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[QUOTE]Originally posted by schatze: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Adoula: [b]Although am very patriot to Egypt, and I already posted so many posts saying that Egyptian men are not alone, and so many people around the world doing the same in tourist areas. Egyptians are friendly, hospitable and modest. They also have a sense of balance and moderation. But I will comment on your story. First U must know some points: 1- In general, most men think that single women travel alone to have a good time - not to be serious. 2- Young Egyptian men nowadays, have no chance for dating and marriage beacuse of the current economic situation. In a conservative country like Egypt, people raised beleiving in one thing, sex is a beautiful gift from God. These almost overpowering needs for love and companionship were put in you for a purpose. God meant you to experience them, at the proper time (which is marriage). And as the marriage age became 35 to 40 for men and almost 30 to 35 for women, they invented this Orfi marriage for this. I mean to have sex relation without hurting God. Did U got me, so this man was lier from the start, and I think U will never hear from him again. Good luck with another man. [/b][/QUOTE] ok, if this is the situation and he has lied to me from the start, what do egyptian women think of the way their men behave? are they ok with their husbands shagging other women and even marrying them? what do the mothers of these men think about having their houses full of these foreign women (on a rotation system hopefully, rather than all at once); are they accepting of what their sons do and if so why if it is so against their religion? - i don't know what is going to happen to my situation, my OH does not seem (yet!) to want anything from me other than for me to move to live in egypt - but one of the many things i find difficult to reconcile myself with in our cultural differences is precisely the fact that muslims are allowed to have up to 4 wifes so if i were to end up marrying him for real and moving to live with him in egypt i fear that he would be allowed by his own culture to marry other women and there would be nothing i could do to stop that - in my culture marriages are a monogamus set up and it is not acceptable to have extra-marital relationships (although it happens nonetheless i know)- i certainly could not cope with a situation like that but by then i would have given up my job, my home and my financial security to be with him. i have heard from him by text every day since (allegedly) he has been back home - of all the excuses he could have come up with, he would have had to be pretty stupid to make up this one, just in case it may happen for real! or is tempting faith something muslims do not believe in?? - thanx for helping me get some clarity <IMG SRC="http://www.egyptsearch.com/forums/smile.gif"> [This message has been edited by schatze (edited 05 August 2003).] [/QB][/QUOTE]
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