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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Snapdragon: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Snapdragon: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Ayisha: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by weirdkitty: [QUOTE] Exactly! He had a orfi contract drawn up so they could play around and if "HE" is caught, he is covered with the orfi contract. For her, she simply would be asked to leave the country ... if there was no orfi. He will play her and in the end, she will lose. She will never listen so it's a useless. No morals .... [/QUOTE]You can't decide why people have an orfi, there are many different reasons. And orfi's are not just Egyptian with foreign, as many egy with egy use them too, for whatever reason. You think every orfi relationship the woman is getting played? [b]Well there are a few people on this site alone that have been with their guys for a few years, and have an orfi.[/b] Also, I'm pretty sure you are not asked to leave the country if "caught" with an orfi. They are not illegal, there are hotels that accept them, as well as flats. If for any reason a police man wants to see evidence of a marriage, showing them an orfi contract is sufficient- and this is in Cairo, so I'm sure in places like Sharm it is even more relaxed. [/QUOTE]How can something be 'illegal' if drawn up by a Lawyer and in many cases registered in a court of Law? yes there are MANY here with Orfi, registered or unregistered, for various reasons. I have a registered orfi and have been married almost 5 years, another here has just celebrated her 6th anniversary, another her 18th, all LIVE here. Its ok banging on about 'Islamic' this and that but how does a SECOND wife of foreign origin marry a Muslim man here in Egypt?? ORFI is the ONLY way. 2 Ladies i know, and there are more, have no choice but to marry Orfi as it is ILLEGAL for them to marry through their own Embassies. Are you going to now say they shouldnt marry a man already married?? no because that IS legal here for a man to have up to 4 wives (not going into the religion aspect of it here). Both these women have businesses and homes with their Orfi contracts. We have a flat in BOTH our names, rented and lease registered in court. I am not a 2nd wife and will marry in Cairo when it suits US but at the moment there is no reason to and finances dictate we cannot afford the cost of travel and accommodation in Cairo, if there was a way in Luxor it would have been done here. The ONLY difference it would make to our marriage is that it would be legal in MY country of origin, but I live HERE and my marriage HERE is Legal. Snapdragon, I do not understand your comment at all. How can 'he be covered by the orfi contract' and she be asked to leave the country? that makes no sense. I assume you feel I and these other woman have no morals either? [/qb][/QUOTE]Please read what I wrote again. I said if there was NOT an orfi document between them and they are caught <alone>, he would go to jail and she would have her embassy contacted and escorted out of the country. Since they have an orfi and if they are ever stopped and questioned by the tourist police, for instance, they would see the orfi contract and understand why he has it. Primarily, orfi's are drawn up between Egyptians to allow one or both parties to keep from having retirement issues. When the orfi's are drawn up between Egyptian/foreigners, the lawyer involved (if they even go that far) knows what is going on and understands what the use is for. (to be alone with the woman in hotels, apartments etc.) The orfi contract has no benefits to the woman, such as; dowry and parental rights. It is also not recognized by other countries as a legal marriage. [/qb][/QUOTE]It seems you should read what you wrote: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Snapdragon: Exactly! He had a orfi contract drawn up so they could play around [b]and if "HE" is caught, he is covered with the orfi contract. For her, she simply would be asked to leave the country ... if there was no orfi.[/b] He will play her and in the end, she will lose. She will never listen so it's a useless. No morals .... [/QUOTE]If HE is caught HE is covered by the orfi contract, she would be asked to leave the country. THEN you added if there was no orfi. You gave HALF of one scenario and half of another, not the full of either. Now if BOTH were caught they would BOTH be covered by the orfi contract. You said nothing in your post about that nor anything about him going to jail. So as it happens its good that THEY HAVE an orfi contract which is ACCEPTABLE if they are caught alone, right? So they are NOT breaking ANY laws, right? Whether there are parental rights or dowry or anything else is thier business and they are both old enough and it seems WISE enough to know what they are doing and they have THEIR reasons which do not concern anyone else! Now I have no idea about you or if you are married or not and as its NONE of my business I wont ask about YOUR dowry, contract, wedding rings, parental rights or make ANY judgement on YOU for whatever YOU see fit in YOUR relationship. I suggest people stop judging what is none of their damned business. [/qb][/QUOTE]This is a public forum... A forum with a lot of bitchy, immature, ignorant, whine-assy people. People come him to give their input. That is what I did. IF you don't like what I have to say or anyone else, simply ignore it, if it bothers you so much. Just because you live in one of the tourist areas and shack up with an Egyptian...doesn't make you Queen of Egypt. Frankly, I do not give a damn about your opinion of what is or is not my business... :D Jeez ES has turned into a snotty European forum. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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