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[QUOTE]Originally posted by With a name like Smuckers: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by amrssnowangel: [qb] Well I have no clue where to start commenting. I can say that some of the comments made here and advice is good....its the negativity that is bothering me. Who says this relationship WONT work? And who is anyone here to judge my ability to determine wheather the man Im with is suitable for me? Im not stupid. I understand the risks involved. I understand that there are MANY MANY younger egyptian men looking to get out of Egypt and would marry anyone for that chance of Visa. BUT....not ALL would USE a woman JSUT for her VISA. These comments are very racial. Think of it. Think of the generalizations here that we've read. "Younger egytian men would ONLY marry older woman for visa"....wow, a huge generalization. Far more fair to say, a lot do. And then hope that I am smart enough to KNOW the DIFFERENCE. My guy has never asked for money. Never gotten out of line wiht me and never raced into a marriage proposal. I could see if after a week or two or month or two, he proposed, wanted to file immediate visa, informed his family then they just instantly fell in love with me and took me in without a thought...those are HUGE warning signs. Im proud of the fact my guy and I didn't rush to tell his family and that we were nervous about it...to me it means his family isn't pushing him to marry for visa and money. And you know...i know a man there in Egypt engaged to a WOMAN...the engagement was broken...why?? because SHE inherited a great deal of money with a cousin and they decided to marry to combine the inheritance. So its NOT just the men and its NOT just men with foreigners. The women there can be money hungry...and marry for wrong reasons even in their OWN country. BUT not all are like that. At least I can understand this concept. We all take a risk when we make a marriage vow. I know of american woman who married a man. Then years later found out he was gay when he ran off with his best friend. How is anyone to know the future???? We ALL face the possibility of failure in ANY marriage. I for one...won't pass up the chance to be with a warm, wonderful, GENTLE man. I won't give up happiness regardless of age, culture or religion. (hmm sort of sounds like discrimination to me to actually not want to be with someone simply because of age, race or religion...isn't there laws here to protect workers for that?? How much less valued is a loved one than a worker???) WEll that was my rant..im sure I'll face many more posts from the negative ones..but would love to hear from more positivly charged members too....... [/qb][/QUOTE]I'm sure you're going to do what you seem so strong in your heart to accomplish, but when he gets there and finds raising 8 children that are not his own and dealing with their boyfriends and girlfriends, school work, temper tantrums, sassy teenage attitudes and to top it off none belong to him, please come back and let us know if he left a note before he left or if you just saw skid marks. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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