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Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
dears i'm seeking for a creative and special lady to be my princess
i'm 29 years old working as an engineer
more details comming soon [Smile]
i know it may be a stupid way to find my soul mate but do u have other way !!
specially i'm seeking a special and diffrent one
only beauties are welcome [Wink]
 
Posted by Kalila : ) (Member # 14517) on :
 
Rofl good luck with that [Wink]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
“Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart”

~ Kahlil Gibran
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
My grandfather thinks my grandmother is a really special beauty. And for sure she will be different! But I guess that's not what you're looking for... [Razz]
 
Posted by current (Member # 15059) on :
 
You know something. Looking for a beautiful woman/man is quite normal. The fact is most of us are attracted to a high degree of beauty. That is specially true with people we don't personally know.

The reality though is that we are attracted to people we know and like and find beauty in them that often others don't see. But we will alway be attracted to beauty or that which we are told is beautiful.
 
Posted by stayingput (Member # 14989) on :
 
It's interesting that "beutiful" seems to be the only criteria the men in my husband's family find important (right after virginity, of course). So much so that whether or not the bride is beautiful is THE topic of discussion long after the party and it's always the men's mothers who defend the "not beautiful" girls' other virtues.

I've seen the "beautiful" ones pork right out, immediately after they get hitched and certainly after they get pregnant. Then they stay that way.

Not that weight is a measure of beauty, but she certainly doesn't always stay exactly the same as he married her for too long afterwards.

But then that speaks to the Egyptian obsession with the superficial, doesn't it?
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
I think 'beautiful' or 'handsome' has another meaning in Egypt, or maybe more meanings, or maybe men look at this different.
I don't exactly know what their meaning is,but it took my attention that the men use the word a lot, and in situations where being handsome is no subject to me. For instance, by every new person to meet, they standard question is: Do you think he or she is beautiful?
The causin, the waiter or waitress, the friend or friends from the childre, I mean, the waitress is bringing me my coffee, so to me it's not important to even think about the fact that she is beautiful or not. Relatives are relatives, so also there beauty is not a sub ject.(Unless somebody is really beautifull so that everyone would remark that)
Most of the time I do not care if a teacher, a policeman, a shopowner is beautiful, so why asking?
But again, maybe in Egypt they have other criteria...
 
Posted by current (Member # 15059) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by stayingput:


But then that speaks to the Egyptian obsession with the superficial, doesn't it?

Human beings obsession with the superficial.
 
Posted by malak (Member # 3654) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
dears i'm seeking for a creative and special lady to be my princess
i'm 29 years old working as an engineer
more details comming soon [Smile]
i know it may be a stupid way to find my soul mate but do u have other way !!
specially i'm seeking a special and diffrent one
only beauties are welcome [Wink]

That will be me your looking for then! LOL
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
thanks all for all your comments
but i really wonder what superficial u r talking about !!
also why u leave the main topic and talk about beauty only !!
i start it saying seeking a creative & special
and i just mention beuaties at the end
simply every lady see her self the most beauty
in the universe and if it didnt see that i dont need her because she will not act as a princess

also i will have one lady in my life
so i think it needs to invest my time in searching ,she really desrve that
 
Posted by ExptinCAI (Member # 1439) on :
 
ladies, no worries. i'm sure he'll tell you all you're a beauty and his special brincess, regardless of what your pictures look like.
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

i start it saying seeking a creative & special

Why does she have to be creative? And what is your definition of creativity? [Confused]

I am a creative person, and if I was searching for a man through personals, I definitely wouldn't go for an engineer. [Wink]


quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

in the universe and if it didnt see that i dont need her because she will not act as a princess

How does one act like a "princess"?
 
Posted by The Ministry of Common Sense (Member # 15597) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by stayingput:

But then that speaks to the Egyptian obsession with the superficial, doesn't it?

Exactly - obsession with superficial. Like this:

Email from an Egyptian guy
 
Posted by tina kamal (Member # 13845) on :
 
beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. i see walid is the sexiest man i have ever seen and to my friends he is a fat nasty man..but when i look that their men i see what they must see when they look at walid. so i guess it depends on how we all view someone as beautiful or handsome... good luck in yr searc.. if yr looking for a trophy wife / princess u will probably not find her and if u do she may be superficial. and u would get hurt and screwed around on. be careful in yr choice and choose wisly for u must marry her and be happy.. not everyone will make u happy...........
 
Posted by The Ministry of Common Sense (Member # 15597) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
[QUOTE]How does one act like a "princess"?

[Big Grin]
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
Who wants to be married to a princess? She is definitely high maintenance
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
Who wants to be married to a princess? She is definitely high maintenance

Exactly.
For me the word "princess" has rather negative connotations.
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
dears i'm seeking for a creative and special lady

Well then what you mean by *creative*?? Creative in what - bringing ever changing food on the dining table?? [Big Grin] [Wink]
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
Who wants to be married to a princess? She is definitely high maintenance

In the most fairy tales, princesses like to get married. Mostly they marry a prince or a heroe.
I don't believe there are any princes visiting this board, he isn't as rich either, so at least this man must be a heroe.
In fact he is, regarding the courage to place his unusual proposal on a board like this.
I only hope he once will have that same courage to show his princess to us... [Wink]
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
ExptinCAI
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
ladies, no worries. i'm sure he'll tell you all you're a beauty and his special brincess, regardless of what your pictures look like
-----------------
!! why !! i dont need i;m not going to dating them [Smile]

i still wonder why u all have the negative look

princess:
is the lady that knows well how to talk and how to smile ,when to crazy and when to act wisley
appreciate well her man ,knows how to wear ,when to laugh ,how to dress ,caring about her self ,hair cut ,....etc


creative :
to be diffrent as i rarely see a diffrent between ladies in egypt there is alot of creatives sure i know but ratio is 1 :1000
other do the same activites every day
the marriage cermony are the same ,even the songs are the same [Smile]

Tiger Lily said
Creative in what - bringing ever changing food on the dining table??

why not !!!!

i'm a creative person that like to do diffrent things and hate the routine so i need someone like me

for example u can egyptian ladies did u went to a chineese resturant before
i doupt that any one answer yes
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
princess:
is the lady that knows well how to talk and how to smile ,when to crazy and when to act wisley
appreciate well her man ,knows how to wear ,when to laugh ,how to dress ,caring about her self ,hair cut ,....etc

Not sure what this has to do with being a princess, but I'm wondering
~ how exactly should she dress, talk and smile?
~ what do you mean by "appreciating well her man"?
~ what do you mean by "caring about herself, haircut etc."?
~ how does a person "act wisely"?


