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Just had a conference Sat. AM with women who have been conned by same Egyptian man at the same time; loving us all, promises of marriage, we are the only ones in his life, we are the givers of warmth , etc. etc. etc. What a shocking revelation! Am still reeling. Wonder how many more victims he has. I don't know how much info I'm allowed to give here...but I hope there aren't too many more broken hearts.....Hey! How do we get back at him!!!
* 7ayat * Member # 7043
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hi desert how are you? can you please email me at yasminefathy@hotmail.com its REALLY imprtant.
thanks
_ Member # 3567
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The devastating the truth must be also be glad and thankful that you got to know. I hope you didn't invest too much emotionally and financially into this jerk.
But you must admit the shameful his actions are I am impressed that guys like that can show off so well with organisation skills not to mention not to get confused with all these different women names.
Hey, I certainly think Egypt is ready to face a comedy movie like that. What a great idea of a script. ES has more than enough stuff to provide to make this one hell of a film. What do you think????
want2learn05 Member # 9291
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puppy Member # 6116
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Tigerlily I'm afraid,if they make the comedy, they will make just foreigner woman look stupid.. And egyptian man will be hero..or that it is ok to play with foreigner women..i think this idea is danger..i think what this country need is real stories..real picture of foreigner woman..that we are not with low moral,or unrespectful..we are normal women,like egyptians are.
Karah_Mia Member # 4668
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Desert and Want - why don't you give more info about this guy - more of his victims may be among the ES readers.
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quote:Originally posted by puppy: Tigerlily I'm afraid,if they make the comedy, they will make just foreigner woman look stupid.. And egyptian man will be hero..or that it is ok to play with foreigner women..i think this idea is danger..i think what this country need is real stories..real picture of foreigner woman..that we are not with low moral,or unrespectful..we are normal women,like egyptians are.
Hi Puppy, surely you are right. Maybe the movie should be produced on an educational base for female tourists coming into this country. Let them watch it at the welcome meeting upon arriving at the hotel - mandatory!
puppy Member # 6116
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Tigerlily good idea!
sonomod Member # 3864
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quote:Originally posted by puppy: Tigerlily I'm afraid,if they make the comedy, they will make just foreigner woman look stupid.. And egyptian man will be hero..or that it is ok to play with foreigner women..i think this idea is danger..i think what this country need is real stories..real picture of foreigner woman..that we are not with low moral,or unrespectful..we are normal women,like egyptians are.
They have made about 4 movies that I have seen with a subplot about Egyptian-Foreigner marriages.
They portray the Foreigner woman as loose, sick, unGodly, drunk, evil, manipulative, and against Egyptian culture let alone Islam.
Not a accurate portrayal yet and I don't think there ever will be.
While these movies portray the Egyptian male in this tryst as a fallen Muslim who redeems himself in full when he dumps the foreigner woman.
Men are never accountable for their actions in Egypt.
ICE MAIDEN Member # 9293
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THERE ARE JERKS IN EVERYWHERE! MEN!!!
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Aussiefem Member # 8588
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a couple of us are looking to set up a site to name these guys. interested?
cybercops Member # 6178
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There is a Russian web site that names and shames these artful dodgers
Dalia Member # 1230
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There's a German site as well that already does this.
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Aussiefem Member # 8588
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We need a site in English so if anyone is interested or would like to help you can email; peppercita05@yahoo.com
Aussiefem Member # 8588
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Hi Jannah- I haven't heard from 'him' for quite a while now. I suspect he is preying on someone else. Thanks for asking! I'm doing great anyway. Do you have yahoo?
Hugs
Elegantly Wasted Member # 8386
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quote:Originally posted by mustangsally123: instead of asking you to name this man, which I don't think would be right, could I ask you to say his age or what city he was from? Just making sure that "my egyptian man" isn't the one you are speaking of...
Elegantly Wasted Member # 8386
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quote:Originally posted by Aussiefem: Hi Jannah- I haven't heard from 'him' for quite a while now. I suspect he is preying on someone else. Thanks for asking! I'm doing great anyway. Do you have yahoo?
