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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ?????: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Récif corallien: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by ?????: [qb] Ah, Great Barreer Reef, don`t you think this is kind of nonsence? What about the professional counsellors/coaches, you also think they can`t advice you because they were not in the same situation? Giving good advices is a speciality, based on empathy,(communication) skills, and life expierence. Even people who have been in the same situation don`t necesarrely have to be good advicors, it depend on the way they look back on what happened, and what they did with this expierence.(mentally) Every heavy expierence in life has to be processed in a way that different views on the same subject are possible. The sense to relativate, to be aware that there is not one person to blame, but that they also have made mistakes themselves.When it became a learning-expierence and considered to view in a positive way, because it has made them a stronger person. It`s not only in relationships but in all problems that can occure... [/qb][/QUOTE]well the thing is these trained counsellors will have had training not like the members here. I don't doubt Akshar has met plenty women in this situation, I am sure there are plenty who's marriages failed, but does she know how many survived? NO!! I am sure that plenty do. They just don't post here. They have no misery to share. Amrsangel was one who made that mistake, she wanted to share a good feeling, but that is not why many members here log on is it. They would rather share in someones misery, than their happiness, and that is sad. Someone asked if they would like their own son to marry a much older woman. Well to tell you the truth if it made my son happy then that is just fine by me. To have Demi Moore as a daughter in law would be no big hardship. [/qb][/QUOTE]First, you don`t know anything about age, occupation and expierence from the members here.Only what they`ve made public, nothing more. What if members are indeed professionals ? Second,living in a touristic area like Akshar does, is ALSO giving a very limited view on Egyptian society, just like living in only one particular level does. You really ONLY can give a GLOBAL indication when you`ve lived in the different levels of an society.For the rest it`s a mix of personal habits and characteristics. Third, If I tell you that I`ve told some expierences to Egyptians who in first instance didn`t believe me? Because they didn`t had any idea how life is going in some particular area`s, would you believe me? Even numbers of Egyptians can`t give opinions about all, because it simply is to far from their beds! Fourth,The only thing you really can rely on is scientific research. Numbers, statistics, lists, tables. They speak for their own. In my case my husband is not Egyptian, but by circumstances I`ve seen and expierenced a lot.And because I am there 3 or 4 times a year, I still see and hear a lot. There have been a lot of questionmarks to me, also because it was all rather eceptional. It intrigued me, and wanted to find the !`s after the ?`s. Right now I have a lot of !`s, and have learned a lot by age, occupation and expierences. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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