[Confused]

quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
for example u can egyptian ladies did u went to a chineese resturant before

I'm not Egyptian, but I do know Egyptian ladies who go to Chinese restaurants. And Indian, Italian, French, Thai restaurants as well, for that matter.
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
hello Dalia
answering your questions needs a book
may be because u r not an egyptian u dont understand me

but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?

regarding the resturants
do these ladies here in Egypt or ??
i know there is but asi said ..rare [Smile]
by the way i were just giving an example
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
answering your questions needs a book

I don't think so. It just needs a few paragraphs of text. If you are seriously looking for a mate, it should be worth the effort to clarify your ideas a bit, no?


quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

may be because u r not an egyptian u dont understand me

Possible. But from what you write here you sound just like millions of other Egyptian guys, looking for a pretty, well-made up girl who cooks their dinners and is nice and entertaining.
So I'm wondering why you think you are being so special and creative.


quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?

No. Why?


quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
regarding the resturants
do these ladies here in Egypt or ??

Yes, in Egypt.
 
Posted by Tibe still working (Member # 16647) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:


but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?


You think she looks like that everyday??? No nono women smells out of the mouth like **** in the mornings, we have off days where we give a crap about hairy armpits/legs, we get moody because of hormons, days where we just wanna wear our old jeans and eat popcorn in front of the tv ect ect. If you lower your requirements a bit down a human level and just look for a sweet, loving, pretty in your eyes girl - then im sure she will turn up insted of runing screaming away.

PS.: Do you look like David Beckham every day, are well spoken and behaved, pleases a woman with what she wants when she wants it????
You have to be perfect to get a girl that perfect. [Smile]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?

Plot summary for First Knight (1995):

" Lancelot lives by the sword. In fact, they're next door neighbours, so teaming up to fight for money comes pretty naturally. Lady Guinevere, on her way to marry King Arthur is ambushed by the evil Sir Malagant. Fortunately Lancelot is lurking nearby and he rescues his future queen. They fall in love, but Guinevere still fancies the idea of wearing a crown, so she honours her promise to Arthur. Can Lady Guinevere remain faithful, or will this Pretty Woman become a lady of the knight ?"


Mromono, stop watching fairtales and stop being so hopelessly romantic or you will completely lose touch with reality. [Big Grin]

Btw, Julia Ormond is already 44 so perhaps you wouldn't mind an 'older' princess?? [Wink]
 
Posted by The Ministry of Common Sense (Member # 15597) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Tigerlily:
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?

Plot summary for First Knight (1995):

" Lancelot lives by the sword. In fact, they're next door neighbours, so teaming up to fight for money comes pretty naturally. Lady Guinevere, on her way to marry King Arthur is ambushed by the evil Sir Malagant. Fortunately Lancelot is lurking nearby and he rescues his future queen. They fall in love, but Guinevere still fancies the idea of wearing a crown, so she honours her promise to Arthur. Can Lady Guinevere remain faithful, or will this Pretty Woman become a lady of the knight ?"


Mromono, stop watching fairtales and stop being so hopelessly romantic or you will completely lose touch with reality. [Big Grin]

Btw, Julia Ormond is already 44 so perhaps you wouldn't mind an 'older' princess?? [Wink]

If Julia Ormond is too old, maybe he would prefer Shirley Temple:

The Little Princess
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
The OP prolly doesn't shave for days, brush his teeth or wear deodorant. But he wants "beauties" only. Pffff.

You can have Becks, give me Robert Downey Jr. [Smile]

quote:
Originally posted by Tibe still working:
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:


but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?


You think she looks like that everyday??? No nono women smells out of the mouth like **** in the mornings, we have off days where we give a crap about hairy armpits/legs, we get moody because of hormons, days where we just wanna wear our old jeans and eat popcorn in front of the tv ect ect. If you lower your requirements a bit down a human level and just look for a sweet, loving, pretty in your eyes girl - then im sure she will turn up insted of runing screaming away.

PS.: Do you look like David Beckham every day, are well spoken and behaved, pleases a woman with what she wants when she wants it????
You have to be perfect to get a girl that perfect. [Smile]


 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
is Elegantly Wasted Sono?


oh and in that film The First Knight Julia Ormond cheats on her husband. I guess he is looking for that kind of princess...
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
Seriously?? Woman I consider that an insult.
 
Posted by Makbeta (Member # 14401) on :
 
MotherWar, I guess? [Wink]

quote:
Originally posted by Tibe still working:
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:


but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?


You think she looks like that everyday??? No nono women smells out of the mouth like **** in the mornings, we have off days where we give a crap about hairy armpits/legs, we get moody because of hormons, days where we just wanna wear our old jeans and eat popcorn in front of the tv ect ect. If you lower your requirements a bit down a human level and just look for a sweet, loving, pretty in your eyes girl - then im sure she will turn up insted of runing screaming away.

PS.: Do you look like David Beckham every day, are well spoken and behaved, pleases a woman with what she wants when she wants it????
You have to be perfect to get a girl that perfect. [Smile]

Oh, I liked that, btw. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
oops sorry, just the thought of Robert Downey Jr seems very Sono like...
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:

give me Robert Downey Jr. [Smile]


Ahhh watched him just last night in *Kiss Kiss Bang Bang*!! [Smile]

Well then I'd like to order John Cusack for myself. And Ralph Fiennes. Ah what the heck.... send them both over to me!! [Big Grin]
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
Give me Ralph Fiennes in the English Patient....MMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
[Wink]

quote:
Originally posted by Makbeta:
MotherWar, I guess? [Wink]


 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
Give me Ralph Fiennes in the English Patient....MMMMMmmmmmmmmmmm

OFF, girl! [Mad] He's mine! And I am his Katharine!! [Mad] [Mad]
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
i really wonder why u deal with me like i 'm a stubid one , may be i were mistaken because i were not clear enough or i imagine that u should understant me
any way
--
Dalia
i will try as u said
....
Not sure what this has to do with being a princess, but I'm wondering
~ how exactly should she dress, talk and smile?
i mean dress in agood way ,simple ,matched colors , i think you should meet someone that u always like her way in dressing style, colors..etc , thats what i mean


~ what do you mean by "appreciating well her man"?

care about him see him the best in the world other wise she is stubid to join him [Smile]

~ what do you mean by "caring about herself, haircut etc."?

caring about her body,weight ,haircut
simply be a real lady

~ how does a person "act wisely"?

