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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Miss Sharm: [QB] ???? - Thank you for your comments and I know that I have to give me and him some distance. I could tell you more about the situation and why I do believe his intentions towards me but don't want to give out mine and his life story over the net, I repect myself and him to do that. I am feeling very hurt at the moment because if he knew of his families values why did he get into a relationship with me? Yes, I know the answers but it still doesn't stop me from hurting. Ayisha - No I haven't met his family, the marriage think was something that me and him discussed between ourselves. I do believe that if they were to meet me that they could possibly change their attitude towards me, this is something that he says that if they are to meet with me then he is sure that everything would be ok, but he can't even take me to meet with them because they won't even allow for him to do that. We had planned to live in the UK because I feel that I can't up root my 2 children from their home, I also have financial commitments here. Yes, he is muslim and I am not. I know that the question that I put forward probably has been asked a million times before but just wanted some advice and the view point of others. I understand that his family will be wary of me and my intentions just as me and my family are wary of his. I think that one of the main issues that his family have is I have previously been married before and am now divorced - they might think that I will do the same to their son, if only they knew the reasons why I eventually divorced, but then they might think that I should have accepted my ex-husbands behaviour towards me. I believe that his family are worried that once he marries me that he will not be able to provide financially for them. He seems to work just to send money home for them. He is 28 years old but I don't think that he is the oldest son. I understand the viewpoint that if they marry a westerner that at somepoint they will also marry an Egyptian just to satisfy the family. However, I do believe that if he was to marry me and make our life together that it would mean that all ties with his family are broken and that they would not want anymore to do with him, he would be the so called 'Black Sheep' of the family. I am now going to have some me time with my 2 children and if this guy contacts me when he reaches his decision then great, but if not I have to get on with my life and become another statistic in the statistics of foreigners falling for egyptian men! [/QB][/QUOTE]
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