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[QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by amrssnowangel: [qb] My point wasn't thats why its common for Muslim men to marry older women(using prophet Mohameds example). My point is that he didn't allow age to make a difference in choosing who to marry. Allah brings people into our lives for a reason. Not every younger man will want to marry an older woman and not ALL will have honorable intentions. Its up to each to choose and determine what is acceptable and ok for them. Please take care when using our beloved Prophet Mohamed's (pbuh) examples to be sarcastic with. In response to a few of the posts recently. I won't go into detail but we HAVE discussed all these issues brought up. Im not stupid. EVERYONE should have serious discussions with their loved one prior to marriage on these and other subjects. Now before you all start on saying how can a 25 year old have a serious discussion....look at how many American 25 year olds are married and happy. How many of OUR parents were married. I'll bet they had these "serious" grown up discussions before marriage. If our chances of making it are 50/50...then we intend to WORK to be the 50 that MAKE it. I agree..there are many young egyptian men that DO want visa only or money. But, if you really take time to talk to them, you can see this. Its not hard if you aren't blinded by it. When one asks how fast he can get a visa, how fast can you marry him...if he borrows money...has sick relatives he needs help with...when its TO easy to be OPEN with parents and they AGREE right up front...I'd wonder if they are supporting his visa efforts. To me the fact that we HAD to be careful says that his parents have no desire for him to want visa only. His waiting to ask for marriage, his fears of travel to America...his never asking for money...his consistancy, his ability to work his way to make sure i never pay...to be able to stand up to others for what he wants...to feel its ok to be mature enough to look beyond age, culture, looks...its all i needed to know I have a gem. So, go ahead with your opinions and comments...I KNOW what I have. I only hope and pray that Allah has blessed you each with the love and light in your lives that I have been blessed with. Salam Alaikum... [/qb][/QUOTE]are you muslim? [/QB][/QUOTE]
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