knows well how to do ,when and how ,smart ,..etc

-#So I'm wondering why you think you are being so special and creative
because i'm [Wink]
and most around me see that
note : may be i'm special in a bad way ,it depends special in what


#but did u see Julia ormond on first knight ?
No. Why?
this mean u didnt see a princess before [Smile]

u can see her here
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zO1_r6slUlk


##Tigerlily said
Btw, Julia Ormond is already 44 so perhaps you wouldn't mind an 'older' princess??

yes, becaue i care about mentality
there are alot of girls in 18teens acting as 60 grandma


##Tibe still working
u r totaly right ,but why we are talking about exceptions !!!
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
Why did I giggle when I read "stubid" twice? [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
[Big Grin]

Sorry Moromomo, we're just talking crab. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by The Ministry of Common Sense (Member # 15597) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
Why did I giggle when I read "stubid" twice? [Big Grin]

I giggled when I read she should dress in matching colors.
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

i mean dress in agood way ,simple ,matched colors

i think you should meet someone that u always like her way in dressing style, colors..etc , thats what i mean

caring about her body,weight ,haircut

simply be a real lady


Maybe I'm stubid but I still fail to see what should be so special and creative about those things.

Egyptian girls care about their apperance more than girls from many other countries I've been to. When I take the Cairo Metro I always find it fascinating to watch the women and girls in there. They seem to spend an amazing amount of time and effort on their outfit, makeup etc. Everything has to be the latest fashion and perfectly matched and color-coordinated, from hijab to shoes. Egyptian women who can afford it are constantly running to the hairdresser, getting manicures, pedicures etc. And few Arab women wouldn't even take a walk to the grocer's down the road without full makeup and dress.
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
ok Dalia i know
but as i told you before you can find them similar not diffrent happits or hoppies
rarley to find someone special

also i dont mind to have Egyptian princess

the most awesome princess i ever saw in my life was Egyptian

i really would prefer her over Julia Ormond
but C'est la vie
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
"happits or hoppies"

bahahahaha...I almost choked on watermelon.

Neon colored dresses with matching neon hijabs, shoes, handbags and eyeshadow are not high fashion. It's tacky. Egyptian and subtle are polar opposites.
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

i know it may be a stupid way to find my soul mate

Thankfully you realized that all the way in the beginning. You won't find your princess on this forum but malesh.... c'est la vie. Good luck though in searching for the one and only!!
 
Posted by stayingput (Member # 14989) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:
It's tacky. Egyptian and subtle are polar opposites.

Yep.
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

this mean u didnt see a princess before [Smile]

Oh, I loved the story of Turandot as a child. You know -- the princess from 1001 Nights who had most of her suitors decapitated.
[Big Grin]


My five year old niece and most of the little girls I know love this princess very much, she's quite popular.
 
Posted by SherryBlueBerry (Member # 13867) on :
 
stubid, hoppies, happits....what are these things??? Is that similiar to sleebing,,,beeing...beobles....?

[Big Grin]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Seems all you people can offer is making fun of the poster, he's an Egyptian who cannot master the english language, which isn't a crime IMHO..let's see how you can spell arabic correctly in its own alphabet, now THAT would be fun. [Roll Eyes] [Big Grin] [Big Grin]
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
yes we are being biatchy princesses.But we are always in matching colors so who cares?
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
yes we are being biatchy princesses.But we are always in matching colors so who cares?

No one cares, as long as you're not for real, since anything could be sitting on the keyboard tapping away, even my dog. [Razz]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
let's see how you can spell arabic correctly in its own alphabet, now THAT would be fun. [Roll Eyes] [Big Grin] [Big Grin]

Actually, spelling Arabic is easier than spelling many other languages because there is exactly one letter for each sound, whereas in English, German, French etc. one sound can be represented by several letters. That's one of the things I really love about Arabic, and that's why I always recommend that people learn the script instead of relying on transcriptions.

Writing by dictation in Arabic is much easier than doing it in German, or English, for example.

That said -- if I can't write or spell a language halfway decently, I wouldn't write in that language on a public board.
(I'm generally speaking here, not in reference to the original poster.) For example, I would be able to follow the gist of a discussion on a French board, but if I wrote a post, it would probably contain several grammar or spelling mistakes, so why would I do that? I'd either learn the language properly, or go to a board where I can express myself better in my own language.

quote:
Originally posted by madame f:
yes we are being biatchy princesses.But we are always in matching colors so who cares?

[Big Grin]

Actually, I am perfectly color coordinated at the moment, wearing a lovely combination of black, purple, and lilac, plus Egyptian silver jewelry. Now I wonder if that classifies as "simple, matched colors" ...

[Razz] [Razz] [Razz]
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
^^^ Agreed.

I give props to moro for trying to write in English but I can't help but find his errors humorous. I would expect the same if I attempted to write in Arabic. I get plenty of giggles when I try to speak Arabic. It's all good fun. I don't think anyone was being malicious by finding humor in moro's mistakes.
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Dalia the poster isn't going to wait for your instructions on what to do and what not to do, he's simply trying to express his thoughts in his modest english so that all you non-arabic speaking people could participate,.
Obviously if he wrote in arabic nobody would reply.
Now he's reached a conclusion about our forum and I don't think its a positive one..thanks to all the sarcasm he's gotten. [Frown]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Dalia were you in the DEO, when you were in Egypt ? [Confused]
 
Posted by Sashyra8 (Member # 14488) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:
^^^ Agreed.

I give props to moro for trying to write in English but I can't help but find his errors humorous. I would expect the same if I attempted to write in Arabic. I get plenty of giggles when I try to speak Arabic. It's all good fun. I don't think anyone was being malicious by finding humor in moro's mistakes.

I get a full round of loooooooll's every time i try my crappy Arabic,but i also have a go at myself and join my fun [Big Grin]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Dalia were you in the DEO, when you were in Egypt ? [Confused]

No, why?
I came here for work, not for going to school. Already had my university degree before ever travelling to Egypt. [Wink]

quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Dalia the poster isn't going to wait for your instructions on what to do and what not to do

Huh? I wasn't trying to give him any sort of instruction.


quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:

get plenty of giggles when I try to speak Arabic. It's all good fun. I don't think anyone was being malicious by finding humor in moro's mistakes.

Exactly. And you are right -- Egyptians often make fun of foreigners speaking Arabic.

