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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Monica: [QB] Haqiqah..would you post an email addy please? Or..here is mine: monica_february_2003@yahoo.com Thanks! [QUOTE]Originally posted by Haqikah: [b]Let's be objective in our generalisations here Welsafty. 99% of Egyptian men, marry EGYPTIAN women. Only a very small percentage marry foreign women, and those that do have nothing to do with their ill feelings towards Egyptian women. You have just described a classic case of a man desiring what he can't have. There are a number of men that wish to marry a woman in a particular social class but can't 'afford' her, and he becomes bitter for whatever reason. However there are literally millions of women with much lower financial demands that he won't even consider for a potential mate. Realistically speaking, only women from higher social classes have these large financial demands you speak of. Namely it's because they come from families that will object to them marrying someone in a lower social standing. And so many Egyptian men and women typically value their families input, where some westerners don't. So he knows that if he marries one of them, they are 10 times unlikely to judge him by his social standards, as cross-class marriages are very common in the west. The small number of men that take women for their money is a very low class man, fortunate to meet a foreigner who is not judging him for what class he's in. But unfortunately he has taken advantage of it, rather than appreciate it. No decent man request money from women. Men are raised to become the head of the household, as such, he understands his position in the household. And usuall if the wife is making more money than him, he (a real man) will feel a role reversal and this won't be good for his ego, which is why MOST Egyptian men prefer to be the provider. Some men realize that they will not be able to have a sexual relationship with an Egyptian woman without first getting married. This is why some have resorted to Orfi marriages, as the sexual frustration while waiting to afford marriages has become unbearable. 2 of my brothers married American women they met in college. Not because they couldn't 'afford' Egyptian wives, they are both well off. They married because they fell spiritually in love. And this is what marriage should be about. Not sex or money. I sincerely wish some of these foreigners that are serious about marriage if Egyptian men attract you, will learn to avoid these gigolo, touristic type that are after your money. Not saying he should be from a wealthy class,because some of them lack morals, but he should at least me a man brought up with good ethics and open-minded to you being more well off than him, for the marriage to work without his ego interfering.[/b][/QUOTE] [/QB][/QUOTE]
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