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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ?????: [QB] No, I don`t think so. And I also think that you have to make up your mind and take distance from him. You`ve brought this issue before, and you know that we`ve heard similar stories before. Your mind is blinded by your love, and you can`t take decisions in this state of mind. Try to take distance and think about it rationally. What did he ever try to have YOUR wellness in mind? Do you think it`s fair let a woman believe there is a future for you two together when he knows that you will never be accepted by his people, even in other Arabic countries? All what he has given you are words. Sweet words. But no actions. He tells you that he can`t marrie, you and that he even has considered leaving Egypt. Considered. Not more, not less. It`s a safe way to let you believe his attentions are good.Because no action has to be taken, it are only words... Honey, I can tell you hundreds of stories. About Western women and about Egyptian women, who were held on a line. Blinded by their love for a man. And in the meanwhile all the man is doing is give you sweet words and take.... take your body, take your money, take all what he can get. I`ve seen several traumatized women, with big scarfs on their minds. Never been able to give their trust to any other man again. And that hurts. Please, think about yourself. What would be good for you, and for your children. Don`t let a man makes possession of your mind. A good man does not do this to a woman he loves. he would have your wellness in mind. And sometimes love means, let it go. Because it will destruct you. If that man really loves you, he would take you to introduce you to his family. To let them know you, to show why he has choosed you, so they can love you also. He didn`t do that, you never met his family, you don`t even know for sure they know about you. This is a red flag, also the fact that he allows you to pay for him. Make a list of all this red flags, and make a list with positive actions he has made to make this relationship work. Maybe it will bring clearness for you. Untill now you haven`t been able to make up your mind, even with all the stories about other people. You need distance and clearness. You need to know what YOU want for you and your children. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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