Btw, that reminds me ... one of my pet peeves is when Egyptians address me with the male form of the verb. I was told that some people do that with foreigners, but I find it slightly offensive. I'm not a guy, and I'm not stupid.
[Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
Maybe you are stubid
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Dalia were you in the DEO, when you were in Egypt ? [Confused]

No, why?
I came here for work, not for going to school. Already had my university degree before ever travelling to Egypt. [Wink]

++So now it makes sense, I thought you were an Egyptian..but no, you're a typical German.

quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Dalia the poster isn't going to wait for your instructions on what to do and what not to do

Huh? I wasn't trying to give him any sort of instruction.

++But you sound like you're putting the rules for a poster not to even think of writing in a foreign language unless he masters it..typical German mentality.

quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:

get plenty of giggles when I try to speak Arabic. It's all good fun. I don't think anyone was being malicious by finding humor in moro's mistakes.

Exactly. And you are right -- Egyptians often make fun of foreigners speaking Arabic.

++Because they sound like nothing on earth.. [Big Grin]

Btw, that reminds me ... one of my pet peeves is when Egyptians address me with the male form of the verb. I was told that some people do that with foreigners, but I find it slightly offensive. I'm not a guy, and I'm not stupid.
[Roll Eyes]

++But they might think you look like one... [Razz]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
++So now it makes sense, I thought you were an Egyptian..but no, you're a typical German.

Not typical, but yes -- can't deny my cultural conditioning. [Wink]

quote:

++But you sound like you're putting the rules for a poster not to even think of writing in a foreign language unless he masters it..typical German mentality.

You're doing my head in, Dzosser! Why do you always insist on misinterpreting most of my posts?
I explained how it is for ME, not saying it is wrong for other people to write in a language they don't master entirely.

Typical Egyptian male mentality ... never listening right. [Razz]


quote:
++Because they sound like nothing on earth.. [Big Grin]
Nonsense. They don't all sound the same.


quote:
++But they might think you look like one... [Razz]
Ah -- you're one of those who think I have short blonde hair, a German accent and a military handshake.
[Roll Eyes] [Razz]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
++So now it makes sense, I thought you were an Egyptian..but no, you're a typical German.

Not typical, but yes -- can't deny my cultural conditioning. [Wink]

quote:

++But you sound like you're putting the rules for a poster not to even think of writing in a foreign language unless he masters it..typical German mentality.

You're doing my head in, Dzosser! Why do you always insist on misinterpreting most of my posts?
I explained how it is for ME, not saying it is wrong for other people to write in a language they don't master entirely.

Typical Egyptian male mentality ... never listening right. [Razz]


quote:
++Because they sound like nothing on earth.. [Big Grin]
Nonsense. They don't all sound the same.


quote:
++But they might think you look like one... [Razz]
Ah -- you're one of those who think I have short blonde hair, a German accent and a military handshake.
[Roll Eyes] [Razz]

Well we call a strict person in Egypt 3askari Almani..sorry no offence, but a German lady isn't the soft French or Italian chick we have in mind. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
a German lady isn't the soft French or Italian chick we have in mind. [Big Grin]

Yeah, I know lots of Egyptians have some weird misconceptions about German women. [Roll Eyes]
I am always being asked if I'm from France, Italy, or the US. Obviously my looks and persona don't fit their stereotype of Germans.
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Oh!! Is that so ? [Confused]


*NO WAY SHE'S TELLING THE TRUTH* [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
Dzosser
you dont need to defense
i used to ignore superficial people
they leave the topic and turnit to grammer class
 
Posted by madame f (Member # 9410) on :
 
Ok back to subject then.

What do you look like moromono?

What qualities do you have?
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
what do u mean by qualities ?
car , flat ,...etc or ?
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quality: a personality or character trait: kindness is one of her many good qualities.
...
An inherent or distinguishing characteristic; a property.
A personal trait, especially a character trait: "The most vital quality a soldier can possess is self-confidence" (George S. Patton).

Synonyms:
1. trait, character, feature. Quality, attribute, property agree in meaning a particular characteristic (of a person or thing). A quality is a characteristic, innate or acquired, that, in some particular, determines the nature and behavior of a person or thing: naturalness as a quality; the quality of meat. An attribute was originally a quality attributed, usually to a person or something personified; more recently it has meant a fundamental or innate characteristic: an attribute of God; attributes of a logical mind ...
 
Posted by Snapdragon (Member # 9036) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Seems all you people can offer is making fun of the poster, he's an Egyptian who cannot master the english language, which isn't a crime IMHO..let's see how you can spell arabic correctly in its own alphabet, now THAT would be fun. [Roll Eyes] [Big Grin] [Big Grin]

Shukran Dzosser...my thoughts exactly.
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
Sounds like a teacher in front of a class full of 5 yrs old children...with a waving finger and a punishing glance on her face.
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Yeah ! A german teacher wiz ze military WW II costume und ze spectacles und boots, holding a stick like in ze bondage porn movies. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Vader- (Member # 14189) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
a German lady isn't the soft French or Italian chick we have in mind. [Big Grin]

Yeah, I know lots of Egyptians have some weird misconceptions about German women. [Roll Eyes]
I am always being asked if I'm from France, Italy, or the US. Obviously my looks and persona don't fit their stereotype of Germans.

You must shave.
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Yeah ! A german teacher wiz ze military WW II costume und ze spectacles und boots, holding a stick like in ze bondage porn movies. [Big Grin]

Like Helga... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbU_NcyRbR0
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Questionmarks:
Sounds like a teacher in front of a class full of 5 yrs old children...with a waving finger and a punishing glance on her face.

That's exactly the image I have of many Egyptian men here, particularly in the religion section.
[Big Grin]
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
Look at this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yE6zn2JBayg&feature=related Hilarious...
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
poor fella! moro I think the word creative is perhaps slightly wrong in the sense you used it. It sounds more like you want a lady a bit impulsive with her own mind who is not worried about being seen as 'cut from a different cloth' to the majority of ladies in Egypt. Not that I am having a go at Egyptian ladies but as previously commented they are all very similar in how they do things.

OT One thing that stuck in my head since coming here is that EVERY Egyptian counts money exactly the same way, EVERY Egyptian ties a plastic bag in the same way [Confused]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Yeah ! A german teacher wiz ze military WW II costume und ze spectacles und boots, holding a stick like in ze bondage porn movies. [Big Grin]

Dzosser -- you need to stop entertaining those erotic fantasies about me!
[Eek!] [Eek!] [Eek!]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
Some more stereotyping:


You know you're German if...


...you separate your trash into more than five different bins.

...your front door has a sign with your family name made from salt dough.

...you carry a "4You" backpack.

...you eat a cold dinner at 6pm.

...you call your cell phone "handy" and a projector "beamer".

