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[QUOTE]Originally posted by The Gaul: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Kalonji: [qb] [QUOTE] Originally posted by Gaul: Why is it that it seems to be a fad among some black people (especially younger ones in my generation) nowadays to quickly air the dirty laundry of their own kind... [/QUOTE]LOL, you think other ethnicities haven't noticed? Or that they are dependent on us speaking openly about it to notice it? The fact that you called it dirty laundry instead of being in denial tells me that you acknowledge the problem is there. The thing is, not confronting the problems head on but sweeping them under the rug won't solve them and will get us nowhere. I'd like to ask you, how do you suggest black people go about solving our ''problems'' regarding black male behaviour in the dating/family environment, if not openly discussing it? [/qb][/QUOTE]LOL, I could care less of what ethnicities notice or not and LOL, thats not the point. When I said "air dirty laundry" I was speaking in general terms and did not validate on whether or not it's true that a black woman is more likely to be beaten by a black man over others...all things being equal. Being there is actually a garment called a "wife beater" that comes from poor whites leads me to believe otherwise, but no documentation or reasoning was given other than MissJennifer's perception. So the ONLY thing I acknowledged was how these dirty "perceptions" seemed to be readily loudmouthed by our own kind while readily lauding the willingness to be in comfort with other groups. Which brings me to the next point. [QUOTE]The thing is, not confronting the problems head on but sweeping them under the rug won't solve them and will get us nowhere. [/QUOTE]Who said anything about any problems, be they real or just preceptions, be "swept under the rug"? Can't problems be fixed more effieciently and accurately "in house", or "in the family"?? Must our problems or perceptions be loudmouthed to white people on public websites with mixed membership, or on non-black radio or TV in order for them to be fixed? Do you lack confidence in that? Curious. The MAIN POINT was that, comparatively speaking, it seems black people are more prone to downing our own kind while being ready to acknowledge the acceptance of others VERY LOUDLY purely based on perception and speaks to a very weak attitude and confidence in our own amongst mine and the younger generation (at least this is what I'm seeing). I don't know of any other group that does this. You seem like a prime candidate for this... http://whatblackmenthink.com/?p=1328 [/QB][/QUOTE]
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