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hi all i am new here ....my name is geregs and i see that here is alot of sad stories about egyptions and thanks for this site ..i might losse my girl friend and thanks for all my country ppl who make this ..coz now i am allmost lossing her trust on me ..and i want ur help just tell some of the good things about us not onlly nad things as u know that ur finger are not simmiller(the same) sorry if my english in writting is nopt good ............. now i want to marry her but she is still thinking even if she don't say ..but she still thinking bad about me and now i want to tell u and u judge me i knew her about 1 year and half and it was fast as usuall with any one ...but not that fast u can say i likied at frist i don';t want from her mony as much of will think i don't visa that much as many of u will think .... i just want to be with her and yes now i want to be in her country but not for stay there for ever just for enopuph time that we can have what will suport our life togeather she tell u that whil her stay here in egypt that i tried as much as i could to suport our life allon yes she helped with some mony but that wasn't the whall thing she hel;ped morre wioth her love to me standing beside me and now coz of thes storied which is here she starts to think bad about me ppl pls help us to styay togeather i don't need ur help in that onlly to stop saying that we are all bad just say some of us just like some of u the same r bad thank and u can say that i am crazy bye
Ayisha Member # 4713
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gerges, not all egyptians are bad, not all jamaicans are pimps not all americans are bush not all brits hunt foxes
you need to ask HER what YOU have done to make her think bad of you, this site alone shouldnt do that even with its bad stories. There will be some things she has in the back of her mind maybe even she doesnt see, talk to her and LISTEN to her
------------------ I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it
akshar Member # 1680
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When I first read this site i also had doubts in my Egyptian man. But we talked about them and then I realised I knew him and the people on this site didn't. Whilst appreciating this site it is not infaliable and I would listen to my own judgement not somebody elses opinion. We have been together two years now and I have never regretted that decision.
So try and answer your partners fears and worries truthfully and without making her feel bad for having them. Tell her the truth at all times and i am sure it will work out.
------------------ Jane Akshar UK Co-owner of www.flatsinluxor.co.uk Appartments and Tours in Luxor
Stacia Member # 3188
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Gerges, My husband is Egyptian and I am American. He didn't want any money, or a visa/green card, or to even live in the USA. We are as happy now, if not more so than the day we met. We have 2 children and all of us live in Alex.
I agree with you about all the "horror" stories of the bad egyptian men. People seem to post more bad stories than good which is sad, but Ayisha is right...there are bad people in every part of the world. That's just life.
Thinking back before I married my husband, there is nothing that I would've read on this forum that would've changed my mind about him. I think that if your fiance' truely loves you that she would not plan your and her future on some experiences that people choose to talk about, whether they were good or bad experiences.
Good Luck!
Karah_Mia Member # 4668
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Karah_Mia
quote:Originally posted by Ayisha: not all jamaicans are pimps
Ya, man! How r u girl????
gerges Member # 5675
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ok i was honest with her from the frist i tald her about all my ex releations and that was like hil after coz she all the time thinks that i am still with someone elss and she sometimes comparing her self with one of them my work is salesman in a shop ..as much of u might know bazar man ok and i meet each day new ppl i saw alot of sluts i saw alot of girls i was ..i repet i was with some of them but that was all over after i met her i tald her i even was with some one when i met her and i just couldn't i left evrry thing for her and been with her been with her with my mind heart body everything but now i don't why things coming on teh way i know that she is not play girl that one who looks for beter sex but i feel that i am not good for her coz all the time i have that problem monny problems i cann't gain alot not like other bazar boys but i just don' t know i need her to be with me i love her so much and yet she doughts me even if she don't say it but i feel it any way pray for us thank u
JOSHUA Member # 4946
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quote:Originally posted by gerges: i saw alot of sluts
and how were they?
azizah Member # 4126
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i feel that i am not good for her coz all the time i have that problem monny problems i cann't gain alot not like other bazar boys but i just don' t know i need her to be with me i love her so much and yet she doughts me even if she don't say it but i feel it any way pray for us thank u [/B][/QUOTE]
gerges, if she really loves you money will not be the most important issue. In the western world most of the couples share the expenses for living, who has most pays most and there is nothing wrong if the woman has more income. Of course if you want to marry her and start a family you have to know if you will be able to support/feed your family on your income. But first like Ayisha and akshar said before, you should find out what really worries her.