...you have no problems with nude beaches and saunas.

...you have gotten splinters from environmentally friendly toiled paper.

...you call an afternoon stroll "Nordic Walking".

...you are shocked when you have to pay for dental care.

...you own a pair of jeans in a color other than blue.

...people start talking about Hitler and Hofbräuhaus when you tell them where you're from.

...tenth grade was all about dancing lessons.

...you work 40 hour weeks and have 6 weeks of vacation a year, but complain about hard times.

...your childhood diet consisted of Alete and Zwieback. Your college diet consisted of Miracoli and Döner.

...you were educated about sex by Dr. Sommer.

...you yell at people for jaywalking.

...you grew up watching "Löwenzahn" and "Die Sendung mit der Maus". And Baywatch.

...you think college tuition is an outrage.

...you routinely go 100mph on the highway and tailgate heavily.

...on your last day of high school you made your teachers sing karaoke and jump through hoops.

...you wear brown leather shoes.

...your first audio tape was Benjamin Blümchen and Bibi Blocksberg.

...you have ended an English sentence with "...and so" and “..., or?”

...you can tell at least one Manta joke.

...you're a college student in your 11th year.

...your first sexual experience was on Sat1, Saturday night at 11pm.

...you spent hours in school learning to pronounce "th".

...you expect chocolate in your shoes on December 6th.

...you complain that in other countries everything is dirty.

...you ride against oncoming traffic on the bike path and yell "Augen auf!" to annoyed bikers.

...you argue for keeping the shops closed on Sundays so that those poor cashiers and shop workers can keep the sacred "family day".

...you think smoking is an expression of freedom.

...it is 36°C in the subway and you go around and close all the windows because of the breeze.

...you eat something called a "Currywurst", which has nothing to do with curry.

...you have a guest and the phone rings. You talk for 45 minutes to a friend while your guest waits.

...you are obsessed about protecting your private data... but answer the phone with your last name.

...the computer is part of your job and you type 100 words a minute. With only your index fingers.

... you expect at least 10 different flavors of bread (white, wheat, sunflower,..) when on vacation in another country.

...your international friends are annoyed that they are still described as an "acquaintance" after you've long been introduced as a "friend".


[Big Grin]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Dalia its been some time now that you take matters too seriously, loosen up your uniform and let down this blonde hairdo, vonder if you can see ze welt in a different vay vizout zose spectacles ??
Egyptians tend to be a minority on this forum due to zis sort of attitude you show towards zem. [Frown]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Tigerlily:
Some more stereotyping:

LOL, I love these. A lot of truth in there. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
The temperature is so low in your house that 2 sweaters is a bare minimum if you want to be remotely warm.
During the winter it's warmer outside than it is inside.
You open the freezer and are excited to find a container of ice-cream,only to open it and discover it's full of homemade soup or stamppot..
When looking in the fridge, you never trust that the yogurt or margarine containers contain what the label says.
You were green before it was popular. Why recycle when you can just reuse!
You have a pair of wooden shoes in your house.
Your china cabinet is filled with Delft.
You like pickled herring.
You've eaten oliebollen at New Years.
You enjoy chocolate sprinkle (hagelslag) sandwiches.
You have cousins who wear size 14 shoes and are over 6'4"
You wash and reuse plastic cups and plastic cutlery.
You have soup and open-faced sandwiches for Sunday lunch.
The most frequent phrase uttered growing up was "Turn off the lights!"
You get a chocolate letter every year for Christmas.
All the tables in your house are covered in tablecloths.
You like krokets.

You know that Vla is better than regular old pudding.
You drink tea with breakfast, coffee at 10 am, tea at 3 pm, and coffee again at 8 pm (with cookies or biscuits of course!)
You have an afghan knitted by your Oma.
You collect coupons like they're going out of style.
Your Oma had a calendar with everyone's birthdays & anniversaries spelled out in capital letters (bonus points if it hung in the bathroom!)
You've been known to recycle aluminum foil. And ziploc bags.
You own a special utensil that is only used for cutting cheese.
You know that Gouda is the best cheese ever.
You have at least 5 relatives with the same name (and somehow you always know which one is being talked about).
When you hear all the "new ways to save energy" you yawn and say "I've been doing that all my life!"

You eat your sandwiches open-faced. "What? You want another slice of bread? I'll make you another sandwich."
You rarely have both meat and cheese on the same sandwich.
You have never met half the relatives at your family reunion
You have 100 roles of toilet paper in your house because they were on sale.
You put a little water into the jar of tomato sauce and shake it to make sure you got it all out.
You have trouble shopping for hats. There should be at least two sizes: 'one size fits all' and 'dutch'.
You wipe the last of the butter out of the container with your bun.
All your cookies taste like almonds.

You make the bed in your hotel room.
You have lace on your windows but not on your underwear.
You like dubbel zout drops, and have occasionally tricked a friend into trying one.
You've put mayonnaise on your french fries.
Your kitchen is filled with milk bags drying, waiting to be reused in the freezer.
You have a spoon collection.
Your favourite mustard comes in jars that can be reused as drinking glasses.
You leave a window open year round to get fresh air.

You eat stroop waffles.
You love the colour orange.
You have a vegetable garden because there's no way you're paying that much for veggies at the grocery store.
Your fridge is always stocked with leftovers. Throw out food? Never!
You go to the "Dutch Store" because the smell brings back so many childhood memories.
You have pictures of windmills around your house.
Everything is Do-It-Yourself - it's cheaper than hiring someone.
You use "washandjes" (facecloths that you can put your hand into).
You own tea towels and oven mitts patterned with windmills and dancing women in clogs.

You call it "MELK" not "milk".
All your cousins have the same names as your brothers and sisters,because everyone is named after Oma and Opa.
And finally, you know you're Dutch when..
You're laughing along with this list because you can relate to most it!
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
BRUTALLY HONEST

"Have You Gained Weight?"

Don't beat around the bush in Germany. If someone asks a question, answer it honestly and expect the same in return. "Yes I have put on a few pounds," is the correct answer.

You've been invited over to a friend's house, and his grandmother serves you a cake she has labored over for hours.

Granny: I had to go all over town to get the ingredients. It's my own grandmother's fruitcake recipe, but you can't get pickled figs and horseradish syrup at the shops anymore!

You have three responses to choose from:

a) Oh, thank you so much. It looks lovely.

b) Oh, thank you, but I'm dieting. I can't eat cake.

c) I don't like fruitcake at all and figs make me swell up and break into a hideous, oozing rash.

