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[QUOTE]Originally posted by miffmiss: [QB] I dont think i could leave here for a month and i feel if i was going to do it i would want her there with me so i can see how she feels, thinks and settles etc. If i went over for a month without her it would be a false judgement. I could go over and have an amazing month out there thinking wow this is great and then bring her over to find out she hates it and wants to go home. When i next go it is only a holiday and she will be with me then. She will not know him as a lover or partner because we have not got to that stage yet. He will just be a friend so as to not upset her. I will not be giving up my apartment in England because then i have a place to stay when i come home. Although i do like your idea of only going for a month to see how we settle in. I could do this in the 6 week holidays. My job is safe for me to return to when i come home. No i would never expect his family to accept me or my daughter. But this something i face (in a lesser degree) in England. She has a large, close family. Except her father. We speak once a month but he has a new family and does not have time for her. She may even see more of him this way. Her grandparents well one side would visit a few times a year as they have the money and time to do this and the other side will see her when i come back to England. OK now i am talking like i am going to move there which so far i have still not deceided. As i said i am new to the culture and religion. I dont know enough about it and dont know if i beleive in any gods but i am open minded. I would not force any religion on my daughter but i would expect her to respect the culture. She is a very polite and respectful young lady and like me she adapts very well to new surroundings, languages and people. We are very close and if she is unhappy during the time we spend there i would choose her over him anyday. Thank you smuckers i do apperciate your comments. I want all sides and all the information before i do anything. I refuse to be lead by my heart and will think everything through before i do anything. Vicci x [/QB][/QUOTE]
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