Hugs
I hate to say this but Egyptian men are famous for "disappearing" then reappearing a few months later to profess the same love and devotion that they had before they disappeared.
neffeertari Member # 9440
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i have a great story about this dissapearing attitude. Well, the great story happened to me after two years living in Egypt and sharing everything with him but also I know other storiess happening to friends of mine (guys and girls) who were foreigners living here as well... It is amazing the way they are scaping...and the way they are sticking on you at the beginning...
neffeertari Member # 9440
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I would say more: Egyptians are emotionally weak...thats why either they are obsessed about you, either they hate you with all their soul...they cannot find the middle point...and thats why their feelings are so weak and so unstable...
MagicMushroom Member # 9531
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Just want to say that I have heard many stories over the past few years about these men and their families and friends who go along with their stories to enable them to fool women and play with their emotions into thinking that they are the only one. Please don't think that all Egyptian people are the same though just a bad bunch that unfortunately either for financial gain or ultimately the all important visa to the west. I am willing to contribute any information I have to a site to expose these men but I will obviously require more details before I relate information at random.
neffeertari Member # 9440
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I am not saying that all Egyptians are like this, but there is a very big majority of guys like we are describing. And in my case, mine was not looking for visa to go to the West, but he was, like the big majority of them, too unstable and too childish to be committed. As I said, at the beginning everything is very easy, then this conflict about religion, family, traditions...come up and they are confused, lost and they just scape...
neffeertari Member # 9440
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Also, not all the Egyptians treating foreigners like this are low class looking to go to the west. Maaaaaany of them, are from very good families, trying to be open minded and behaving even worse than those poor guys trying to improve their lives. Believe me, I know what I am talking about...
Ahmed's Queen Member # 9487
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Guess what, there are men in America like this too! No matter where you go in the world, you're going to run across jerks. Most of the people I have met from Egypt are kind, warm, loving people. I would hate to think someone would think all Egyptian men are like this because MINE sure isn't!
neffeertari Member # 9440
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Let's wait and see...
MagicMushroom Member # 9531
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Ahmed's Queen. I do hope your man is sincere but please remember to keep your guard up. How long have you known him? It took me 4 years to see the true colours of people I considered my friends both male and female. Even close and extended family members go along with these relationships as they all benefit in some way with any relationship/friendship with a westerner. They are really good actors and from personal experience when I started having doubts I obviously turned to a member of his family who was so very happy to reassure me that I was so silly to doubt him, of course not, why do you think these things? Just to keep the relationship/scam going longer. But there comes a time when you decide enough is enough. Sorry time short will return later.
Ann-Lill Member # 9742
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Are this web-site made yet? I am curious to see if my "man" is among them yet...
akshar Member # 1680
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If you are wondering if your man is there doesn't that aleady spell the death of your relationship. It really has nothing to with his nationality, he could be Egyptian or Norweigan your brain has picked up on potential problems but your heart is over ruling your brain.
To go ahead now and just add yourself to the statistics is silly.
blackmagnolia2004 Member # 9802
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I want to see is my man is in a list too. and for Ahmed's Queen, be sure is not only yours, maybe is mine Ahmed
didi_elsayed Member # 4763
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hehehe blackmagnolia..i likled that!Yeah all these common names can make u play with your mind,for sure! Before i go to meet ahmed(my husband name is Ahmed too)but believe me its NOT yours,LOL,hehehe!So before i go to meet each other,when was checking the russian site,and Russian for me is like reading in Bulgarian...i was deep inside of me afraid,if i dont see his picture in there,lollll!With every Ahmed i was opening wide my eyes to see the pictures,lol! But thx God he is very far from these gigolos bullshits! I dont need to add myself in a site like that,but if you need any help girls,feel wellcome to inform me! Hugs: Didi
Ann-Lill Member # 9742
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so, do anyone have an adress to one of this sites???
curious!
zam05 Member # 9771
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The Russian site is www.kunstkamera.net , sure there are more, but I only know that addy.
MagicMushroom Member # 9531
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Does any one know how to view the black list? I can get through to the site but I can't see the option to view the list.
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