If you picked a, you are probably English or American. And even if you can't stand fruitcake, you'll shovel it in to make granny happy. Many well-mannered (or quick-thinking) Americans may also have chosen b.

The third answer, though, is reserved exclusively for Germans. How, after all, can honesty be rude? Why on earth would you lie, say the Germans? You don't like fruitcake, why pretend that you do? And those figs could kill you!

In England or the US, of course, answer c could very well result in a rolling pin upside the head. In Germany, however, it's merely a standard form that human interaction takes. You say what you have to say and that's that. You meet up with a German friend you haven't seen for awhile and chances are he might ask, "Have you gained weight?" It's not meant as an insult, merely a polite inquery.

The bottom line is that the rules of human interaction are different in Germany. Here are a few of them:

Personal invitations of all kinds are to be taken at face value.

"We're having a party, please do come," means "We're having a party, please do come," and not "We feel rude not inviting you in front of these other people, but surely you'll have the grace not to show up." Similarly, "Come over to my house and we'll have tea," means that you should start planning a date and time for that pleasant event. It is not to be confused with the Anglo-American "We should get together sometime," which means "I hope I never see you again."

Yes means yes and no means no.

If you ask whether you can share someone's table (or borrow a pen, or get a ride) and that person says yes, that's the end of it. Even if the person does not smile or tell you to go right ahead, you do not have to ask again. Germans will be perplexed when you insist: "Are you sure? I won't be bothering you, will I? I'll just take this little corner and be done in a minute." For heavens sakes, they said yes already, and it's not like you're asking them to donate a kidney. Just sit down.

Preferences are expressed directly.

If someone offers you tickets to the opera "Siegfried," don't put them off vaguely: "If only it lasted just a tiny bit less than six hours, I'd love to go, but my schedule is jam-packed." If you don't like Wagner, or opera, just say so. Germans will not be offended that you have an opinion that differs from theirs. But ...

You may have to talk about it.

There are consequences for all this directness, and this is one. You may be asked why you don't want to come to someone's party or why you don't like Wagner, and then you must explain. You may even have to have a discussion about it, or possible a debate. But perhaps you can do that over tea. Would you like to come over some time?


http://www.spiegel.de/international/0,1518,416920,00.html
 
Posted by DawnBev (Member # 11276) on :
 
I found it difficult to understand the term 'toch' !!
 
Posted by DawnBev (Member # 11276) on :
 
OK, who tried eating the salt dough figurines???
 
Posted by Vader- (Member # 14189) on :
 
There's honest people and suck up's everywhere honey. [Smile]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Hitler und za economic crisis. [Big Grin] [Razz]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by DawnBev:
I found it difficult to understand the term 'toch' !!

Doch?
 
Posted by DawnBev (Member # 11276) on :
 
that might be it!
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
OK, so what was your problem? Maybe we can solve it here. [Wink]
 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
Aha this is where I get this trait from. [Smile] This is one of the traits that I truly like about myself. Not everyone appreciates it though. [Big Grin] It seems my father's side is showing through after all.

quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
BRUTALLY HONEST

"Have You Gained Weight?"

Don't beat around the bush in Germany. If someone asks a question, answer it honestly and expect the same in return. "Yes I have put on a few pounds," is the correct answer.

You've been invited over to a friend's house, and his grandmother serves you a cake she has labored over for hours.

Granny: I had to go all over town to get the ingredients. It's my own grandmother's fruitcake recipe, but you can't get pickled figs and horseradish syrup at the shops anymore!

You have three responses to choose from:

a) Oh, thank you so much. It looks lovely.

b) Oh, thank you, but I'm dieting. I can't eat cake.

c) I don't like fruitcake at all and figs make me swell up and break into a hideous, oozing rash.

If you picked a, you are probably English or American. And even if you can't stand fruitcake, you'll shovel it in to make granny happy. Many well-mannered (or quick-thinking) Americans may also have chosen b.

The third answer, though, is reserved exclusively for Germans. How, after all, can honesty be rude? Why on earth would you lie, say the Germans? You don't like fruitcake, why pretend that you do? And those figs could kill you!

In England or the US, of course, answer c could very well result in a rolling pin upside the head. In Germany, however, it's merely a standard form that human interaction takes. You say what you have to say and that's that. You meet up with a German friend you haven't seen for awhile and chances are he might ask, "Have you gained weight?" It's not meant as an insult, merely a polite inquery.

The bottom line is that the rules of human interaction are different in Germany. Here are a few of them:

Personal invitations of all kinds are to be taken at face value.

"We're having a party, please do come," means "We're having a party, please do come," and not "We feel rude not inviting you in front of these other people, but surely you'll have the grace not to show up." Similarly, "Come over to my house and we'll have tea," means that you should start planning a date and time for that pleasant event. It is not to be confused with the Anglo-American "We should get together sometime," which means "I hope I never see you again."

Yes means yes and no means no.

If you ask whether you can share someone's table (or borrow a pen, or get a ride) and that person says yes, that's the end of it. Even if the person does not smile or tell you to go right ahead, you do not have to ask again. Germans will be perplexed when you insist: "Are you sure? I won't be bothering you, will I? I'll just take this little corner and be done in a minute." For heavens sakes, they said yes already, and it's not like you're asking them to donate a kidney. Just sit down.

Preferences are expressed directly.

If someone offers you tickets to the opera "Siegfried," don't put them off vaguely: "If only it lasted just a tiny bit less than six hours, I'd love to go, but my schedule is jam-packed." If you don't like Wagner, or opera, just say so. Germans will not be offended that you have an opinion that differs from theirs. But ...

You may have to talk about it.

There are consequences for all this directness, and this is one. You may be asked why you don't want to come to someone's party or why you don't like Wagner, and then you must explain. You may even have to have a discussion about it, or possible a debate. But perhaps you can do that over tea. Would you like to come over some time?


http://www.spiegel.de/international/0,1518,416920,00.html


 
Posted by Elegantly Wasted (Member # 8386) on :
 
Dear you've been ruined by your society and it's females' superficial requirements. Qualities have nothing to do with what you own or can "bring to the table". It's your personal qualities. Those are most important.

quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
what do u mean by qualities ?
car , flat ,...etc or ?


 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Elegantly Wasted:
Dear you've been ruined by your society and it's females' superficial requirements. Qualities have nothing to do with what you own or can "bring to the table". It's your personal qualities. Those are most important.