I wish you all the best may Allah guide you azizah
Ayisha Member # 4713
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gerges, azizah is right, if she loves you money doesnt matter, and if you love her money doesnt matter either. Mine has very little and supports his mum and sister but I love him and hes never asked me for money and he knows i would not take him to my country, i will go there. Hope it works out for you both
------------------ I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it
Ayisha Member # 4713
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quote:Originally posted by Karah_Mia: Karah_Mia Ya, man! How r u girl????
Karahhhhhhhhhhhh missed ya, how are you??
Hey, I got married
Back 1st Dec, will you still be there??
will call you soon
------------------ I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it
Automatik Member # 4457
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Ayisha - if she is, do you think that we could persuade her to come down to Luxor?
jaguar Member # 3378
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gerges.. Why is it that I sense that you are faking some Bad English- spelling and Vocab???
Ayisha Member # 4713
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quote:Originally posted by Luxorlover: Ayisha - if she is, do you think that we could persuade her to come down to Luxor?
we could always go there and drag her down to Luxor
------------------ I started out with nothing, and I still have most of it
Penny Member # 1925
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Gerges
There is a saying in English...what goes around comes around...... maybe now that you have fallen in love you will pay the price of fooling around in the past. Why should this girl trust you.... you have played in the past she thinks you are just playing now.
We all pay the price for how we live our lives one day. My prayer would be that this is a big lesson in life for you and that now you wake up and grow up.
Sorry to be hard but it needed to be said. Penny
melfenien Member # 4903
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gerges, getting married is a serious decision, so don't be surprised that she is hesitating - maybe she's got other reasons than you suspect. don't tell her all the time that you love her very much and that you're an honest man. Just behave in the way that she can realise it, DO everything to make her feel that she is wrong when it comes to her doubts. Remember that love is not words. They're only to make love more cute Good luck!
Kenzie Member # 3519
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Originally posted by gerges: i saw alot of sluts
quote:Originally posted by JOSHUA: and how were they?
LOL @ JOSHUA.
[This message has been edited by Kenzie (edited 23 October 2004).]
Sand In My Shoes Member # 6226
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I read your post today and I realize it has been some months since you wrote this, but I was wondering if everything worked out ok for you? I was in the same boat with my husband. He is younger Egyptian man and I am American. I heard the stories too, but I put my trust in him and am now his wife here in Egypt. He is good and kind like you. I was just wondering if you could tell us how you are doing with your girl now? (sorry you touched my heart with your plea.)
quote:Originally posted by gerges: hi all i am new here ....my name is geregs and i see that here is alot of sad stories about egyptions and thanks for this site ..i might losse my girl friend and thanks for all my country ppl who make this ..coz now i am allmost lossing her trust on me ..and i want ur help just tell some of the good things about us not onlly nad things as u know that ur finger are not simmiller(the same) sorry if my english in writting is nopt good ............. now i want to marry her but she is still thinking even if she don't say ..but she still thinking bad about me and now i want to tell u and u judge me i knew her about 1 year and half and it was fast as usuall with any one ...but not that fast u can say i likied at frist i don';t want from her mony as much of will think i don't visa that much as many of u will think .... i just want to be with her and yes now i want to be in her country but not for stay there for ever just for enopuph time that we can have what will suport our life togeather she tell u that whil her stay here in egypt that i tried as much as i could to suport our life allon yes she helped with some mony but that wasn't the whall thing she hel;ped morre wioth her love to me standing beside me and now coz of thes storied which is here she starts to think bad about me ppl pls help us to styay togeather i don't need ur help in that onlly to stop saying that we are all bad just say some of us just like some of u the same r bad thank and u can say that i am crazy bye
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