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[QUOTE]Originally posted by sharonstone: [QB] 1. You chose him, not another way around. Tell him that he was not virgin prior to your relation with him, so now you are not really sure if you want to marry him. See what he is going to say... don't give in, let him prove he is worthy. 2. Tell him - in your Culture you don't have to be a virgin ( although it's none of his business ) and if that bothers him - he is not open minded man and you want open minded husband thus regardless of all - you don't want to marry him - let him convince you otherwise. 3. Find another boyfriend. He is not the only man on Earth. He needs to respect you according to your Culture and if he doesn't - dump him, don't marry him, there are tons of men who have more to offer than he. He is not a Saint. 4. Does he have a great education, good Career, and excellent job or he is very poor? This is crucial to even consider him as your husband. If he says yes he has Degree, ask him what university and what year he graduated, if he tells you he has a job, ask him where does he work, name of the company and what does he do etc.... ask for real information - dont believe him anything unless he tells you real info that you can basically check yourself. 5. Ask him, does he have his own appartment ( what's the address? ) and if he lives independently and on his own, or he lives with Mommy and Daddy? ( what's the address? ) 6. Ask him, if he can actually fly to your country with his family so you can actually meet them and introduce them to you father and mother, and ... don't give him any money, tell him he can prove his love by working hard and earning money to actaully accomplish what you asked him, and make that trip - otherwise - he doesn't really love you. 7. Tell him - you can't marry him **unless** he has it all, and that he must prove to you 1st that he is worthy and that you can in fact have a decent living with him not necessarily in Egypt. See all points above. Give him time frame - 6 months - otherwise - you are looking for another man who has it all! After you ask him all this, come back here and post his answers, and we will help you determine is he a loser, or he is a good candidate to marry and have children with... We can't tell you for sure but we can tell you - probabilities! :) :D Good luck. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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