My thoughts exactly.
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
Hello Ayisha :
thanks for talking about the topic

poor fella! moro I think the word creative is perhaps slightly wrong in the sense you used it. It sounds more like you want a lady a bit impulsive with her own mind who is not worried about being seen as 'cut from a different cloth' to the majority of ladies in Egypt. Not that I am having a go at Egyptian ladies but as previously commented they are all very similar in how they do things.

OT One thing that stuck in my head since coming here is that EVERY Egyptian counts money exactly the same way, EVERY Egyptian ties a plastic bag in the same way

;;;;;;;

'cut from a different cloth' cute descrition

i think u got what i need

so can u help [Smile]
 
Posted by Dubai Girl (Member # 15488) on :
 
[QUOTE]Originally posted by *Dalia*:
[QB] BRUTALLY HONEST

"Have You Gained Weight?"

Don't beat around the bush in Germany. If someone asks a question, answer it honestly and expect the same in return. "Yes I have put on a few pounds," is the correct answer.

This made me laugh! I am half german (dads side) and my grandmother was the most straight talking say it as you see it person I ever met. I never realised this was a typically german trait! lol
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:

Egyptians tend to be a minority on this forum due to zis sort of attitude you show towards zem. [Frown]

Which attitude, Dzosser?

I have stated that *I* feel uncomfortable communicating in a language in which I can't express myself properly. I have not said that everybody else should feel the same way or not post because of that.
There are lots of people on this and other boards who are happily posting away despite the fact that their English is anything but perfect. I don't think any of those people give a damn about my opinion regarding this matter.

Besides, as has been stated here, Egyptians often make fun of foreigners speaking Arabic, and so have you. So why is it ok for you and your fellow countrymen but not for others?

You've also tried to make fun of the typical German accent. I don't have a German accent at all, but even if that was the case, it wouldn't offend me because it's true ... that's the way many Germans speak English, and it does sound funny sometimes. So what? But people laughing about an Egyptian mixing up the "b" and the "p" and the sometimes funny results of that is driving Egyptians off this board? Give me a break!

There are many reasons why Egyptians are a minority on this board, I highly doubt that it is because of my *attitude*.

quote:
Originally posted by Dubai Girl:
This made me laugh! I am half german (dads side) and my grandmother was the most straight talking say it as you see it person I ever met. I never realised this was a typically german trait! lol

I have put my foot in it quite a few times when living in the US and also in Egypt and had to learn to change my approach to some matters. Now I try to find a balance between being myself and being honest but not offending people too much.
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by *Dalia*:
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:

this mean u didnt see a princess before [Smile]

Oh, I loved the story of Turandot as a child. You know -- the princess from 1001 Nights who had most of her suitors decapitated.
[Big Grin]


My five year old niece and most of the little girls I know love this princess very much, she's quite popular.

Maybe this quote isn't yours after all ?? It clearly reflects a sarcasm of a nasty nature that you cannot deny.
You'd be thinking that an egyptian must, by default, be dealt with in a sarcastic way, since he wasn't able to express himself the German way wouldn't you ??
I've no clue about your arabic capabilities, but I think the OP has a better grasp on it than you have, you're still a 'khawagaya' to us egyptians [Frown] , unless you're an egyptian who's managed to live in Germany for some obscure reason. [Roll Eyes]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Oh..for the record, before you start digging out the archives, only once did I go against an egyptian on this board, namely SLM..and it wasn't for his grammar or spelling, I later apologized for being a nasty brat to him, that's it.. nothing else. [Smile]
 
Posted by *Dalia* (Member # 13012) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Maybe this quote isn't yours after all ?? It clearly reflects a sarcasm of a nasty nature that you cannot deny.
You'd be thinking that an egyptian must, by default, be dealt with in a sarcastic way, since he wasn't able to express himself the German way wouldn't you ??

Sarcasm, yes. Nasty, no.

My sarcasm was due to the use of the term "princess", it has nothing whatsoever to do with the nationality or language capabilities of the poster. Not sure how you came to that conclusion.

There is something about calling a woman a princess that I feel is a bit belittling and derogatory, and I'm not the only woman on here who expressed discomfort with that. A man who is looking for a partner who is on the same level as him, who sees women as actual human beings and doesn't entertain fairy tale phantasies about them, wouldn't ever speak of a "princess". It's a term of endearment you would use with a child, and in that case it's perfectly fine.

The original poster might not be aware of it, he probably thinks it's somehow sweet to speak of a woman as a princess, and I know he didn't mean it in a bad way. But it shows that he has a somehow immature outlook on relationships and on women, and that will not make it easier for him to find what he's looking for.

Or, as another poster expressed it>

If you lower your requirements a bit down a human level and just look for a sweet, loving, pretty in your eyes girl - then im sure she will turn up insted of runing screaming away.

I have no intention of digging into archives, for what? [Confused]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
[QUOTE]Originally posted by *Dalia*:

Sarcasm, yes. Nasty, no.

Nasty, yes since your reference is of a princess in a fairy tale, that decapitates people.

My sarcasm was due to the use of the term "princess", it has nothing whatsoever to do with the nationality or language capabilities of the poster. Not sure how you came to that conclusion.

My conclusion came from the fact that in arabic we refer to the girl of our dreams as a princess,'AMIRAT A7LAMI'..and the man is refered to as 'FARISS A7LAMI'.. the knight or horseman of my dreams..

There is something about calling a woman a princess that I feel is a bit belittling and derogatory, and I'm not the only woman on here who expressed discomfort with that.

That's because your arabic needs polishing up.


A man who is looking for a partner who is on the same level as him, who sees women as actual human beings and doesn't entertain fairy tale phantasies about them, wouldn't ever speak of a "princess". It's a term of endearment you would use with a child, and in that case it's perfectly fine.

Again your arabic has deceived you.

The original poster might not be aware of it, he probably thinks it's somehow sweet to speak of a woman as a princess, and I know he didn't mean it in a bad way. But it shows that he has a somehow immature outlook on relationships and on women, and that will not make it easier for him to find what he's looking for.

That's from your german view point.

Or, as another poster expressed it>

If you lower your requirements a bit down a human level and just look for a sweet, loving, pretty in your eyes girl - then im sure she will turn up insted of runing screaming away.

This poster doesn't claim to master the arabic language or to have lived in Egypt.

