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Is it ok if your current partner keeps in touch with his/her ex or ex's?
What would you do, or say? How would you handle this?
tina kamal Member # 13845
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well it depends!! if u and yr partner can be friends with the ex i dont see the problem as long as the ex knows his or her bounderies!! or for the kids sure i see y not!!
bettyN Member # 14096
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my opinion is this - if you have children together it is so important to keep a neutal relationship with the ex. But..if no children are involved what would be the purpose. It is better for your new relationship to cut the ties with the person completely.
Mrs Member # 14656
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I agree with Betty, only if there are children involved should there be a need for this.
Isis84 Member # 14716
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There are so many different situations that it is difficult to generalize ... Personally, I prefer to keep past where it was for both me and my partner - but of course, in our case there are no children involved.
didi_elsayed Member # 4763
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No it wouldnt be ok for me if he keep in touch with his ex.He never been married before neither have kids involved..or any other obligations to her,so he would keep in touch with her and i wouldnt like this anyway.The past must stay where it is if he dont want problems.I also dont keep in touch with my ex..and lets not to forget how jealous the egyptian men are..anyway it would make him crazy if i do this.
murray-mint77 Member # 13080
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Personally i say what i do, i expect back !! i always cut off any ex of mine as far as i'm concerned they don't exist its best that way. Wipe the slate clean and theres no marks to slip on in your new relationship, thats what i say All bar 1 my daughters dad. But honestly if i could he wouldn't exist either i only allow him to speak with her as he is in her life not MINE !!!! and thats how i like it,but he still tries the arsehole That is one thing i hate why can't some people get the message its over ???
trababe Member # 11777
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even if there are kids involved as there is with me doesn't always means there has to be contact, depends on circumstances, my kids don't have anything to do with their father as he wasn't good with them not even when we was together, and he still couldn't let go when my divorce came thru, he was constantly harrasing us, turning up at door even tho he had a restraining order against him , would call at all hours and made the kids scared of him now they don't even talk of him, if i mention him they tell me not to mention his name
MARRIED TO MY BEST FRIEND Member # 11226
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My EX I never want to see his face again
Somewhere in the sands Member # 13869
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quote:Originally posted by MARRIED TO MY BEST FRIEND: My EX I never want to see his face again
So would one be correct in assuming that you don't have any pictures of your ex tucked away secretly right?
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