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[QUOTE]Originally posted by anuna: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by shamila: [b]I am my husbands second wife, we got married on the 27th fast last year and I am finding things really difficult. He has 3 children 1 was born 3 weeks ago and I'm really hurt because I know that he loves her too and that they have children together. For him I left my family luckly enough my sisters are still in contact with me. I read up about that a husband should treat both wives equally but I don't want him to have sex with her he can support her and the children but sexually I don't want anything happening with them. I pray to Allah everyday to help me cause I am really depressed. A gypsy approached my sister about 3 months back and she said to my sister tell me what you want to know and I can tell you. My sister asked her how is my sister(at that time we weren't in contact)she said to my sister that your sister is safe and the man she married loves her very much and that she is living in a house. Then she said to my sister that your sister will have a son and when she has the baby her husband will leave his first wife to be with your sister. Shall I believe this or not as Allah knows everything and how can I come to expecting the first wife. [/b][/QUOTE] Shamila I feel for you. Although many muslims believe that all people born are born muslims and are diverted on to other paths as they grow up... this "Gypsey" has some points about her... That woman was there first and I am sure she feels the same way you do... and she just had a baby.. so maybe she will keep having babies to keep his attention off you and on her and the children. I see huge tension in your home. It matters not when it comes down to it wheather he can take care of you- now he has to no matter what- you can make big trouble for him if he does not... the thing that matters now is that you need someone who will give you all their love... be one family with you... not a family with you and someone else. I think that if you are truly unhappy I think you should request a divorce... he will still have to take care of you until you marry again (I think they still do that)... and you should give yourself a chance to study or travel... maybe you will find someone you really love and loves you just as much... can invest themselves in you and not two. Every woman deserves to be treated as a Queen and the only Queen. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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