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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Rumicrazieluv: [QB] [QUOTE] You must have me confused with someone else. I have nevered argued about the niqab on this forum prior to yesterday. I don't force my wife to wear the niqab. I think you missed my previous post wherein I clearly stated that my wife wore the niqab many years BEFORE we were married. The niqab for her is a PERSONAL choice for her. I find it hard to accept women who want to show off their bodies and display themselves in a disrespectful manner. Like the Prophet Muhammad (may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon him) said about the signs of the Day of Judgement: "Women will be clothed but yet still naked!" I don't know if you have evered travelled to Europe? Everywhere you turn there is ludeness and nakeness. When are displayed like sexual objects. Topless pictures on billboard advertisements in the Metro (subway or tube stations). After about 11pm the televison is loaded with haram sex stripper programs. Phonesex adverstisements etc, etc, etc. The way women are treated and displayed in European countries can no-way in my opinion compare to what Islaam (and I didn't say culture or Arabs) says who women should be respected and treated. I can go on but I won't. Those who get the picture will understand my point and those who are from Europe or have visisted European countries will surely know what I am speaking of. Ask someone from Germany (I lived there for some time)asked them how many are treated there and viewed. Then come and talk to me. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- [/QUOTE]I wasnt addressing your decision with your wife. If your wife chooses to wear the niquab it is her choice, I certainly am not going to judge women who wear niquab as long as it is her personal choice. What I have a problem with is men judging women who choose not to wear one as immoral or having her husband force this decision on her based on his insecurities. If she is wearing the niquab based on anything else other than her feeling inside herself that she wants to do this is a violation of her rights as as an intelligent human being. Compare a NUN to any other religious catholic female. She wears a habit and has taken a vow of chastity and pledged herself to serve god. That was a conscious decision she made based on her inner beliefs.HER OWN DECISION(not shouting, just emphasizing). Does it mean that she will go to heaven while those women who chose to marry and have children yet are devout to god won't???? Of course not. Two different types of women, each making there own decision to follow different roads to get to the same destination.Common denominator- it was their own choice. As far as what your saying about Europe, No I have never been there. However, I am in total agreement with you. Women are defeating the purpose of freedom of choice and equality when they purposely allow their bodies to be exploited commercially for the benefit of men. I can be modest and still be free. I dress as I wish for my comfort and to please myself. However certain forms of dress are for certain occasions. Women are judged by what we wear just as men are here. I never dated a man who looks like he just rolled of the back of a garbage truck. Nor would I date one who has to get a manicure every week,buys all his face care products from macys or has to gel and style his ass hair. Modesty and personal care in your appearance does not have to equal exploitation. In the end its about personal choice sands, thats all. It's not about me degrading Islam, its just about perceptions and women having the rights to make their own decisions... [/QB][/QUOTE]
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