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[QUOTE]Originally posted by welsafty: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Undercover: [qb] So would it be fair to say to Ayisha and Dalia, to not ask any questions because their hearts are not open and ready enough to accept that women are inferior to men? That they first will have to prepare their hearts for this fact in order to ask further questions? [/qb][/QUOTE]When to ask , and when to delay your question There is a common logic when you ask questions, specially when you ask about things that is based on something else You can ask someone what is the capital of the USA, then ask what is the president of Mixico, But when you ask something like why, it is a different thing, the way question is not as simple as the WHAT question, If your kid asked you at the tender age of 3 or 4 years old how babies are made, there is no way you will start explaining the sexual production systems to this young kid, You would either try to give him or her a very simple answer, the answer could be, like when mama marries daddy, babies are born, you could explain it without marriage, like , when mama and daddy Live together babies are born, Your kid could get smart and tell you, ok me and mama live together, why doesn’t mama have my baby?? What would you tell your kid then ? Me and my sister live together why doesn’t she have my baby ? Then you will explain to him that mama and daddy have to live together and be in love with each other Then he will tell you, I love my sister, why doesn’t she have my baby ? Then you will tell him when they kiss each other, then he would say I kiss mom, and I kiss my sister, The kid would keep asking and asking because all the answered you gave him did not explain to him why doesn’t he have babies of his own At one point you would have to give him a lesson in sex, and human anatomy, and also explain to him that he still have to wait till his body is mature enough Physically and emotionally to have his own babies, and of course you and everyone knows that a 3, 4 , or even 6 years old may not have the mental capacity to understand things like that, and the most responsible thing you would tell your kid is, I will tell you when you grow up, ( when you are more capable or understanding the answer), if your kid is solo persistent you could either ignore the question ( to protect him) or you could show him a pornographic movie so hw would understand how babies are made , or better, invite the baby to watch mama and baba make another baby, It is your choice how you deal with such questions The same thing when it comes to religion, certain things is not easy to understand unless you build the foundation that would make it easy to comprehend. And about Aisha and Dalia, they can ask anything they want, at any time, but if they understood Quran and that its is not advised to asking questions out of place or before it is time to get an answer, Someone who is new to Islam or still learning about it should not be concerned about something like Oral sex and is it acceptable or not, when they are still trying to understand the basics of the man/woman relation in Islam , they would be consuming there effort in things that would not help them , and the result could be confusion If someone came and asks me about Islam and told me he makes his living out of the interest his bank pays him for his money, and then asks about the lawfulness of banking interest, the answer may drive him away from Islam, and prevent him from understanding a lot of things, that may even result of him not even asking about banking interest, simply because by the time he feels the need to ask about it, he would have already found the real answer Those examples I just came up with from our day to day lives, on how could it be bad to ask about something , because the timing isn’t good for the question, But Quran went much further and explained to us how ASKING too many questions harmed those who asked, and the evidence is in Surah albaqarah, when it told us about the Jews and who they asked Prophet Moses to help them find out who committed a certain crime, prophet mosses simply asked them to bring him a cow , they didn’t like the answer, and they asked , what kind of a cow, Then he gave more details, then they didn’t like the answer, and asked for more detail, and more and more and more, till they reached the point that there is only one cow that matches what prophet mosses asked for, and they found it much harder to comply, even much more expensive, if they have complied the first time they ware told, they could have just got the Cow he asked for, and then any cow would have worked just find, The more details they asked for, the more liability they got, The same logic could be applied, in your obligations to God according to your own understanding of your faith Because God judges us according to our mental capacity, the more indebt we understand make us more obligated to comply with what we understood We need to ask, we ned to know, but still we shouldn’t be hard on ourselves and jump from understanding why we need to pray and get ourselves into the details of how to distribute the charity, and who deserve a chair and who doesn’t, if you already know that you need to pay zakah, do it, don’t complicate things for yourself, after you have already reached the level of doing everything like praying fasting, hag, zakah, start asking for more detail, at this point you would be asking , how can I do better and how can I perfect my practice [/QB][/QUOTE]
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