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[QUOTE]Originally posted by synthia21: [QB] Katrin, I know maybe I way too late to join in this, but I am right behind you girlfriend. I don't know how these women can be so brainwashed into thinking this is ok!! Most of you will hate or resent me for this, but I am glad the governement here restricts Muslim men from marrying more than once. I do NOT agree with this and it is just sickening how a woman can have her husband in her bed on "Mon" then he can go to his "2nd Wife" on Tuesday and then think he can return with the 1st one and jump right into her bed like nothing happened. I am sorry but ANY WOMAN that allows this does not deserve to call herself a woman. If my husband did this, not only would I divorce him with a quickness, but take half or more of what he owns and NEVER allow him near my children. Sorry ladies, but I DON'T SHARE. You want help? Sure, I can give you money, I can give you shelter, I can give you food, but my help does not include my husband. So I reiterate, I am sooooooooo happy the government restricts this. And also some states have also enacted a law or ordinace not sure, that an IMAN cannot even marry a couple in the Masjid WITHOUT a marriage license from the state. I am also glad for this. If I am to be called a "Kafr" so be it, it doesn't matter to me. Only Allah can judge me and I will be asked for this in the afterlife. But to all those ladies that DO NOT approve and are hurt by this, you don't have to put up with it girls, A LEGAL PRENUP is a good thing, such as I have done. In it you can stipulate if he breaks the agreemant of no "plural marriage" the penalty is imediate divorce, a monatary compensation ( A huge one), and reliquishing of parental rights. If he loves you, he will sign it. It is legal and binding. And trust me, he will THINK TWICE before he even contemplates insulting you with a second marriage. Now this is not a "marriage contract", this is an actual legal and binding document in the court of law. It is known that most men won't even adhere to whatever prohibitions you stipulate in this contract, so do the smart thing and protect yourself with a good pre-nup if at all possible. I did it, and I feel wonderful. But then again, I was very lucky to marry a very good man who understood my fears and accepts me the way I am. But hey, YOU NEVER KNOW. I apologize in advance if my comments offend the men or even the ladies, but I feel the way I feel and it is a personal thing. When and if you want to insult me, just think before you post. ONLY ALLAH can judge me and condem me. All these reasons that they give for allowing this is BS to me, sorry. These are just "excuses" clerverly disguised as reasons and luckily I can see right through them. Please don't urinate in my face and try to make me believe it is rain ok? No offense. If you love someone, you stick by them through the good and the bad equally. It's called LOVE. If the person is sick, you lay there next to them, if you cannot have children, you deal with it-TOGETHER. Becauase I can guarantee you this, if my husband couldn't have kids,was sick or whatever I would STAY WITH HIM and VICE VERSA. There is no excuse for this and it all BS to me, sorry to say. Because there is no way in hell that I would allow this, EVER. I would a million times would rather have a divorce or have him have a mistress, and not laugh at the sanctity of marriage by using it as a license to commit "legal adultery" because that is what it is, a "halal way" to have up to 4 women. So spare me the psychological manipulation becuase it doesn't work with me. As I said I was smart enough to safeguard myself from this and enacted not only a prohibition of this on the NIKAH Contract, but also in a US Court of Law Legal and Binding Prenuptial Agreement that prohibits this, and in the case he eeven tries it, there is a penalty, NO more kids, a large amount of money, half of his bussinesses, and an immediate non contested divorce. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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