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[QUOTE]Originally posted by xxbigkisses: [QB] it has been my experience as raising 6 children and american and then being involved in egypt in relationships and also marriage that the older egyptian families fear the things(or people) that they really dont understand. also these egyptian mothers pressure their sons very much and not only they r forced into responsibilties towards the whole family but also is made to feel ashamed and feel guilty, if they dont "do the right thing" or what "mother wants them to do". but it is the man who is matured and has left his mommy that is grown mentally after time. though he loves his family and feels somewhat responsible for them, they also realize that they themselves need their own life and love, with or without children of their own. it is the mature man that can stand up to his family, against their demands. with the exception of the parents being in such an elderly state and in need of money for nursing care. this man who has found love away from his family will stay with the one he loves.... unless he doesnt love u and then his affections will revert back to his family. just like any human being does when their personal relationship is failing or failed. the younger this man is the harder for him to leave his family. most time the older man needs love of a good woman badly and choose foreigners because they all tell me that they prefer them because they have the real love, whereas the egyptian women marry for title, status, money, possessions, etc.. with love being last on their list. i have heard so many complaints about this. in the end, there is nothing u will be able to do or say because any man is going to decide on his own what to do about any subject. all u can do is offer your unconditional love and give him your emotional support. nothing u can say can change his mind. believe me. ive had first hand experiences. if u belittle his thoughts on his culture or family issues, it will only push him harder away from u. deal with the loss the best way u know how. good luck..and move on with it, dont lag behind in life or u will feel left out. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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