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[QUOTE]Originally posted by sonomod: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by odiab84: [b] You really think I am basically here to pick up girls?? you see, that's exactly what I mean. Do u always have that idea that Egyptian men are just trying to pick up girls even when they are talking serious?? anyway I am cute enought that I wouldn't need to pick up girls from the net <IMG SRC="http://www.egyptsearch.com/forums/smile.gif"> you said it would take a decade or even more to overcome that conflict. but did u ever ask yourseld a decade of what??? My answer is a decade of trying to understand the other's viewpoint rather than always accusing others that they are just trying to pick up girls. A decade of hard work to make people tolerant about accepting others in their communities. A decade of judging people depending on what they are not where they from or what colour they are. Let me ask you sonomod, when you judged me that I am only trying to pick up girls, what did u depend on in your judgment?? [/b][/QUOTE] Yeah, odiab84 I think your here to pick up chicks, no guy starts these threads without alot of IM contact. About the decade I was referring to. It takes a decade for a westerner/Egyptian couple to meld into a cohesive relationship to where both cultural standards are respected, regarded and influential in the marriage. Then there are marriages to where the wife has money. No reason for the Egyptian husband to force his religion or culture down her throat. He's been bought off. But when the relationship is on an even playing field then its really hard. My husband actually yelled at me one time for not being an Egyptian woman and that I had lied about being an Egyptian woman. When the hell did I ever tell him I was Egyptian? Never! In my opinion Egyptian let alone Arab men in general feel they are betraying their origins by marrying a western infidel. And mind you I have been trying to learn and understand the 'other viewpoint'. Not all westerners are so superficial and stupid. In that capacity you are generalizing and in my opinion harboring a insecure hate for the wealth of the west. Don't matter most of the world hates the west for being able and prosperous. For the last few years I have been reading so much. Trying to piece together where the tensions are between Mid-East and West, the Palestinian occupation's history, Misryan modern history, Islam, Coptic heritage, so forth so forth. I am now reading contemporary Egyptian literature that has been translated. My reading list is long and I try my hardest to stay abreast of current affairs of Egypt let alone North Africa and the Middle East. I don't see Egypt as a vacation spot, its not a place to get laid. Its my husband's and my daughters nation and heritage. My 'viewpoint' differs immensely from the Arab/Egyptian 'viewpoint' that life in America is easy, Arabs are superior to westerners (especially superior to Americans) and every Egyptian in America should be wealthy if he has a good wife. The only reason why every American isn't a millionaire is because Americans are lazy and stupid. Egyptian men think our streets are paved with gold and they should become wealthy within a few years here, if not its his American wife's fault. So obviously odiab84, you've never been to America. You probably hate us and think we are lazy, ignorant and stupid. So after living in the urban city where 60% of the people are white, myself being the only white woman in the neighborhood for years. Teaching ESL to immigrants for years as a volunteer. And being one of the few white employees in jobs I have been employed in for several years, I forgot what its like to be surrounded by whites. Actually this weekend I spent in Ashland/Bayfield Wisconsin. I saw only 7 people of color and I spent the weekend annoyed as hell. Its not natural. So instead of chastising me for being a racial freak, think. You don't know me. And yes again I think you are here to pick up chicks. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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