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[QUOTE]Originally posted by akshar: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by katrina: [b]To all who love or loved assholes regardless of age difference! If you read Amina's story, do you think it was worth? Yes, poor girl did not know. She will make the best of her life going forward. But do you think it was worth it? You cannot look back now, but I am sure there were warning signs about that absolute asshole that could have stopped her tying the knot with him a few years ago. She could have spoken to his first wife and known enough about the asshole to realize what she realized now: he is an asshole! Look, she had plenty to say after te fact. I bet if Amina listened to her before getting married to such an asshole, she would have known that he cheated left and right in his first marriage, that he was a pathetic man. She would have used her head not heart, and would not have used her heart to fall over heals with this asshole. It is like in any decision, you do collect data and analyze it before making the cut. Trust me not 'what if" regrets would have been necessary! This man is not even worth her. If she did, by now she could have had a different man who could have been a better husband and father, and she would not have had to go through this hell. What lesson is learned here? That he is an asshole!? She was too good to learn that kind of lesson. Even if she met someone else not wonderful enough, had she not chosen the path with this asshole, I bet it would not have been any worse. If situation had been evaluated very critically, this nightmare could have been prevented, because people do not change. This asshole has not become asshole over night, HE HAS BEEN AN ASSHOLE ALL THE TIME. Sorry, dear Amina, to use your story as an example. Hey, ladies, at my 27, I do know that one's main objective is to avoid loving an asshole. That is not life worth living. There are beatiful places to see, beatiful people to meet, time is precious, and life is short and yes it is worth living, but not waste it on assholes. Your love is not worth assholes. Love for the sake of love is not worth it either. [This message has been edited by katrina (edited 21 August 2004).][/b][/QUOTE] She has a wonderful daughter so I think she wouldn't anything to change otherwise she wouldn't have had her. Pain is one of lifes rich experiences. How do you know happiness withou knowing sadness. How can you know joy without depair. You are so young Katrina and so dogmatic; as you get older and go through lifes experiences you will also find that people change and do become arseholes. That love can blind you to all sorts of faults, literally, research has shown that 'being in love' does affect our critical faculties. That a few moments happiness can be worth the later pain. What I have gone through has made me what I am today and I wouldn't change a single thing. I hope that your logic does prevent you having a failed relationship and suffering that pain but I wouldn't guarantee it. And I will tell you something else, if this does happen to you and you are hurt and in pain please come to me. I promise I will be there for you. For you it will be so hard because you thought you had protected yourself. I also swear I will never say 'I told you so' [/QB][/QUOTE]
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