I have no intention of digging into archives, for what? [Confused]

That's because I've hinted you not to do so.
[Roll Eyes] [Big Grin]
 
Posted by antihypocrisy (Member # 11915) on :
 
knowing dahlia since 3 years, dahlia is a not only a good woman but also a great woman .howvere she has some agressive response but you can find her at the end kind. i do not find this a problem at all.

what i find a problem is that she is affected by freemindist thoughts and deviant ideas about some stuff.
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by moromono:
Hello Ayisha :
thanks for talking about the topic

poor fella! moro I think the word creative is perhaps slightly wrong in the sense you used it. It sounds more like you want a lady a bit impulsive with her own mind who is not worried about being seen as 'cut from a different cloth' to the majority of ladies in Egypt. Not that I am having a go at Egyptian ladies but as previously commented they are all very similar in how they do things.

OT One thing that stuck in my head since coming here is that EVERY Egyptian counts money exactly the same way, EVERY Egyptian ties a plastic bag in the same way

;;;;;;;

'cut from a different cloth' cute descrition

i think u got what i need

so can u help [Smile]

I wish I could but i already have my Fariss Ahlami and I am a QUEEN [Big Grin]
 
Posted by weirdkitty (Member # 15365) on :
 
Jesus Christ, talk about dramatics.
Dalia didn't say anything that should be classified as "nasty". I'm part of a forum where the majority are American and they often laugh at some of my English mannerisms. When I met Sam's parents and attempted arabic, they thought it great fun (Sam laughs at some of my English, let alone my arabic lol). It’s not even something that happens between different countries. Many English people joke about the Londoner accent and the way they say things, just like we joke about the northern accents and their ways.
If I came on here (or any forum) and said I was looking for my prince charming, or knight in shining armour, I wouldn't act the wounded child because it made people laugh, and *shock horror* they linked to a cartoon picture. I’m an adult, and can appreciate good sarcasm!

And considering the OP is looking for a nonegyptian woman, I think it a GOOD thing that the girls here are showing him that most women will not go giddy at being called a princess. If he wants to call a woman that, he can find an Egyptian one, but if he wants a western woman, then he should know calling a woman princess will just get him ridiculed.
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
good points WK but the Brummy accent is the one made fun of, not the London one [Big Grin] [Big Grin]

soz Brummies [Razz]

dalia wasnt being nasty, I thought her post was funny and if anyone called me a princess apart from my dad I would need a bucket! [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
OMG, come on Dzosser, stop being such a

PARTY POOPER!!

We girls just had a little fun with the OP and it looks like you took things wayyyyyy more serious than he did and you weren't even addressed in the first place!

So just relax and take it easy - life's too short for such nonsense!!

[Smile]
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
*grabs Dzosser and dunks him in the Nile*
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
Ayisha the Nile is polluted, I'm now at the north coast Sidi Abdel Rahman, you can do your 'dunking' down here, that's if you can come out of that God foresaken Luxor. [Razz]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
TL..I understand that you're the one keeping order on this board, but when an egyptian is made fun of, please let me do my bit, you can do yours for Dalia if you wish. [Wink]
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Ayisha the Nile is polluted, I'm now at the north coast Sidi Abdel Rahman, you can do your 'dunking' down here, that's if you can come out of that God foresaken Luxor. [Razz]

*swims fast up the Nile, drips across Alex buying him concrete boots on the way, grabs Dzosser and throws him from the fort into the sea * [Razz] [Wink]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
There ain't no fort down here, but we've got the Italian WWII cemetry as well as the German, Greek and allied forces in Alamein, but no fort..sorry. [Frown] [Big Grin]

*Goes back to sip that cold lemonade, enjoying the cool mediterranean breeze* [Razz] [Razz] [Razz]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
Ayisha the Nile is polluted, I'm now at the north coast Sidi Abdel Rahman, you can do your 'dunking' down here, that's if you can come out of that God foresaken Luxor. [Razz]

Oh how lovely. Listen are you aware of a secluded light pink villa (at least that's what I remember) right on the water in this area which was supposed to have been built for Sadat but was never used by him??

If you do I was there - summer '95. [Smile]
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
TL..I understand that you're the one keeping order on this board, but when an egyptian is made fun of, please let me do my bit, you can do yours for Dalia if you wish. [Wink]

Okay, Dzosser, I tried the nice way. Now you'll see.... [Cool]

*TL is grabbing a broom from the kitchen cupboard*
 
Posted by Ayisha (Member # 4713) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
There ain't no fort down here, but we've got the Italian WWII cemetry as well as the German, Greek and allied forces in Alamein, but no fort..sorry. [Frown] [Big Grin]

*Goes back to sip that cold lemonade, enjoying the cool mediterranean breeze* [Razz] [Razz] [Razz]

*puts laxitive in Dzossers lemonade*

TL you will need a mop not a brush [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
TL the Sidi Abdel Rahman region is changing into a huge development of summer houses, hotels and malls, like this one.
emaar.

I'm right next to this mammoth project, that's like 3 Kms. away..don't know any pink villa. [Confused]
 
Posted by to_hell_and_back (Member # 16710) on :
 
Only beauties huh? Sorry but beauties well, we don't need to get guys from the internet...especially greasy foreigners. I take it ur not that much a beauty urself cuz well, look at u...ur desperately online looking for a woman when egypt is filled with them. Why can't u do like normal peopke do and just meet one of them? Either u are ugly, poor, or hear that this site might let u score with a western woman for ur own personal gain.

Btw...when one takes a quick glance at ur display name, its looks like 'moron'...but don't change it, it suits u well.
 
Posted by Tigerlily (Member # 3567) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by to_hell_and_back:


Btw...when one takes a quick glance at ur display name, its looks like 'moron'...but don't change it, it suits u well.

Lol, since you said it out loud. Yes I also recognized that but decided to keep my mouth shut. [Big Grin]
 
Posted by moromono (Member # 16731) on :
 
Although you are not polite

nut i just wanna saye that
##we don't need to get guys from the internet...especially greasy foreigner
~~~who told u that !!!!
thousand of forigners likes egyptian guys
i already have about 4 friends married to forigners


####look at u...ur desperately online looking for a woman when egypt is filled with them
~~~plz read the topic well before sharing


####Why can't u do like normal peopke do and just meet one of them
again read the topic well before sharing
 
Posted by Dzosser (Member # 9572) on :
 
moromono's right actually, read the topic.. as for the greasy foreigner bit, I always thought this was an 'EGYPTIAN' forum...foreigners are welcome to join, while 'THE' fvcking foreigner gets the finger! [Big Grin]
 
Posted by Questionmarks (Member # 12336) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Dzosser:
moromono's right actually, read the topic.. as for the greasy foreigner bit, I always thought this was an 'EGYPTIAN' forum...foreigners are welcome to join, while 'THE' fvcking foreigner gets the finger! [Big Grin]

Colonialisation, even a message-board isn't safe for them... [Smile]
 


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