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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ahly: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Miss Sharm: [qb] Hi, Do Egyptian men ever stand up to their family because they want to be with the love of their life? I am asking because my guy and me are going through the issue of his family do not accept me even though they haven't met me yet! They want him to marry an arab girl because of traditional values, they say she will look after him and it won't cause any complications. I understand that his family want to keep things in Egypt and want to impose their values and beliefs onto him, but it just seems that he won't stand up to them. I have told him that I feel used by him because he must have been aware of their beliefs when he met me and that he wouldn't be allowed to be in a relationship with me and marry. How long did he really think that he could keep up the pretence that everything was ok forget to mention that I would not be accepted by the family. He has said that he has spoken to them and told them that it is his life but the family won't accept this. I am trying to see it from their point of view and do understand how they must be viewing me as a divorced/single parent with 2 children. This week I have had many long conversations with my guy and he does not know what to do - he wants to be with me and make a life together, but also feels a lot of respect towards his family. He is now even considering leaving from Sharm el Sheikh to go to another town because he has memories of me and him being in Sharm together and being very, very happy. He has even considered leaving Egypt all together and going to live in another arabic country. I have told him that he is running away form the situation and he needs to confront it. I feel that I am in a no win situation with his family because they won't let him be with me, then if he decides to leave from Egypt they still won't like me because I have made him leave from his country. He says that he wants to be with me more than anything and that if he can't his family will have killed him. He also does not want to marry an arab girl as he says there will be no love or feeling there from him. I could go on and on explaining the situation more to you all but I think that you have got the idea of it. I am now giving him the space to think and reach his decision and can only wait and hope that he will contact me. This situation is causing me and him so much pain when we seem to have had so many dreams together. Do you think that he will ever stand up to his family? Amanda x [/qb][/QUOTE]Hello Ms. Sharm I was told about that site and It was interesting to go their and read what people think of us as Egyptian MAN  and how bad we are?  "That really aggravated me so much" My answer is: we are not all bad and also we are not all of us good. Same as all other European or western man they also have bad and good. But defiantly we are good in treating ladies. And that is the different. Dear any situation always have two side, so the best way always some times to get away from your side and tray to be in his side and see the relation with his eyes but to do that you have to know very good the Egyptian culture and how we think about, love, ladies and family and what that means for us? And if you mange to do that, you will get the answer you looking for and than all what you need to do just go for it. And your second inquiry about do the family prefers a western lady or an Arabic lady? Very simple if you ask any parents western or Egyptian they will always prefer a man or lady from same culture but that not means they will not accept the choice, they will but need some works and get their heart and after that they will be your parents for really. Love means sunshine, means respect, means care… means always have hope and just enjoy life and never let the sadness or hurt to get into your heart open your eyes and see the sunshine of life not the darkness of life, do not think we all looking for the green, blue, red what ever the passport color is….. Because the best color is green and that is the great Egypt passport. Tell me where you can find the moon shining on the great Nile? Except in Egypt so why any one will need any other passport? Wish you all happen and really that you can make your dream come true….. :) [/QB][/QUOTE]
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