 'now YOU get your rewards for what you did you complete arse' Posted by Glennie (Member # 14823) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ayisha: tina its normal how you feel. If I ever hear the bastard that abused me is dead I would dance on his grave! No way would I feel sad, I would be thinking 'now YOU get your rewards for what you did you complete arse'
Believe me he get a complete whipping of that arse ""that sounds so posh "arse" golly gee whizz ,in private would poke his hole until he had not one then im squirm his doodahs until they were not for riding and grinding .Then ?? im lost memory Posted by tina kamal (Member # 13845) on :
well abuse in the norm in mexican relationships i guess.thats y i had left him to protect my kids and myself.no women should have to be abused much less her kids!!! anyway hes dead and when his brother came over i wanted to say so what its his own fault.but me and his brother are good friends so i dont dare say it.i just console him.my son hates him so he was happy that he got killed. noone should be happy for anyones death no matter how bad they were.im not happy he is dead i just aint sad too!!
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
quote:Originally posted by tina kamal: noone should be happy for anyones death no matter how bad they were.im not happy he is dead i just aint sad too!!
That's just fair, tina.
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
quote:Originally posted by Glennie: Believe me he get a complete whipping of that arse ""that sounds so posh "arse" golly gee whizz
you wouldnt say it sounded posh if you heard me say it Its because im English I say arse, an American would say 'ass' Posted by Lumos (Member # 14589) on :
I've heard that Ayisha says 'Hice' instead of 'House' and that the royal family have had elocution lessons from her. Just a rumour, mind... but some things on ES are actually true. Posted by happybunny (Member # 14224) on :
^^ i agree Lumos
Ayisha is way posh by UK standards didn't you say you came from Chelsea Ayisha?
Good Gosh Jolly Hockey Sticks Ayisha Posted by Shareen (Member # 989) on :
Ayisha?? Posh?? She dont talk proper like what I do! And that plum in her mouth is actually a nabac fruit. She loves them!
Posted by Glennie (Member # 14823) on :
quote:Originally posted by Ayisha:
quote:Originally posted by Glennie: Believe me he get a complete whipping of that arse ""that sounds so posh "arse" golly gee whizz
you wouldnt say it sounded posh if you heard me say it Its because im English I say arse, an American would say 'ass'
Oh is it not so pants i say jolly ole chappie Posted by Lumos (Member # 14589) on :
quote:Originally posted by Shareen: Ayisha?? Posh?? She dont talk proper like what I do! And that plum in her mouth is actually a nabac fruit. She loves them!
What is a nabac fruit?
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
nabac fruit is a disgusting little thing like a small apple from the nabac tree............Which SHAREEN had to have the leaves from and soak them and wash in the water I HATE them, they taste like rotten fermenting yuk!
Not Chelsea HB, Nottingham...........or with my accent 'Nottinum'
Shareen however is from Mansfield so much posher than I am
Joke: How do you know when a girl from Mansfield has an orgasm??
Answer: she drops her chips
For Americans chips = French Fries Posted by Yowza (Member # 14400) on :
hehehe
Posted by Shareen (Member # 989) on :
I thought you said they tasted wonderful Ayisha!! The girls got you a big bag full ready for when you next come to the shop!! They are safely in the fridge ready for you..... no escape!
Did you find my chips in that jennel when you were cleaning up last night? I could have done with them tonight, someone made me miss dinner!
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
quote:Originally posted by Shareen: I thought you said they tasted wonderful Ayisha!! The girls got you a big bag full ready for when you next come to the shop!! They are safely in the fridge ready for you..... no escape!
Did you find my chips in that jennel when you were cleaning up last night? I could have done with them tonight, someone made me miss dinner!
whats a 'jennel'? is that a posh word for something?
someone dragged me out of my cosiness last night to look at sofas Posted by newcomer (Member # 1056) on :
gennel = small alleyway Posted by DawnBev08 (Member # 14964) on :
thats a ' ginnel' up here in yorkshire, where we have our own weird style of english!
Posted by newcomer (Member # 1056) on :
I've obviously been away too long and got unused to spelling yorkshireisms...you're right DawnBev08 Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
aahhh thats an 'entry' where I come from Posted by manx (Member # 14517) on :
backalley where i come from Posted by young at heart (Member # 10365) on :
vennel up here!
Posted by VanillaBullshit (Member # 10873) on :
You nasty people, stuffing your jennels with chips.
Posted by DawnBev08 (Member # 14964) on :
eeeh, by 'eck, I'll go t'top o'r stairs!!!!
Posted by Shareen (Member # 989) on :
DawnBev Is that before or after tha's gon t' back o' beyond?
Posted by manx (Member # 14517) on :
eeh ba gum dus ya belly touch ya bum ! lmao Posted by Glennie (Member # 14823) on :
quote:Originally posted by manx: eeh ba gum dus ya belly touch ya bum ! lmao
Gruds or Grots Posted by manx (Member # 14517) on :
lmao both i would say Posted by of_gold (Member # 13418) on :
OK, now I need advice. How do you politely make a man leave?
I just bought health insurance and the guy enjoyed selling it to me so much that he had to pay another visit. He didn't want to leave the first time and this time he stayed till I finally had to say I have to put my son to bed. Then I stand up and shoo him out the door. He then tells me, I'll call you.
You know I feel like a porcupine who rolls into a ball and puts up the thorns and they still don't get it. In my mind I am saying "please leave, please leave". Why don't they sense it? He is gone now and I still feel uptight.
Posted by ????? (Member # 12336) on :
By keeping the conversation businesslike! There must not be that much to talk about by getting a health insurances, as soon as he looses the subject in his conversation; turn back to the subject! Keep the subjects to discuss to the main subject: the insurance. Don't talk chait-chat or private stuff. Start with the message you have limited time. It will be no fun for him, and he will understand the message: he is only in contact with you because of that insurance...
Posted by of_gold (Member # 13418) on :
I thought I did that.
I have to admit we did veer off into talking about politics and holistic medicine a little, which is kinda related to health insurance but I was pretty matter of fact, not flirty.
Posted by Lumos (Member # 14589) on :
quote:Originally posted by Shareen: I thought you said they tasted wonderful Ayisha!! The girls got you a big bag full ready for when you next come to the shop!! They are safely in the fridge ready for you..... no escape!
Did you find my chips in that jennel when you were cleaning up last night? I could have done with them tonight, someone made me miss dinner!
This made me laugh... and I learned what a jennel is too!
Posted by of_gold (Member # 13418) on :
What is jennel? Do tell.
Posted by Lumos (Member # 14589) on :
It appears to mean alley, Of_Gold. Bloody foreigners. Posted by happybunny (Member # 14224) on :
Did you get rid of your insurance man Of_Gold? Posted by of_gold (Member # 13418) on :
Haven't heard from him so far, HB, but its only been two days.
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