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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Debbie: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by nicky.b: [b]Hello Debby, Why do you say it's better not to go alone with that guy to his house,what can be the problem.I don't understand it. But i can need your advice.i met an egyptian boy three months again.he always asks me to come back.Normally i go to egypt again in january.He told me to buy just a flight ticket and that i can stay with him.I found it a good idea but if i read your story i can better not do that and look for a hotel room.I'm a bit confused and i don't know what i have to think about my friend and all this. [/b][/QUOTE] Dear Nicky, What can I say? Egypt isn't the west. I don't know where you are from, but Egypt is a different world, and while these boys you meet in the tourist resorts like to think of themselves as very westernized and of course they enjoy sleeping with all the girls that they can (as do western boys.... and girls... let's not just blame the boys.... western men/women/boys/girls find it common place to sleep around and don't think much of it). Anyway folks, I'm not playing judge and jury here.... do as you please, but Nicky, you need to beware of the implications if you do this. First, I don't know where your friend lives, that might make some difference, but regardless, Egyptians, IN GENERAL, I mean, EVEN the Highest class Egyptians, IN GENERAL don't mess around with anyone they really care about without being married to them. I don't know if you like this guy in a way that you'd be hurt if he never talked to you again after you left or if he only ever considered you good for "one thing", but if so, stay in a hotel. 100% sure, he isn't going to loose interest in you if you don't stay with him, IF he is interested in you now. I didn't mean to indicate that there is a great danger if you stay with him, although it's slightly possible that something bad could happen.....not so much with him, but with lowlifes in the neighborhood that see you as a slut, living with this boy without being married, and assume you'd bonk anyone that comes to the door.... this isn't necessarily going to happen, but it's a possibility. It's just so hard to explain to someone that hasn't spent much time in the culture here. Egypt is a country of contradictions, but in general, girls that travel alone are looked down on, and more than that, if you will stay with a man without being married to him, that is pretty much the stuff all gossip in Egypt is started from. You can probably count on being the topic of conversation among the neighborhood if you do take him up on his invitation. What's worse, is that it's totally possible that if you don't know him really well, he might be married on top of it. I'm not saying this is the case with your guy, but it's possible. There is one guy from Tanta that was talking to me this morning on Yahoo asking what I paid for my flat because his girlfriend is coming to Egypt and he wants to rent a flat for one month to stay with her. I really read him the riot act for being such a sleeze bag. I mean he wanted to rent a flat for only $200 for only one month. Any flat he could get short term for only $200 would be such a flea bag, the woman would have to be NUTS to stay there. YUK. Anyway, I rambled and rambled about this. So much with your guy depends on where he lives and how well you know him, but in general again, I wouldn't encourage you to stay with ANY man in Egypt at his flat unless it is where his whole family lives and his mother and sisters are there as well. If they are there, then nothing would be going on between the two of you, and if anyone in the neighborhood suggested there was, his mother would fix that gossip very fast! Monica, Laura, Nefertiti.... girls, come on and give her your side of this subject. What do you think? [/QB][/QUOTE]
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