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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sashyra8: [QB] [QUOTE]Originally posted by Bastet*Loves*Ptah: [qb] [QUOTE]Originally posted by elizabethN: [qb] what is considered old? Now a days women in their late 40's are having babies. This has gone on for years. My girlfriend had her first baby at 46. Not all egyptians want children either. It's a personal decision. Remember Akshar, BLP, RM you do not speak for all Egypt or are you wanting to except that some men from Egypt choose to Love and be with a women older then they are. They don't want multiple wifes and maybe they don't want children either. People are breaking the mold and it's about time. It's 2008! [/qb][/QUOTE]Hello Elizabeth. You are correct that not all Egyptians want children, but the majority do. While I have no hard numbers, I can give you a round-about off of the top of my head, probably 98% will. Now, if your man is one of those 2% then great, but you must be sensible and ask yourself if it is worth that risk. Is it? Making judgment based upon your own cultural upbringing is the kiss of death, based on Egyptian culture it is [almost] laughable for him to marry a woman much older and choose to have no children. It almost is not done. I know some men have married a woman/girl older than themselves, but in most cases the woman was still old enough to give him children. Otherwise he is divorced and does not necessarily want anymore children and can marry-up without losing his dignity or opportunity to be a father. It might not make sense to YOU but that is how it is here. An Egyptian man marrying a foreigner is usually done out of benefit to the man. This does not mean he cannot be a good husband but the litmus test is the children. USUALLY if he has children with the woman he is serious with her and views her in a high esteem as she is the mother of his children. That is the difference with foreign women who have children with Egyptian men versus the foreign women who do not. There are Egyptian men willing to make a life with foreign women and have and raise a family with her but they are difficult to come by. Most of the men marrying foreigners that I have seen or heard of simply want the benefit of the marriage and nothing more. In the end it is the woman who is the loser. You can view my advice as I speak for all of Egypt or you can view it for what it is, advice from someone who understands the culture better than you. It is the fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart. [/qb][/QUOTE]Right on spot words of wisdom,Bastet. :) Whether liked or not. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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